life is boring without many close friends
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although i have many friends but most are those who have not been contacted for a long time
very seldom i go out with my friends and most of the time i go out on my own. you may be free to do whatever you want when you went out alone but it is damn boring you know
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hmm....ya.....true...in life...u need gd frends whom u can tok to when u r down...
try to send sms to ur frends...asking them how they r doing etc...u have to make the 1st move rather than wait for ur frends to contact u.... -
CC cooking class?
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All you need is the internet.
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I got 1 good friend and since we go to different schools, we chat online... with mics... man we sound like geeks... anyway, when we got time we play msn games and Dota... maybe ya should try that wif your exhisting friends...
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there are lots of way to widen ur social circle, but are u willing to open up urself is another pro.. bcoz it seems like u r one introvert person??Originally posted by ah-soh:although i have many friends but most are those who have not been contacted for a long time
very seldom i go out with my friends and most of the time i go out on my own. you may be free to do whatever you want when you went out alone but it is damn boring you know
any ways to widen my social circle?
surf net or read books and listen to music...
tats wad i've been doing..
but i do meet up with some of my gfs at times.
u do not need to have alot close frenz, one or two is more than enough. too many may cause headaches ...
cheers. stay cool.. -
I used to be like that, and sometimes now I also go out alone and stuff.Originally posted by ah-soh:although i have many friends but most are those who have not been contacted for a long time
very seldom i go out with my friends and most of the time i go out on my own. you may be free to do whatever you want when you went out alone but it is damn boring you know
any ways to widen my social circle?
But you gotta make an effort to change that. Be the one to organize gathering, etc, pick up a hobby and make new friends~
I suggest you meet some real human beings out there. -
i can be your close fren if u don mind hehe
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Go for sgforums outings..
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ah-soh, im also like you. i've always longed for a very close friend one which i can share my problems with to hang out with. im just waitin for that 1 person who have same interest as me likes places where i like to go..and you knw jus hang out..i get really bored especially when my bf is in camp or when he goes out with his friends..and i get jealous when he have such close the gd friends whom he knew for few years and still keep in contact and hang out together.
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they are many good pple around in this forum waiting to be discover
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ya ... i have very few friend too .. wondering how to enlarge my social circle.... haiz
wondering where can i go to make more new friends ... -
ya i am always alone de.. so boring..Originally posted by ah-soh:although i have many friends but most are those who have not been contacted for a long time
very seldom i go out with my friends and most of the time i go out on my own. you may be free to do whatever you want when you went out alone but it is damn boring you know
any ways to widen my social circle? -
most of those friends i got are just Hi-bye type. close friends very few.
most of them i get to chat with them quite regularly vis MSN messenger.
i am used to going out alone and doing my own stuff also. true that at times it can be really boring, especially activities like shopping alone.
perhaps you want to pursue a hobby? join some social activities out there, take some activities courses, enlarge your social circle. or maybe even become a volunteer. -
Better to have very few close friends. Less politics.
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org an outing....
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they dont org outing very often...Originally posted by d3sT1nY:Go for sgforums outings.. -
yes,that's the way. I'm in different school with a good frend,so everyday we chat online,talk bout anything that interests us.Sometimes meeting up. =DOriginally posted by MohamedF:I got 1 good friend and since we go to different schools, we chat online... with mics... man we sound like geeks... anyway, when we got time we play msn games and Dota... maybe ya should try that wif your exhisting friends... -
Making friends isn't the hardest part... often, it's keeping them.. Remember to keep in touch with friends once in a while, remember significant dates (VERY important), help out, do more listening than talking.. most of them will appreciate this .. be consistent and hopefully soon enough, everyone will want to be around you! ^^Originally posted by ah-soh:although i have many friends but most are those who have not been contacted for a long time
very seldom i go out with my friends and most of the time i go out on my own. you may be free to do whatever you want when you went out alone but it is damn boring you know
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my life has too many problems to worry about friends.
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I used to have a few close fres and my programs was all piled up during weekends.. but the thing is i feel so tired and boring doing the same activity, facing the same pple during weekend. now i tend to go out alone, as iin shop alone, watch movies alone. although it boring but i like the life i am leading now.. free to do whatever i wan.. so without meeting my fres in the weekends, i can fork out more time to visit my grandma, doing other meaningful things..Originally posted by ah-soh:although i have many friends but most are those who have not been contacted for a long time
very seldom i go out with my friends and most of the time i go out on my own. you may be free to do whatever you want when you went out alone but it is damn boring you know
any ways to widen my social circle? -
cant deny moreOriginally posted by huy:I used to have a few close fres and my programs was all piled up during weekends.. but the thing is i feel so tired and boring doing the same activity, facing the same pple during weekend. now i tend to go out alone, as iin shop alone, watch movies alone. although it boring but i like the life i am leading now.. free to do whatever i wan.. so without meeting my fres in the weekends, i can fork out more time to visit my grandma, doing other meaningful things..
as some good friends still have to spend time when the
really good ones u dun have to see often -
Friends are important - they keep you company from time to time but they oso have their own lives to live mah. So ultimately, it's still up to yourself. There's a whole world and life out there. It's only as interesting/boring what u make of it.....
You can make friends wherever u go wat. No need for a specific pool........
Mebbe u lack directions in life. Search yourself what your aspirations are, wat do u want to do wif yr life...........