Help my GF is pregnant
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I think the happiness that is brought to you by your children, is not something that can be bought with money.Originally posted by andros3110:think before u do it.
or else when u sleep, your child will be asking:
"Daddy, Mommy why you kill me ???"
"you don't like me? but I love both of you that's why I chose to be your baby"
Daddy, Mommy, Please don't kill me! it very painfull.....
Daddy, mommy, Arrrgggggghhhh !!!!
Help !! Help !! they are cutting up my arm.... pain pain !!
"Screaming" Arrrggghhh... they are cutting up my legs !!!!
Why? Daddy mommy why are u doing this to me ?
I Love Daddy and Mommy, that's why I chose you.
I will be good, I will bring happiness to you.
Please do not kill me !!!!
I want to live, I want to play with daddy and mommy.
I want to bring happiness to you both.....
How can you be so cruel to me.......
I LOVE DADDY and MOMMMMMYYYY........... PLEASE DON'T KILL ME !!!
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I have 3 boys, the latest addition are Twin boys.
It came as a shock as I know it will burden me and I financially I might not cope.
But this aside, everyday I see my boys grow, they have brought me anger and happiness. everyday I want to hear them call me PaPa.
My wife takes care of them at home as I work but sometimes I wish to be the one at home taking care of the kids.
cos there were thing i have missed. Like their first step.
the first time they talk, the way they play and learn....
Though a financial burden, I have learn to control my finances.
I take it as I am buying the happiness they bring me.
Even right now, if I have another pair of twins, I am willing to accept responsibility even if i have to cut off my right arm in order to feed them.
they are adorable, they will take some stress of you in this hectic world.
Think properly my friend. Her parents might willing to accept as grandparents love children.
Even if they are conservative, in the end they will accept when they see such fragile life.
U will also benefit and at the same time mature.
It is your gain. Life is short be with true happiness.
or you wish to carry this guilt thru your whole life. Will you be happy?
It's definitely worth it.
I'm so glad to know that you have 3 boys and love them.
Trying for a baby girl?
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Every hospital has doctors who will do it.Originally posted by Desmond Chow:My GF is pregnant and right now she is still studying in University and she plan to go abortion. Can anyone here provide info on where to go abortion all these and how much? Please this is an emergency. Only constructive comments. Thank you.
Since she's a uni student, I assume she's above the legal age to have abortions.
Just go around and ask.
Anyway, I won't recommend abortion... it's not good for health, both physically and mentally. Especially those who are religious...
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abortion is not a form of contraception.
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Since u dare to post here for help u are mentally prepare for some scolding so here goes: KNN. See i already give u some slack due to my believe that u are relatively stress out. I believe your GF is in a worst situation then u psychologically. She has to bare 99% of the burden of unwanted pregnancy. Please show her more care and concern. Take good care of her health too. After the operation please keep a close eye on her for some do suffer from depression.
Seem u are so determined for abortion do it quick, i dont care if u need to borrow or beg to raise the money, for everyone passing minute will make parting for yr gf harder. -
hey dun abort leh u are murdering a life leh, if her parents knows better. can talk things out right? calm down and sit down and have a good plan/disscussion ba
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no matter how conservative her parents are, i believe nobody is so heartless as to make their daughter go for abortion or disown her. unless threadstarter himself have no plans of marrying her.
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think it's far too early for them settle down with a kid. probably the kid will end up with divorced parents next time.Originally posted by Gordonator:no matter how conservative her parents are, i believe nobody is so heartless as to make their daughter go for abortion or disown her. unless threadstarter himself have no plans of marrying her. -
see my friends, the danger of premarital sex...
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Me just say be responsible for your act.
Sigh... another coward.. -
let mi start with WTF!?
her parents conservative so? tell them she pregnant den see wat they will do who noes wat will happen maybe they will let her give birth to tt child rite
if they dun allow just tell them tt u r going for an abortion lor then ask them to read tis thread make them feel guilty maybe they will change thier mind mah
anyway u b4st4rd sia hit jackpot liao dun wan collect ur winnings -
I'm Six Weeks Old Today Mommy
A Birthday Gift For Me
A Pair Of Big Blue Eyes
Through One Day I Will See.
Where Are We Going Mommy?
With The Rain All Splashing Down?
When It Hits The Sidewalk,
It Makes A Funny Sound.
Banging Through The Big White Doors,
Come People Dressed In Green.
If They Hurt You Mommy,
Just Run Away And Scream.
Help Me Mommy,
They're Tearing Me Apart.
There Go My Big Blue Eyes.
There Goes My Little Heart.
I Love You Mommy.
Believe Me, I Do.
But Most of All Mommy,
I Thought You Loved Me Too.
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Zzz..
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Cheapskate! Condom also dun wanna buy.
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Go for the abortion my friend but you need to be there to give your girlfriend mutual support and encouragement. Honestly, you two are only at the BF/GF stage. Neither of you have made any plans to get engaged or married. Keeping the child will be a burden to both your lives.
Imagine if you decide to keep the child and then end up splitting up. The child is the one who will suffer.
Don't listen to other people's sympathetic views on keeping the child. They may tell you to keep the child and rant about all the unethical issues. But at the end of the day, will these people help you raise the child? Will they share your burden? No. It's YOU who will face up to the problems that entail. The child is yours, the relationship is yours and the decision is yours.
It may be a life you are aborting but it's not a person yet.
I recommend you go to private clinics. It should not cost more than 1000 SGD. Your GF may be depressed for a certain period of time; it's important that you are by her side after the procedure. -
wa lan learn to shoot outside laOriginally posted by missqi:Asshole.
shoot inside just because got pleasure right.
dont want to waste $ on condom right.
HUOGAI AH.
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We're warning him of the effects abortion will have on their conscience and the girl's health.
Anyway, giving the sprog up for adoption is another option.
Money can always be earned again; guilt is permanent.
One doesn't know if her 'conservative' parents want the baby to be brought to term.Originally posted by philia:Go for the abortion my friend but you need to be there to give your girlfriend mutual support and encouragement. Honestly, you two are only at the BF/GF stage. Neither of you have made any plans to get engaged or married. Keeping the child will be a burden to both your lives.
Imagine if you decide to keep the child and then end up splitting up. The child is the one who will suffer.
Don't listen to other people's sympathetic views on keeping the child. They may tell you to keep the child and rant about all the unethical issues. But at the end of the day, will these people help you raise the child? Will they share your burden? No. It's YOU who will face up to the problems that entail. The child is yours, the relationship is yours and the decision is yours. -
Originally posted by philia:Go for the abortion my friend but you need to be there to give your girlfriend mutual support and encouragement. Honestly, you two are only at the BF/GF stage. Neither of you have made any plans to get engaged or married. Keeping the child will be a burden to both your lives.
Imagine if you decide to keep the child and then end up splitting up. The child is the one who will suffer.
Don't listen to other people's sympathetic views on keeping the child. They may tell you to keep the child and rant about all the unethical issues. But at the end of the day, will these people help you raise the child? Will they share your burden? No. It's YOU who will face up to the problems that entail. The child is yours, the relationship is yours and the decision is yours.
It may be a life you are aborting but it's not a person yet.
I recommend you go to private clinics. It should not cost more than 1000 SGD. Your GF may be depressed for a certain period of time; it's important that you are by her side after the procedure.
That's your opinion.
Who's going to help them bear the emotional pain of killing a life? You?
Oh please. If you can't see the hypocrisy in your words, let's not attempt to look like it's all hunkydory and all. TS has probably not even reconciled with having to own up to his misfiring ways, and therefore, there's no need to help him move on to the next easiest alternative. -
While physical health can be healed, mental wounds are hard to heal. You are not the girl, so obviously you won't know.Originally posted by philia:Go for the abortion my friend but you need to be there to give your girlfriend mutual support and encouragement. Honestly, you two are only at the BF/GF stage. Neither of you have made any plans to get engaged or married. Keeping the child will be a burden to both your lives.
Imagine if you decide to keep the child and then end up splitting up. The child is the one who will suffer.
Don't listen to other people's sympathetic views on keeping the child. They may tell you to keep the child and rant about all the unethical issues. But at the end of the day, will these people help you raise the child? Will they share your burden? No. It's YOU who will face up to the problems that entail. The child is yours, the relationship is yours and the decision is yours.
It may be a life you are aborting but it's not a person yet.
I recommend you go to private clinics. It should not cost more than 1000 SGD. Your GF may be depressed for a certain period of time; it's important that you are by her side after the procedure.
And there's religions issues to consider. Some religions forbid it.
It's not a matter of what her parents think, what the threadstarter thinks. It's what she thinks and if she would allow religion to guide her or go against her religion and do so. -
I like wat u say here, it's very true. Forcing them to give birth to the child now might just ruin 3 lives many years later.Originally posted by philia:Don't listen to other people's sympathetic views on keeping the child. They may tell you to keep the child and rant about all the unethical issues. But at the end of the day, will these people help you raise the child? Will they share your burden? No. It's YOU who will face up to the problems that entail. The child is yours, the relationship is yours and the decision is yours.
I agree that the couple really are wrong for not thinking of the consequences and resulting in this thing happening. However that doesn't mean they shd just accept the fact and give birth to the child without considering whether they are prepared for such a commitment or not. Wat's impt is that they don't make the same mistake again, ever. -
you want your girlfriend to have an abortion?
come on, i believe there is definitely another way out.
abortion brings nothing but harm.
you are destroying a life, and you risking another life.
ughs.
may god BLASTS you. -
i have to agree with this, imagine having a child but you're probably not able to support it. whats the point of bringing a life into this world and let it suffer later on? The girl is still young and in university, if she should carry a baby, it might be a burden to her future. Both of them haven't even thought about marriage i persume? It may be simple just to give birth to a baby but who can ensure its future if both parties are not even committed. Do what you think its best for all parties, even if it means an abortion in this case. However it does not mean you hold no responsibilities towards your girlfriend after this incident.Originally posted by UandMe:I like wat u say here, it's very true. Forcing them to give birth to the child now might just ruin 3 lives many years later.
I agree that the couple really are wrong for not thinking of the consequences and resulting in this thing happening. However that doesn't mean they shd just accept the fact and give birth to the child without considering whether they are prepared for such a commitment or not. Wat's impt is that they don't make the same mistake again, ever. -
Putting the baby up for adoption is the alternative.
Why are so many Singaporeans so dense as to think only raising a kid or aborting it as the only two options? -
i'm not supporting abortion, but be more realistic and think of the future, if its best for the baby to give birth in this kind of situation? if someone would take time and step in their shoes, i'm sure its pretty difficult for them as well...Originally posted by spicy_kimchi:you want your girlfriend to have an abortion?
come on, i believe there is definitely another way out.
abortion brings nothing but harm.
you are destroying a life, and you risking another life.
ughs.
may god BLASTS you. -
3 ways which i can tink of:
1: give birth to tt child
2: abortion
3: give birth den give to orphanage