is it true ?
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heard from somepeople that first time relationship will not last is it true ?
when u are yr gf first bf..
had some problems with her hai..
when i ask her do you love me ?
She reply with don't know even we are together for 6 mths i know it's not long but if she don't know whether she love me y would she even want to be with me.. and she ask me back what is love ? I really don't know how to explain to her..
PLs i need some advise, I really don't want to lose her.. -
My 1st question. How WELL do you know her before you "pak tor" or dated her?Originally posted by wallace82:heard from somepeople that first time relationship will not last is it true ?
when u are yr gf first bf..
had some problems with her hai..
when i ask her do you love me ?
She reply with don't know even we are together for 6 mths i know it's not long but if she don't know whether she love me y would she even want to be with me.. and she ask me back what is love ? I really don't know how to explain to her..
PLs i need some advise, I really don't want to lose her.. -
i'm nervous during my first
and it last for a month -
well i know her for 2 yrs before we been together.. but that time I had another gf.. so when i broke off with B.. we started to hang out togther she agree too the time with me is special to her and very enjoyable to her..
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''don't know'' means low feelings for you. She is not really in love with you but she doesn't know whether she really loves you..so that's why she is still with you until she has no feelings for you anymore.Originally posted by wallace82:heard from somepeople that first time relationship will not last is it true ?
when u are yr gf first bf..
had some problems with her hai..
when i ask her do you love me ?
She reply with don't know even we are together for 6 mths i know it's not long but if she don't know whether she love me y would she even want to be with me.. and she ask me back what is love ? I really don't know how to explain to her..
PLs i need some advise, I really don't want to lose her..
You sound like you are asking for her love. It doesn't work. Because feelings cannot be forced. The more you ask for her love, the lesser it becomes.
I suggest you back off and wait for a while for things to clear up. In time to come, she will know the answer. Don't pressurise her. -
i think it's bcos of the lack of experience ba..
but i do know ple who marry their first love.. -
How well you know one person does not equate how long you know that person. Maybe she has some traits you find it hard to accept and you haven't found? OR maybe she still have not seen all of your characteristics?Originally posted by wallace82:well i know her for 2 yrs before we been together.. but that time I had another gf.. so when i broke off with B.. we started to hang out togther she agree too the time with me is special to her and very enjoyable to her..
Its like... for EXAMPLE, you have quick temper but she has not noticed till after some time you two are together. Then she slowly realised it and find it not easy to get used to it, then some probs arise.
When liking a person and wanting him/her to be our partner, we shouldn't just look at his/her good sides and neglect the bad sides. We should learn more about him/her and then see if we can accept his/her bad sides and love all his/her good sides. Of course this also gives him/her a chance to know more about us.
That's my comments on this.
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nope not true cos there are those who went all the way but there are also those who didnt so its ase by case.... guess its normal tat problems tend to occur in relationship but once sorted out things will be brighter... u are only 6months so u cant expect her to be full of love ma... it needs to build up la so jz keep ur head straight and remember how u managed to hook her and apply it lo...Originally posted by wallace82:heard from somepeople that first time relationship will not last is it true ?
when u are yr gf first bf..
had some problems with her hai..
when i ask her do you love me ?
She reply with don't know even we are together for 6 mths i know it's not long but if she don't know whether she love me y would she even want to be with me.. and she ask me back what is love ? I really don't know how to explain to her..
PLs i need some advise, I really don't want to lose her.. -
not true.
the worst thing can happen is dat the reason for failing is becuz u believe it will happen before it actually does. -
its juz a remark lah..
but if u continue to think in tt way, yes it will be true -
How ya been bunny?Originally posted by hopy:its juz a remark lah..
but if u continue to think in tt way, yes it will be true
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she's like only your second gf, keep it coolx.. relax and take it one step at a time...
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dun rush anything, i believe that u are already experienced enough as u have gone thru one relationship before.
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First time relation will not last, this sentence comes from many people, yet there are some who last throught their first relationship till marriage.Originally posted by wallace82:heard from somepeople that first time relationship will not last is it true ?
when u are yr gf first bf..
had some problems with her hai..
when i ask her do you love me ?
She reply with don't know even we are together for 6 mths i know it's not long but if she don't know whether she love me y would she even want to be with me.. and she ask me back what is love ? I really don't know how to explain to her..
PLs i need some advise, I really don't want to lose her..
In the current society, many girls and guys take their life partner as a way of support. not morally, but some finacially.
Your age must be young to think of such stuffs.
The problem tells only how this immature girl is giving you such a pain in the ass, that even kids know she is immature.
Take time, it doesn't mean that she is immature, the relationship will not last.
Have faith. And trust.
And not last but not the least cherish.
Tell her how important to you she is. =)
Use your own imagination.
Life's there with a twist for a kick, Why spoil it ? -
busy har.. damn busy...Originally posted by Devil1976:How ya been bunny?
no life no life -
Originally posted by hopy:busy har.. damn busy...
no life no life -
Originally posted by wallace82:heard from somepeople that first time relationship will not last is it true ?
when u are yr gf first bf..
had some problems with her hai..
when i ask her do you love me ?
She reply with don't know even we are together for 6 mths i know it's not long but if she don't know whether she love me y would she even want to be with me.. and she ask me back what is love ? I really don't know how to explain to her..
PLs i need some advise, I really don't want to lose her..
In this modern era (Aquarian Age), most people would experience between 2-4 serious relationships. I usually sum up the reason by claiming that that would usually be the typical amount of 'cosmic experience' required for a decent amount of personal growth in love before they could possibly 'graduate'.
I suggest that you don't go about pondering too deep over the 'lasting' issue, much more than an interest to learn more about the mechanics of Love and how it affects you subconsciously. I wouldn't say it's impossible for first love to succeed, but you shouldn't choose idealism over realism, should it not have the conclusion u desired.
P.S: We should always remind ourselves that different people we meet have different purpose in our lives. And most people are never the happily-ever-after. How complicated will it be if we have scores of potentials in that list of happily-ever-after thingy? Obviously, the rest will form the bulk of our 'growth structure', responsible for nurturing and maturing our mindset in love.
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Busy with what?Originally posted by hopy:busy har.. damn busy...
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work lor.. wat else...Originally posted by Devil1976:Busy with what? -
Originally posted by hopy:work lor.. wat else... It has been damn long since I see you around man.
P.S: My total post is catching up yours!
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does tt mean u more eng then mi? or u crap more then mi? or...Originally posted by Yunhaier: It has been damn long since I see you around man.
P.S: My total post is catching up yours!
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Wah rao.. my post is snail crawling one leh... you never post ma.. so I gradually crawl slowly.Originally posted by hopy:does tt mean u more eng then mi? or u crap more then mi? or...
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How long in this job?Originally posted by hopy:work lor.. wat else... -
so long liaoz still crawling? time to upgrade lahOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Wah rao.. my post is snail crawling one leh... you never post ma.. so I gradually crawl slowly.
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saduOriginally posted by Devil1976:How long in this job?