Originally posted by finrise:Basically, I'm a Man... not very active by the reply or advice to the thread Starter in this forum.
Seem so many thread that makes me feels so sorry for those gals that are being abuse in one way or another by their so called "Lover" or "Bf" that they actually loved.
Why after getting what we men want they are treated in this way !!!
Shouldn't it be more loving, caring and more precious as the process of going after them is so hard and memorable to the relationship?
JERKS or SCUMS that see this thread. Please dun go around hurting the gals if you are not prepare to commit and take care of the one you love!!!!!
* PS : If you dun want to commit , Outside there's surely a someone made for the one you ignore or misuse or abuse. Dun let the gals lose faith in LOVE when they grew to believe that its so wonderful!!!!
I doubt there'll be much traffic. The couples all go tian mi mi, no time to surf forums.Originally posted by mistyblue:Agree with spidee ... maybe spidee should start a forum to let people speak of the good r/s people are enjoying...
Hahaha... hard to say. I'm in a r/s but come here tok crap onli nia.Originally posted by ^spidee^:Because the people who are happy in their relationships don't come to Aunt Agony?
No what... he said he's a man.Originally posted by Rock^Star:So now u think u r Jesus![]()
Contrary to what you say, I believe there are more nice guys than jerks around. Look at the no. of complaints in this forum. Nice guy complained "I treated her so well and she is like this.", "she always criticise me ".Originally posted by finrise:Basically, I'm a Man... not very active by the reply or advice to the thread Starter in this forum.
Seem so many thread that makes me feels so sorry for those gals that are being abuse in one way or another by their so called "Lover" or "Bf" that they actually loved.
Why after getting what we men want they are treated in this way !!!
Shouldn't it be more loving, caring and more precious as the process of going after them is so hard and memorable to the relationship?
JERKS or SCUMS that see this thread. Please dun go around hurting the gals if you are not prepare to commit and take care of the one you love!!!!!
* PS : If you dun want to commit , Outside there's surely a someone made for the one you ignore or misuse or abuse. Dun let the gals lose faith in LOVE when they grew to believe that its so wonderful!!!!
finrise shd wear some underwear like superman and save the entire world's women from abusive jerks.Originally posted by Yunhaier:No what... he said he's a man.![]()
Cheers
i think i gt from sgforums one..Originally posted by An0nym0us:meow meow, I started a thread once about courtship being the only nice time in a relationship, looks like its true after all. After a while, love gets lost along the way.![]()
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July 14, 1861
Camp Clark, Washington
My very dear Sarah:
The indications are very strong that we shall move in a few days—perhaps tomorrow. Lest I should not be able to write again, I feel impelled to write a few lines that may fall under your eye when I shall be no more . . .
I have no misgivings about, or lack of confidence in the cause in which I am engaged, and my courage does not halt or falter. I know how strongly American Civilization now leans on the triumph of the Government and how great a debt we owe to those who went before us through the blood and sufferings of the Revolution. And I am willing—perfectly willing—to lay down all my joys in this life, to help maintain this Government, and to pay that debt . . .
Sarah my love for you is deathless, it seems to bind me with mighty cables that nothing but Omnipotence could break; and yet my love of Country comes over me like a strong wind and bears me unresistibly on with all these chains to the battle field.
The memories of the blissful moments I have spent with you come creeping over me, and I feel most gratified to God and to you that I have enjoyed them for so long. And hard it is for me to give them up and burn to ashes the hopes of future years, when, God willing, we might still have lived and loved together, and seen our sons grown up to honorable manhood, around us. I have, I know, but few and small claims upon Divine Providence, but something whispers to me—perhaps it is the wafted prayer of my little Edgar, that I shall return to my loved ones unharmed. If I do not my dear Sarah, never forget how much I love you, and when my last breath escapes me on the battle field, it will whisper your name. Forgive my many faults and the many pains I have caused you. How thoughtless and foolish I have often times been! How gladly would I wash out with my tears every little spot upon your happiness . . .
But, O Sarah! If the dead can come back to this earth and flit unseen around those they loved, I shall always be near you; in the gladdest days and in the darkest nights . . . always, always, and if there be a soft breeze upon your cheek, it shall be my breath, as the cool air fans your throbbing temple, it shall be my spirit passing by. Sarah do not mourn me dead; think I am gone and wait for thee, for we shall meet again . . .
Sullivan Ballou was killed a week later at the first Battle of Bull Run, July 21, 1861.
Born March 28, 1829 in Smithfield, R.I., Ballou was educated at Phillips Academy in Andover, Mass.; Brown University in Providence, R.I. and the National Law School in Ballston, N.Y. He was admitted to the Rhode Island Bar in 1853.
Ballou devoted his brief life to public service. He was elected in 1854 as clerk of the Rhode Island House of Representatives, later serving as its speaker.
He married Sarah Hart Shumway on October 15, 1855, and the following year saw the birth of their first child, Edgar. A second son, William, was born in 1859.
Ballou immediately entered the military in 1861 after the war broke out. He became judge advocate of the Rhode Island militia and was 32 at the time of his death at the first Battle of Bull Run on July 21, 1861.
When he died, his wife was 24. She later moved to New Jersey to live out her life with her son, William, and never re-married. She died at age 80 in 1917.
Sullivan and Sarah Ballou are buried next to each other at Swan Point Cemetery in Providence, RI. There are no known living descendants.
Ironically, Sullivan BallouÂ’s letter was never mailed. Although Sarah would receive other, decidedly more upbeat letters, dated after the now-famous letter from the battlefield, the letter in question would be found among Sullivan BallouÂ’s effects when Gov. William Sprague of Rhode Island traveled to Virginia to retrieve the remains of his stateÂ’s sons who had fallen in battle.
Wow a sensitive kind of guy. The world lacks men like you.Originally posted by finrise:Basically, I'm a Man... not very active by the reply or advice to the thread Starter in this forum.
Seem so many thread that makes me feels so sorry for those gals that are being abuse in one way or another by their so called "Lover" or "Bf" that they actually loved.
Why after getting what we men want they are treated in this way !!!
Shouldn't it be more loving, caring and more precious as the process of going after them is so hard and memorable to the relationship?
JERKS or SCUMS that see this thread. Please dun go around hurting the gals if you are not prepare to commit and take care of the one you love!!!!!
* PS : If you dun want to commit , Outside there's surely a someone made for the one you ignore or misuse or abuse. Dun let the gals lose faith in LOVE when they grew to believe that its so wonderful!!!!
This fella trying to score points with the chicks here lah.Originally posted by nullifi3d:Wow a sensitive kind of guy. The world lacks men like you.
Please stop claiming to be a man.Originally posted by finrise:Basically, I'm a Man... not very active by the reply or advice to the thread Starter in this forum.
Seem so many thread that makes me feels so sorry for those gals that are being abuse in one way or another by their so called "Lover" or "Bf" that they actually loved.
Why after getting what we men want they are treated in this way !!!
Shouldn't it be more loving, caring and more precious as the process of going after them is so hard and memorable to the relationship?
JERKS or SCUMS that see this thread. Please dun go around hurting the gals if you are not prepare to commit and take care of the one you love!!!!!
* PS : If you dun want to commit , Outside there's surely a someone made for the one you ignore or misuse or abuse. Dun let the gals lose faith in LOVE when they grew to believe that its so wonderful!!!!
Originally posted by Hellraiza:This fella trying to score points with the chicks here lah.
Originally posted by ^spidee^:Because the people who are happy in their relationships don't come to Aunt Agony?
He's not the only one trying to do so. lol.Originally posted by Hellraiza:This fella trying to score points with the chicks here lah.
I am HAPPY in my relationships with ppl leh. I still come to AA. Take dat, Spidey!!! Muah ha ha ha ha haOriginally posted by ^spidee^:Because the people who are happy in their relationships don't come to Aunt Agony?