3rd party

• joanne

  1 Oct 06, 13:46

  Anyone of you ever ended a r/s due to 3rd party, or had been a 3rd party before?
  
  Got a fren, she's hanging out with a guy who just ROMed 2 days back. They are behaving like couples, emotionally v attached. this guy told her that if he met her earlier, things might be different (as in he might choose her instead of the wife). Obviously it is a r/s that is going nowhere, but both parties do not want to give it up..
  
  anyone care to share if they have any similar experiences? no flaming pls!
• XciteZ

  1 Oct 06, 13:52

  Got, my ex gf she already got bf, but she went stead with me.
  
  I was stunned when I found out i was the 3rd party.
  
  in the end we broke up as I didn't wish to go stead with attached girl.
• kecang_puteh

  1 Oct 06, 15:33

  So far in my last 4 relationships, I have been the third party.
• FireIce

  1 Oct 06, 17:05

  Originally posted by kecang_puteh:

  So far in my last 4 relationships, I have been the third party.

  why u so heng?
• M©+square

  1 Oct 06, 19:27

  Originally posted by XciteZ:

  Got, my ex gf she already got bf, but she went stead with me.
  
  I was stunned when I found out i was the 3rd party.
  
  in the end we broke up as I didn't wish to go stead with attached girl.

  Wah gia Stead ah.
  
  how long ago sia!?
• Devil1976

  2 Oct 06, 12:45

  Originally posted by joanne:

  Anyone of you ever ended a r/s due to 3rd party, or had been a 3rd party before?
  
  Got a fren, she's hanging out with a guy who just ROMed 2 days back. They are behaving like couples, emotionally v attached. this guy told her that if he met her earlier, things might be different (as in he might choose her instead of the wife). Obviously it is a r/s that is going nowhere, but both parties do not want to give it up..
  
  anyone care to share if they have any similar experiences? no flaming pls!

  HI! LONG TIME NO SEE GIRL! HOW YA BEEN...??
• alexkusu

  2 Oct 06, 12:50

  About 30% of marriages today are from 3rd party rs.
• joanne

  2 Oct 06, 13:25

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  HI! LONG TIME NO SEE GIRL! HOW YA BEEN...??

  hello!
  
  okie loh, sama sama.. i still haf your no. Still the same one?
  actu i seldom post, but i do read the posts here on and off..
• darknessfall

  2 Oct 06, 21:53

  got so unlucky? i think just blinded by love or lust...such things dont last..
  and you become a marriage breaker..worse...
  so ask your fren to be on the right track
• carlsonxjd

  3 Oct 06, 11:39

  when such things happen. is hard to control. when u lose feeling for A. got feeling for B. bt due to long commitment to A. u dunoe which to choose. TADAH!
• <Precious>

  3 Oct 06, 11:47

  I have. But the facts of my case are far different from yours that u have described.........
  
  Y must be your fren and u so interested to know leh unless you=your fren +
  your fren=you!!!