Originally posted by dork3d:
Hmmm... Is this a trick question?
Basically, it depends how badly she minds...
Should your sexual past been loose and having lots of affairs prior to meeting her, the chances are she will continue to have this stigma in her mind that you will be treating as another of your fling...
To a girl having this stigma, it's as good as zero chance for any further progress in this relationship...
i absolute agree!
cos the guy that i jus met, i realised that he have LOADS of flings in the past and all very Happenning one.. so initially i suggest that we dun progress any further cos i feel that im jus another fling. i feel SOOO insecure.
but he managed to slowly improve things by spending all his time w me.. as such, i am convinced that he doesn't have time to have flings.. this is how u shld do it.. instill confidence back into her.
as for those who advised u to look for another gf, it is not serving any purpose cos ALL girls in this world WILL mind. u will still face this prob again. so if this is the right gal, pls dun let her go so easily.