Girls /Guys

• ha8n

  20 Sep 06, 23:09

  well being so long after seeing n couselling so many girls /guys in relationship's problems , heres a qn posed by guru :
  
  Before a relationship , do u "see" for yourself what kind of partner u like or
  
  u "prefer " others to say things about ur partner ( which at times may differ in ur judgement ..esp.for guys bcos they're not like girls , can say anything out under the sun when there r problems )
  
  share ur views in this hearty discussion as its subjected to individual
• M©+square

  20 Sep 06, 23:10

  
  
  I feel that mr guru should think through the question and rephrase it, for reader friendly sake.
  
  
• ha8n

  20 Sep 06, 23:13

  esp. when u know the person in a group of friends dude ..then will u like the person bcos ur attracted to her /him personally ,or u care by others judgement that the person u like is not good partner ..
  
  simple
• Bontakun

  20 Sep 06, 23:22

  Both the person and the friends has valid points for consideration. The person may like someone and see a certain beauty in that someone others cannot so easily see. On the contrary, the friends can see certain points of that someone the person cannot see and offer valuable comments to the person, but ultimately its the person's call to decide what to do about it.
  
  For me though, its way more than that though. But eh... too long to explain. Lets see other comments shall we?
• ha8n

  20 Sep 06, 23:30

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Both the person and the friends has valid points for consideration. The person may like someone and see a certain beauty in that someone others cannot so easily see. On the contrary, the friends can see certain points of that someone the person cannot see and offer valuable comments to the person, but ultimately its the person's call to decide what to do about it.
  
  For me though, its way more than that though. But eh... too long to explain. Lets see other comments shall we?

  of course Bont
  
  
• Ito_^

  20 Sep 06, 23:37

  minimanihom!
• NotFromVenus

  20 Sep 06, 23:43

  There is this Advertisement about a coach complimenting the Rich (fat) man's , Fat Son who is having difficulties with tennis.
  
  Hear only the good stuff.
  One day the person who chose to hear only the good stuff, will be hearing the real stuff and will have to weight the scales of the relationships. Including those who pass judgemental compliments.