What am i supposed to do?
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i think i like this gal, which is a friend that i know in malaysia while attending some conference...she is also staying in singapore and jus broke off with her bf 1 mth ago...and i think i like her but from wat i koe...she treats mi like a very good friend...wat am i supposed to do..and she actually asked do i have any gal that i like nw...and i also don koe how to answer her....btw..she has quite a no of suitors..
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be direct?
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forget it.
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chase lar!!! girls dun fall in love as "instantly" as guys.. keep reminding her of your existence. but don't over do it for say, 5 years when she still hasn't accepted u..
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hmmm..i think i will wait by her side lor...let nature take its own course
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she just broke off 1 mth ago? if so, give her some time la.
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yar..tat is wat i think so too...and do u koe that i knew her like for 2 mths and ard 3-4 guys are confessing their feelings to her...tat is like so crazy..
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By being her close fren, u have more chances then her suitors.Originally posted by Samuelpsw:i think i like this gal, which is a friend that i know in malaysia while attending some conference...she is also staying in singapore and jus broke off with her bf 1 mth ago...and i think i like her but from wat i koe...she treats mi like a very good friend...wat am i supposed to do..and she actually asked do i have any gal that i like nw...and i also don koe how to answer her....btw..she has quite a no of suitors..
Like u said, she only treats u like a best friend!
If she ask, jus say no.. or say don tell her or something -
wat do u tink? of course date her out and interact with her more...Originally posted by Samuelpsw:i think i like this gal, which is a friend that i know in malaysia while attending some conference...she is also staying in singapore and jus broke off with her bf 1 mth ago...and i think i like her but from wat i koe...she treats mi like a very good friend...wat am i supposed to do..and she actually asked do i have any gal that i like nw...and i also don koe how to answer her....btw..she has quite a no of suitors.. -
tat's wat i say...i told that when the time is right..i will tell her...Originally posted by FBI:By being her close fren, u have more chances then her suitors.
Like u said, she only treats u like a best friend!
If she ask, jus say no.. or say don tell her or something -
1.Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2.If nothing changes, nothing changes
Go for it. Just do it.........
Wat have u got to lose? Better to have tried and failed than not to have tried at all!
She may have lots of other suitors, but so does any nice gal. Someone's got to succeed. Why not you........?
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yup and i hope u will succeed!Originally posted by Samuelpsw:tat's wat i say...i told that when the time is right..i will tell her...
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hmmm...yar..think i will know her better 1st thn slowly let her knw how i feel...
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that is noble but you must be prepared incase you might end up sad & disappointed, u know what i meanOriginally posted by Samuelpsw:hmmm..i think i will wait by her side lor...let nature take its own course
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Don't belittle yourself... Are you a feaking frankinstein monster or something...? Even him also tried to show a little affection...Originally posted by Samuelpsw:yar..tat is wat i think so too...and do u koe that i knew her like for 2 mths and ard 3-4 guys are confessing their feelings to her...tat is like so crazy..
And the ants to grow a nest is it....?Originally posted by Samuelpsw:hmmm..i think i will wait by her side lor...let nature take its own course -
And do you know just when is the right time to tell her....? After she has got a new bf huh...?Originally posted by Samuelpsw:tat's wat i say...i told that when the time is right..i will tell her...
This answer is more like it....Originally posted by Samuelpsw:hmmm...yar..think i will know her better 1st thn slowly let her knw how i feel... -
Phew! Second hand big hole!
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huh...wat u toking?Originally posted by Canavaro:Phew! Second hand big hole! -
How much are you in love with her? How old is she? The most important thing is not whether you like her but whether she likes you. She hold the rejection cards. That's the reality. I reckon she is very beautiful so that's why there are so many suitors. The most important thing is try to see something that you like about her, not just her physical beauty.Originally posted by Samuelpsw:i think i like this gal, which is a friend that i know in malaysia while attending some conference...she is also staying in singapore and jus broke off with her bf 1 mth ago...and i think i like her but from wat i koe...she treats mi like a very good friend...wat am i supposed to do..and she actually asked do i have any gal that i like nw...and i also don koe how to answer her....btw..she has quite a no of suitors.. -
Don't forget to keep her interested in you in the mean time. Don't make it seem to her that both of you can get nothing further from the friendship.Originally posted by Samuelpsw:tat's wat i say...i told that when the time is right..i will tell her...
I'm not saying that you should become her doormat or concierge though. -
u never try u never know..Originally posted by Samuelpsw:i think i like this gal, which is a friend that i know in malaysia while attending some conference...she is also staying in singapore and jus broke off with her bf 1 mth ago...and i think i like her but from wat i koe...she treats mi like a very good friend...wat am i supposed to do..and she actually asked do i have any gal that i like nw...and i also don koe how to answer her....btw..she has quite a no of suitors..
go ahead and give it a go
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That's really good advice and I completely agree. Don't rush though. Good Luck!Originally posted by :1.Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2.If nothing changes, nothing changes
Go for it. Just do it.........
Wat have u got to lose? Better to have tried and failed than not to have tried at all!
She may have lots of other suitors, but so does any nice gal. Someone's got to succeed. Why not you........? -
be persistent?
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nw i kinda feel intiminated that there is nw a guy trying to woo her also...bt the guy seems like going all out to woo her lor...
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So do you want to woo her or you want to know her better?Originally posted by Samuelpsw:nw i kinda feel intiminated that there is nw a guy trying to woo her also...bt the guy seems like going all out to woo her lor...
Now that you're pressured to make a decision?