wierd?!
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i have like this gal in my ex class for recently...well..we usually only tok abit when we see each other in sch,n in the elective class...otherwise its in those msn chats which i initiated...so she dunno that i like her...n i m usually quite shy n i dun make my feelings,intentions clear yet...coz i dun want to spoil the frenship so soon if it turns out that i gets rejected or wat..we've known each other for 1.5 yrs..didn't really go out individualy...only some gp outings..n not really close that type,she has a gp of very close frens,i have mine.
so asked her for dinner juz now..i noe it will be wierd for her to see my sms..coz..ya..
she replied is it i sent to the wrong person,she's not free...
kind of disappointed..
wat can i do man...it seems like i can't take a step further to make this frenship further to another stage coz chances r slim,she's very busy with her frens,sch work n cca..then gradually make my feelings clear to her..
the only time i have is the elective class...n those lecture time where i gaze at her frm far... -
*pat on back*
There there... try harder next time... -
ur fren is very polite. move on dude, u deserve better
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ouch
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try harder?Originally posted by MohamedF:
*pat on back*
There there... try harder next time...
u mean press harder on the hp buttons is it? -
juz tell her u are serious in dating her.
ask her to give u a chance. -
Somehow I can't help but to feel this might be an indirect rejection...?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:i have like this gal in my ex class for recently...well..we usually only tok abit when we see each other in sch,n in the elective class...otherwise its in those msn chats which i initiated...so she dunno that i like her...n i m usually quite shy n i dun make my feelings,intentions clear yet...coz i dun want to spoil the frenship so soon if it turns out that i gets rejected or wat..we've known each other for 1.5 yrs..didn't really go out individualy...only some gp outings..n not really close that type,she has a gp of very close frens,i have mine.
so asked her for dinner juz now..i noe it will be wierd for her to see my sms..coz..ya..
she replied is it i sent to the wrong person,she's not free...
kind of disappointed..
wat can i do man...it seems like i can't take a step further to make this frenship further to another stage coz chances r slim,she's very busy with her frens,sch work n cca..then gradually make my feelings clear to her..
the only time i have is the elective class...n those lecture time where i gaze at her frm far...
Is she usually a very blur girl, or a tactful and clear minded one...?
Anyway, I don't see much of what's going on between the both of you for her to be interested enough...? -
well..she's not blur..
n she told me she can't make it..but will go with me if she's free.. -
not as bad as my situation....totally no contact except for msn
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That not wierd. That mean u are being rejected. Dun be dishearted. Jia youOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:i have like this gal in my ex class for recently...well..we usually only tok abit when we see each other in sch,n in the elective class...otherwise its in those msn chats which i initiated...so she dunno that i like her...n i m usually quite shy n i dun make my feelings,intentions clear yet...coz i dun want to spoil the frenship so soon if it turns out that i gets rejected or wat..we've known each other for 1.5 yrs..didn't really go out individualy...only some gp outings..n not really close that type,she has a gp of very close frens,i have mine.
so asked her for dinner juz now..i noe it will be wierd for her to see my sms..coz..ya..
she replied is it i sent to the wrong person,she's not free...
kind of disappointed..
wat can i do man...it seems like i can't take a step further to make this frenship further to another stage coz chances r slim,she's very busy with her frens,sch work n cca..then gradually make my feelings clear to her..
the only time i have is the elective class...n those lecture time where i gaze at her frm far... -
But what if shes really not free for the day you asked her for ? You got specify any date you want a dinner with her ?
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ya i i suppose she's really not free..nv specify
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hmmm maybe you should try talking to her more often? hhaha... try to get closer lor... hahah beter luck!!!
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since fail once, try again... u need more interaction with her...Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:i have like this gal in my ex class for recently...well..we usually only tok abit when we see each other in sch,n in the elective class...otherwise its in those msn chats which i initiated...so she dunno that i like her...n i m usually quite shy n i dun make my feelings,intentions clear yet...coz i dun want to spoil the frenship so soon if it turns out that i gets rejected or wat..we've known each other for 1.5 yrs..didn't really go out individualy...only some gp outings..n not really close that type,she has a gp of very close frens,i have mine.
so asked her for dinner juz now..i noe it will be wierd for her to see my sms..coz..ya..
she replied is it i sent to the wrong person,she's not free...
kind of disappointed..
wat can i do man...it seems like i can't take a step further to make this frenship further to another stage coz chances r slim,she's very busy with her frens,sch work n cca..then gradually make my feelings clear to her..
the only time i have is the elective class...n those lecture time where i gaze at her frm far... -
i dont think she really reject you, maybe she's really not free that day (i think)
Next time u ask her out, dont ask her over the phone, try askin face to face durin elective class ?
Must plan and decide the events beforehand
Dont be disheartened, try again
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wow..i must say, you beat alot of guys out there already, with your courage!
good job dude!
just reply her, the msg was meant for you! at least let her know your intention.. she may have reject you this time, but you nv really know the reason right?
The worst scenario is, she doesnt like you...
The middle scenario is, she just taken aback..not prepared.
the best scenario is, she is really busy that day..
out of 3, you have 2 chances of hitting the better options..try sounding her out in your next msn chat...
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This is suicide.Originally posted by browniebaobao:juz tell her u are serious in dating her.
ask her to give u a chance.
The more serious...the faster he dies. -
I suggest you take a pinch of salt with what she say. Never pour so much energy into her yet. She is talking some nonsense to make you feel happy...ie patronising you.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:well..she's not blur..
n she told me she can't make it..but will go with me if she's free..
You don't have to call her. If after so long, she doesn't call you back to ask you out, you can safely assume she doesn't feel for you much. -
thanks for the truthful n useful replies...
anyway...me n her r like frens who chat quite freely,we tease one another everytime..things like that..
but i quite agree with wat dokono said -
Why? Did she reject you?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:thanks for the truthful n useful replies...
anyway...me n her r like frens who chat quite freely,we tease one another everytime..things like that..
but i quite agree with wat dokono said -
Let nature takes its course?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:thanks for the truthful n useful replies...
anyway...me n her r like frens who chat quite freely,we tease one another everytime..things like that..
but i quite agree with wat dokono said -
i agree to ur reply that if she nv ask me out or wat...its a form of rejection
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haiz..
ai yi ge ren hao nan, ke shi zui tong ku de shi mei ran ta zhi dao ni xi huan ta. -
bwah hahahahaha!!!Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:well..she's not blur..
n she told me she can't make it..but will go with me if she's free..
you still dont get it do you?
she is just playing with you. you know?
pretent act blur ask you sent wrong person is it? then say not free but still add in will go if free. that is to give you false hope. girls are good at it with acting blur and giving false hope.
then so you will stupidly go and think you might still have a chance and wait for the next time and try asking her again. and the vicious cycle continue and on and on and on till eternity.
you know? like donkey and carrot.
and yup. your that donkey and she is holding the carrot infront of you. -
Even though i think you are being a little harsh on the ts, i feel there is an element of truth in your statements.Originally posted by digicharat:bwah hahahahaha!!!
you still dont get it do you?
she is just playing with you. you know?
pretent act blur ask you sent wrong person is it? then say not free but still add in will go if free. that is to give you false hope. girls are good at it with acting blur and giving false hope.
then so you will stupidly go and think you might still have a chance and wait for the next time and try asking her again. and the vicious cycle continue and on and on and on till eternity.
you know? like donkey and carrot.
and yup. your that donkey and she is holding the carrot infront of you.
And yes, TS, the dating world can be harsh. Better to move on.