I assume you've got to know her not long before jumping into a relationship?Originally posted by kuckuc:Hi,
Recently my gal always say very sian coz on the phone, we always chat about the same thing, or nothing to talk at all, so both parties become silent.
It has been a while...
Then she say do we have generation gap? If dont want to talk then hang up... When you have nothing to chat about or maybe chat on same topic whenever you see your partner, maybe he/she is not suitable for you.
I admit I'm that quiet type of person & do not often initiate topics.
Really worry...![]()
Why not try online chatting instead?Originally posted by kuckuc:Hi,
Recently my gal always say very sian coz on the phone, we always chat about the same thing, or nothing to talk at all, so both parties become silent.
It has been a while...
Then she say do we have generation gap? If dont want to talk then hang up... When you have nothing to chat about or maybe chat on same topic whenever you see your partner, maybe he/she is not suitable for you.
I admit I'm that quiet type of person & do not often initiate topics.
Really worry...![]()
its not a generation gap. both of you are at a plateau after a spike.Originally posted by kuckuc:Hi,
Recently my gal always say very sian coz on the phone, we always chat about the same thing, or nothing to talk at all, so both parties become silent.
It has been a while...
Then she say do we have generation gap? If dont want to talk then hang up... When you have nothing to chat about or maybe chat on same topic whenever you see your partner, maybe he/she is not suitable for you.
I admit I'm that quiet type of person & do not often initiate topics.
Really worry...![]()
Probably different issues... Going for a holiday can solve your current problemOriginally posted by kuckuc:difference about 6....
get to know her for around half a year before going into r/s..
in a week, we meet up for 4 days like that, somemore got chat on phone almost everyday...
i got suggest for going holiday, so need to save $$.
exactly. just remember this sentence. save the talking for dates.Originally posted by browniebaobao:if everyday talk.. will run out of topics de..
bad sign for u... but u reali hv to remember how u last time get her as ur gf... u know her interest then follow up with topics from there... where are both of u now? she sch n u work?Originally posted by kuckuc:Hi,
Recently my gal always say very sian coz on the phone, we always chat about the same thing, or nothing to talk at all, so both parties become silent.
It has been a while...
Then she say do we have generation gap? If dont want to talk then hang up... When you have nothing to chat about or maybe chat on same topic whenever you see your partner, maybe he/she is not suitable for you.
I admit I'm that quiet type of person & do not often initiate topics.
Really worry...![]()
a few warning signs to look out for:Originally posted by kuckuc:Hi,
Recently my gal always say very sian coz on the phone, we always chat about the same thing, or nothing to talk at all, so both parties become silent.
It has been a while...
Then she say do we have generation gap? If dont want to talk then hang up... When you have nothing to chat about or maybe chat on same topic whenever you see your partner, maybe he/she is not suitable for you.
I admit I'm that quiet type of person & do not often initiate topics.
Really worry...![]()
sms will will just fine on this occasion i feelOriginally posted by kuckuc:Thanks all...
Now it's better, as we don't call that often these days, but still we smses...
beavan: perhaps you're right, to think back, I guessed i feel like it's mandatory to call her even i have nothing to talk to her... just call to say "how are you today? how's work? etc..."
BrUtUs: Both of us are working.
A holiday might work, we are planning to go back hometown this coming public holiday, will see how things work =p
If you everyday on the phone with your partner, will you be exausted & run out of topic![]()