She insists on paying during the first date...

• Phoebie

  24 Sep 06, 15:08

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  I usually insist on paying for the girl.
  
  Usually the girl insists on going Dutch.
  
  Once or twice the girl insisted on paying for me.

  after that no more liao right? .
• NewAge

  24 Sep 06, 15:15

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  me always wanna pay but guys always damn ego one..............dunno why........

  U meet the wrong kind of guys. If its me i might even call u to pay for me
• kecang_puteh

  24 Sep 06, 16:54

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  me always wanna pay but guys always damn ego one..............dunno why........

  So, you wanna go out with me? I'm not the insistent kind, so you surely get to pay
• Fey Mae

  24 Sep 06, 18:20

  me the act blur type. i thank the person for the food afterwards.
• RK2029

  24 Sep 06, 20:46

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  Next time tell her to treat u after dinner coffee or next date her treat then can meet her another time ma...
  

  Good idea
• Devil1976

  24 Sep 06, 23:31

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  me always wanna pay but guys always damn ego one..............dunno why........

  It's ok, my ego not high one... You can pay for me too if ya like?
• beavan

  24 Sep 06, 23:38

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  It's ok, my ego not high one... You can pay for me too if ya like?

  i don't think she's that good
• #$%^&*

  24 Sep 06, 23:44

  Threadstarer, I think it's a good idea to insist 3 times only. Dont insist too many times. If after 3 times, she still want to pay, just let her pay. Otherwise you might even offend her.
• shade343

  24 Sep 06, 23:47

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  I believe in letting the girl do whatever she wants.

  What if she asks for a leg job?
• alexkusu

  25 Sep 06, 04:03

  I usually take care of the bill before it comes
• Darkness_hacker99

  25 Sep 06, 05:11

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  Went out with this gal recently and had a good time.
  
  At the end of the dinner date,she insisted on going Dutch.I said no firmly 3 times but she refused to relent.So I gave in and took the money she gave me.
  
  Should I have continue to refuse her offer instead???

  Last time when I buy drinks for the girl I like, she too also insisted to return me the money. The reason she told me is that she doesnt want anything gotta do with me or to say she doesnt want herself to owe me something.
  
  My heart bleeds when I hear that.
• Xcert

  25 Sep 06, 10:52

  Originally posted by NT2:

  shld play Fa Ru Xue song in the background

  why?
• SGpork

  25 Sep 06, 10:53

  since she insist then what to do? later dont want pple angry..
  okok lo
  or u turn 1 big round like say ..nxt time she pay this time let u pay..or say later ice cream or what she pay..but eventually u dont go lo..
  
  then she nv get to pay
  
  
  
  
• NT2

  25 Sep 06, 11:24

  Originally posted by Xcert:

  why?

  romantic mah
• RK2029

  25 Sep 06, 15:42

  haha
• Devil1976

  25 Sep 06, 16:42

  Originally posted by beavan:

  i don't think she's that good

  When girls insist on paying for me, I often don't insist on rejecting their offer one... At most I try to treat them some other things lor...?
• nanren4ever

  25 Sep 06, 21:56

  yea, if a girl wants 2 treat u dinner, treat her 2 movie/popcorn, sure almost the same/equal value liao