Still together...still held back
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You might recall this thread:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=171346
And after 15 months, we're still together.
Though we still haven't met up, the desire to do so is still there. 
But our parents haven't changed either.
We have only one chance to meet, from Christmas til New Year, and it'll be our only one for a very long time, due to her school term.
Over at her side, she might be held back because the relatives will still be staying at her house during the visit. And my mum still clings to me and won't let go.
Should we follow our hearts?
Thank you for your input. -
yes.
its now or never.
ur family will not disown u what.
so go for it baba!
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They might...for both of us. We hope we can avoid that outcome.Originally posted by missqi:yes.
its now or never.
ur family will not disown u what.
so go for it baba! -
Originally posted by Kuali Baba:They might...for both of us. We hope we can avoid that outcome.
why so drastic?
ur mom so hard-hearted ah? -
No pain no gain
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No idea why...Originally posted by missqi:
why so drastic?
ur mom so hard-hearted ah?
Though my other half's schooling, she's already reached the age where she can marry anyone she wants - and where her family is not obliged to support her financially. -
when the baby comes, everything changes
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Have faith.Originally posted by Kuali Baba:You might recall this thread:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=171346
And after 15 months, we're still together. Though we still haven't met up, the desire to do so is still there.
But our parents haven't changed either.
We have only one chance to meet, from Christmas til New Year, and it'll be our only one for a very long time, due to her school term.
Over at her side, she might be held back because the relatives will still be staying at her house during the visit. And my mum still clings to me and won't let go.
Should we follow our hearts?
Thank you for your input.
ITs something you must do.
Since you put so much into the relationship already,
Perserverance, or dispair ?
its your life,
but...
For my own selfish opinions,
Go for it =) -
Stay strong, bro. Take this as a test betwwen U and yr gf. See how strong is yr relationship. If yu really miss her, save enough money, buy air ticket and find yr gf without letting yr parents know.
Tell yr parent that the Goverment needs foriegn talents in Singapore. There's time which we shouldn't listen to parents beacuse sometimes their decisions will ruin yr happiness for the rest of yr life.
Me example, have being with my wife since 1991. My parents forbid me from falling in love with her. But they didn't know is that it's my wife that preventing me from getting worst of my life during the sec school.
Stay Strong Bro and good luck.
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Hi KB,Originally posted by Kuali Baba:You might recall this thread:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=171346
And after 15 months, we're still together. Though we still haven't met up, the desire to do so is still there.
But our parents haven't changed either.
We have only one chance to meet, from Christmas til New Year, and it'll be our only one for a very long time, due to her school term.
Over at her side, she might be held back because the relatives will still be staying at her house during the visit. And my mum still clings to me and won't let go.
Should we follow our hearts?
Thank you for your input.
If the both of you love each other deeply and think that you are meant together, just follow your hearts though the road will be difficult to change the mindsets of your parents and relatives, but they will slowly start to accept the both of you, plus you have each other to draw strength from -
i think it's time for u guys to meet.
and after u guys meet, if there's still chemistry, then by all means go ahead. but it'll be real difficult to start a life anew as one of u have to move to a new country. -
Long live Neville Longbottom/Luna Lovegood.
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Go go go. May the force be with u
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Originally posted by iveco:Long live Neville Longbottom/Luna Lovegood.
wth is wrong with him?
Nick, I think you already know how I feel about you and Kris...have a great time visiting your true love....hopefully when Mum sees she's not going to change your mind and are truly serious abt Kris she'll change her tune. -
Thanks for the support...it's much better than I'd expected (given the responses in the previous thread). I'll give it a go later.
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She just needs to learn to walk out of it...Originally posted by Kuali Baba:No idea why...
Though my other half's schooling, she's already reached the age where she can marry anyone she wants - and where her family is not obliged to support her financially. -
erm...wth?Originally posted by sgboy2004:when the baby comes, everything changes -
much much better. last time i heard some pretty mean commentsOriginally posted by Kuali Baba:Thanks for the support...it's much better than I'd expected (given the responses in the previous thread). -
I've made up my mind to go - on my own.
Now how do I deal with the backlash from an overly-anxious parent? I suspect though it's more than that - she still doesn't want to talk to my other half. -
go for it KB
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u can't have the best of both worlds right? well, it's now or never dude
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You have oni one life to live. Live it with passion.
Follow your heart. Better to have loved and lost than not to at all........
Wad u waiting for? GO! GO! GO!
And .......... good luck!
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Thank you for your support...but I need an answer to the question in my last post.
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Well, KB, over and above everything that's been said, the bigger issue here is that you're at the age where you're your own man now. Are you going to continue depending upon instructions from your parents, or are you going to start start taking some risks and developing the ability to navigate your own way through life?
If it's the latter, I don't see how your mother's in any position as a parent to deny life's natural progession. -
Wat's your mon problem with her?Originally posted by Kuali Baba:I've made up my mind to go - on my own.
Now how do I deal with the backlash from an overly-anxious parent? I suspect though it's more than that - she still doesn't want to talk to my other half.