Would you mind?
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Hmmm... No... as long as I don't have to convert my religion or become someone I am not or don't want to be..
But i don't think I can marry a malay guy coz they die die need partners to convert and I love Ba Gua, Ba Kut Teh, Pork Floss, Char Siew Bao... If I marry him , i've to hide these things under the bed and eat at night... Very torturing...
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Race is ok but religion might be a problem.
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does anyone know of any method to solve this religion issue?
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there's not method.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:does anyone know of any method to solve this religion issue?
or does anyone been through it through before?
either both compromise (highly unlikely)
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one has to give up his/her religion and embrace the new religion. -
i do wish that compromise was possible.Originally posted by kopiosatu:there's not method.
either both compromise (highly unlikely)
or
one has to give up his/her religion and embrace the new religion.
but i myself know that is too much of a dream to become a reality.
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compromise is hard to come by especially with a touchy subject like religion.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:i do wish that compromise was possible.
but i myself know that is too much of a dream to become a reality.
sigh...
anyway, just see who's willing to drop their religion.
it'll be easier if one of the you ain't too stubborn. -
we both was actually thinking of just going through with the process.Originally posted by kopiosatu:compromise is hard to come by especially with a touchy subject like religion.
anyway, just see who's willing to drop their religion.
it'll be easier if one of the you ain't too stubborn.
but after that, we just stick to what we believe in.
basically, just ignore the religion part.
but i don't think either side of the family is gonna let it go that easy. -
so mi qualifyOriginally posted by browniebaobao:dating har? different race i mind.. coz of communication barrier ba.. and im sure my family cannot accept.
hmm but religion wise.. im ok as long as he's not christian. coz i dun wana be a christian and i dun like to be preached.
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the problem with this is "face".Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:we both was actually thinking of just going through with the process.
but after that, we just stick to what we believe in.
basically, just ignore the religion part.
but i don't think either side of the family is gonna let it go that easy.
not a problem with the couple. but with the family.
its tough. many people will say "you're marrying her or the family?"
but family will always be there. -
yeah, i know...Originally posted by kopiosatu:the problem with this is "face".
not a problem with the couple. but with the family.
its tough. many people will say "you're marrying her or the family?"
but family will always be there.
tell me about it...
i too know that it is a "face" issue...
but sometimes, i just wish that they would think more for their children before that ego or pride of theirs take over... -
do u seriously think that couples need so many tables for the customary chinese wedding?Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:yeah, i know...
tell me about it...
i too know that it is a "face" issue...
but sometimes, i just wish that they would think more for their children before that ego or pride of theirs take over...
if i were to get married, i'd like to have it held at bedok bak chor mee that hawker centre.
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actually, i don't think that it is a must to have so many tables but chinese does it because of a "face" issue.Originally posted by kopiosatu:do u seriously think that couples need so many tables for the customary chinese wedding?
if i were to get married, i'd like to have it held at bedok bak chor mee that hawker centre.
plus, they like it to be as grand as possible.
for me, i would prefer just to have a small celebration of family and close friends but of course, doesn't matter where it is due to the fact that its the person whom you are marrying that matters. -
yeah, i would agree that it could be very hard.Originally posted by Vonderful:Hmmm... No... as long as I don't have to convert my religion or become someone I am not or don't want to be..
But i don't think I can marry a malay guy coz they die die need partners to convert and I love Ba Gua, Ba Kut Teh, Pork Floss, Char Siew Bao... If I marry him , i've to hide these things under the bed and eat at night... Very torturing...
but then you can always eat when he is not around or when you are out with your friends or even at your friends' place. -
i live nearby .. remember to invite me ...Originally posted by kopiosatu:do u seriously think that couples need so many tables for the customary chinese wedding?
if i were to get married, i'd like to have it held at bedok bak chor mee that hawker centre. 
hahaha ... people can speak of true love without barriers.
but people still choose the least resistant path ... -
I'd rather have a reception in a beer garden. I've been traumatised by too many MSG-laden traditional wedding dinner courses.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:actually, i don't think that it is a must to have so many tables but chinese does it because of a "face" issue.
plus, they like it to be as grand as possible.
for me, i would prefer just to have a small celebration of family and close friends but of course, doesn't matter where it is due to the fact that its the person whom you are marrying that matters.
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hey brother! long time no c sia!Originally posted by extremex:dun really mind if can clique well
family wise shld be no prob too 
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no need to invite, just come down. free seating anywayOriginally posted by SilverRevo:i live nearby .. remember to invite me ...
hahaha ... people can speak of true love without barriers.
but people still choose the least resistant path ... -
Thought I'd ask some of you to help me out over at this thread