How to please him?
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Hanor.. pls go for eligible winners like spidee.. so yandao.. so capable.. so charismatic.. so.. so.. so.. ee yer.. taoyan..Originally posted by ^spidee^:I'm ashamed for the male species, have we come to a new low?
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Oh just wanna add on, if a girl hangs out with a loser bf, she will also get the loser mentality. Eg, getting whacked, no aspirations in life, my opinion doesn;t matter etc etc. So, girl, u really look like u need some fresh air and a new bf. But if u don't heed this advice, it's ok to me. Just ROT ok.Originally posted by Parka:
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Thanks, thanks!Originally posted by Gackt247:Hanor.. pls go for eligible winners like spidee.. so yandao.. so capable.. so charismatic.. so.. so.. so.. ee yer.. taoyan.. 
Passes Gacky $100 under the table. -
come with me i will treat u betterOriginally posted by spink^gurl:im currently in tis relationship for 2 plus years. He calls me a bitch, never pay on dates, leaves when im late.
He doesnt work and is waiting for enlistment. I work as a temp admin and most of the salary gets "borrowed".
Once when i was waiting for him at mac's (he doesnt like me to be later than me, i saw him approaching from a distance and tried to 'seduce' him by opening my legs and showing him 'that'.
He walk over and slapped me in the face, stomped off. Later he called me and told me to go to his house. we had sex but i didnt enjoy it. he was rough and didnt use a condom. After that he gave me 10 dollars and tell me to take a cab home.
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I don't see him giving you any modicum of respect and it would seem that he is a complete asshole who takes you for granted. I guess he's telling you: it's over......... If you still have any self-respect left in you, you would get the hell away from him as much as you can for the simple reason that there's no future in such a r/s. Don't be naive about working on the r/s when he obviously doesn't even give you a shit...........
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Ai.. ur problem is you are too available and totally dont pose a challenge.
Dont be so available to him and he might respect u more. -
Wah so simple huh. OK.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:Ai.. ur problem is you are too available and totally dont pose a challenge.
Dont be so available to him and he might respect u more. -
What's his name and where he live?
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hahaha he's most likely a CABOriginally posted by Parka: What's his name and where he live?
It's to help us avoid being his friend.
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I think so. Girls shouldnt be too nice, too available, too free. Nobody likes anyone who has no pride. Crack the whip and make him beg!Originally posted by Rock^Star:Wah so simple huh. OK. 
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Once when i was waiting for him at mac's (he doesnt like me to be later than me, i saw him approaching from a distance and tried to 'seduce' him by opening my legs and showing him 'that'.
You are not "Cheap" Dont act in a Manner which pulls down your reputation...
And this kind of person u have to leave him... -
[takes note] ok i will stop being so available to girls now and i will crack the whip and make all girls CRY.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:I think so. Girls shouldnt be too nice, too available, too free. Nobody likes anyone who has no pride. Crack the whip and make him beg! -
hurhurhur.. r u very available to girls now? Wrong technic lah.. for guys the technique is to be VERY VERY VERY sensitive to details. Girls go for that.. u know... "i love that cute little bear earring you have.. -touch ear lobe-.. you have cute ears..."Originally posted by Rock^Star:[takes note] ok i will stop being so available to girls now and i will crack the whip and make all girls CRY.
THIS type of thing lah.
-shake head- still say rock star.... -
Haha ok! shan't get into war of words with u dear shrodingerscat.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:hurhurhur.. r u very available to girls now? Wrong technic lah.. for guys the technique is to be VERY VERY VERY sensitive to details. Girls go for that.. u know... "i love that cute little bear earring you have.. -touch ear lobe-.. you have cute ears..."
THIS type of thing lah.
-shake head- still say rock star.... -
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Thks for the suggestions? Anyone can pass some tips on how to change him? 2 yrs is not a short time, ive committed so much in this rs.. i do everything i think he likes
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Originally posted by Gackt247:Hanor.. pls go for eligible winners like spidee.. so yandao.. so capable.. so charismatic.. so.. so.. so.. ee yer.. taoyan..
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Tot i just said.. stop doing everything he likes.Originally posted by spink^gurl:i do everything i think he likes
So when u do them, it becomes a pleasant SURPRISE for him. not taken for granted all the time or expected liao... -
Thats one example i did to please himOriginally posted by Seth35:You are not "Cheap" Dont act in a Manner which pulls down your reputation...
And this kind of person u have to leave him...
sometimes if i wear skirts he would take pics of me undies
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i dont want him to be angry when we meetOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:Tot i just said.. stop doing everything he likes.
So when u do them, it becomes a pleasant SURPRISE for him. not taken for granted all the time or expected liao... -
not doing what he likes does not mean he will be angry. If he angry over small thing, let him angry loh. -shrug- he angry over will start to wonder how come you not the same like before. will be curious also.Originally posted by spink^gurl:i dont want him to be angry when we meet
Dont have to spoon feed one... sometimes need to 'tiao qi lai mai' ... sometimes hot.. sometimes cold.. not everytime the same... dont say him.. u also will sian if everytime the same.
if you lose yourself, there's nothing of you left for him to love. that is why self respect is important. its got nothing to do with seduction - but everything to do with control.
anyway my last reply to ur post liao. You.. ji kei bou zhong... -
Hello girl,Originally posted by spink^gurl:Thks for the suggestions? Anyone can pass some tips on how to change him? 2 yrs is not a short time, ive committed so much in this rs.. i do everything i think he likes
There are so many cases in this forum where the guy gets beaten by the girl but you are one of the fewer cases where the girl gets beaten. It's not about how much you commit. It's about your self-esteem. It's about respect. It's about manners. Because your feelings for him hit an all time high, it's difficult to remain rational. But you must force yourself to be rational. Imagine having a husband like that although this guy represents a source of strength at some level. Probably the reason why you are so attracted to him. Give yourself and him a break and start finding someone else soon. Love is about respect in two ways. -
^5!Originally posted by Rock^Star:[takes note] ok i will stop being so available to girls now and i will crack the whip and make all girls CRY. -
Now, will u wake up?Originally posted by spink^gurl:Thks for the suggestions? Anyone can pass some tips on how to change him? 2 yrs is not a short time, ive committed so much in this rs.. i do everything i think he likes It's very very hard to change a person, so many people in the history of mankind have made this error. It takes courage sometimes and ur sorely lacking in this here. Pardon the harshness. -
haiz... all of u are asking me to leave him... which i dun think is possible....
im so used to meeting him everyday its juz tat these few months he suddenly veri hostile..
maybe he would tell me his problem then we solve it together? things will be normal le... lyk last tyme...