I Can't Get Over Her ???
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Originally posted by M©+square:
Another huge factor why you couldn't get her go.
Perhaps the most important reason.
Arh neh X3.
I had to agree on this man; that's why I say the mechanism inside his heart is damn screwed up.
I don't know how he can help himself on that - but I think evolving his soul is a crucial step to a better him, in turn, a better relationship in the future.
Cheers -
Sounds to me like Digimon...Originally posted by Yunhaier: X3.
I had to agree on this man; that's why I say the mechanism inside his heart is damn screwed up.
I don't know how he can help himself on that - but I think evolving his soul is a crucial step to a better him, in turn, a better relationship in the future.
Cheers
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i'm calling the cops on you for attempted suicide.
you are going to jail. -
Yeah right as if u know where i live right now i am onboard my ship and also how do i commit suicide then think my man think my man..... haiz as for the girls issue i am gonna forget it right now and start looking for someone that truly loves me then...
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so have u call the cops on me already ?????
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Don't be too anxious to rush into another relationship.... Fix your heart and straighten out your thoughts 1st...Originally posted by tankh80:Yeah right as if u know where i live right now i am onboard my ship and also how do i commit suicide then think my man think my man..... haiz as for the girls issue i am gonna forget it right now and start looking for someone that truly loves me then... -
i dunno man i wanna her to come back to me then i will deicide whether i will find another girlfriend or not.....
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And do you even know what you're talking about...?Originally posted by tankh80:i dunno man i wanna her to come back to me then i will deicide whether i will find another girlfriend or not.....
Take a break man. I don't think you're in the condition to get into ANY BGR for now... -
i dun know juz got back from a whole week of sailing and got sunburn as a result haiz sianz it is like her friends sre like telling me that she is sniffing glue and more heavy this tim ei really dunno what to do man.....
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hey news flash she is getting married with a guy she knew for less then 3 months.....
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Yah this girl is nuts.Originally posted by tankh80:hey news flash she is getting married with a guy she knew for less then 3 months.....
Stay away from her please.
doko -
all the best to her , this kind of girl you can simply forget about it .
u are a MAN , don sound like so sissy lay , so emotional . Get over her and done , full stop . self pity only makes u more emotional -
It is like i have make up my mind that i dun wanna forget her also haiz sianz call me emtional and call me chi qing lah i really dun wan to forget her...
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Ya. It's not that you can't, you just chose not to forget.Originally posted by tankh80:It is like i have make up my mind that i dun wanna forget her also haiz sianz call me emtional and call me chi qing lah i really dun wan to forget her...
It's not just about being 'emotional' or 'chi qing'. Sometimes humans just like to perceive (delude themselves) their love to be VERY HUGE so that it'll be worth a reason to hang on to, hope for and fight for. Especially when they've been trying to hang onto it all this while... Just to have their own time, actions and efforts 'justified', they blow-up the portion and 'size' of this love so that it's of that 'worth'. This pattern somehow always manages to 'trick' the mind into believing that the 'valuable' of the love is real. Hence often looping it into a 'karmanic trap'.
Another part of it is to perceive oneself as 'chi qing' enough so as to 'upgrade' one's own self-worth, especially towards that 'love'. As you've already seen how the love has been blown in proportion, it's not difficult to imagine how 'chi qing' one has to act in order to equivalent and maintain the balance of the whole 'equation'. Hence quite a very deadlock trap instead. That once someone allows himself / herself to fall within that 'pattern', it's often much easier to indulge and be lost within than to get out of it. Especially at the point when one is vulnerable and weak from the wounds of 'love' and more easily rely on 'instinct' alone. -
Then go ahead and continue to be torn apart by her.Originally posted by tankh80:It is like i have make up my mind that i dun wanna forget her also haiz sianz call me emtional and call me chi qing lah i really dun wan to forget her...
All our efforts are in vain.
You chose not to listen to us.
You do not want to listen. Girls can't stand guys who don't listen. So many pages in this thread are for nothing.
Good luck in your future endeavours!
doko -
i think i will remember in my heart.....
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Can close thread already???Originally posted by tankh80:i think i will remember in my heart.....
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i dunno what to do i really cannot get over her
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Tell yourself you don't have a choice.Originally posted by tankh80:i dunno what to do i really cannot get over her -
Face reality, tell yourself is over and slowly let go.Originally posted by tankh80:i dunno what to do i really cannot get over her
I know is tough but the only one who can help is you yourself.
No one can force you to think otherwise.
Bet you this 6 years down the road, you will look but and laugh at yourself
why am I so dumb to such stupid things.
I have walk the path before so is possible to let it go.
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Wa...Juz came bk here recently n saw this thread...Despite the efforts of the pple here giving TS advice, I can't believe this fella still dun wanna wake up...It's his life and he chooses what he wants to do with it. Live in agony or move on is up to him...God help those who wanna help themselves first...
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i dunno know maybe after the taiwan trip i will forget her let god deicide ba.....
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TS, as many said before.
PLEASE WAKE UP YOUR IDEA.
and what let God decide?
To sum up what all of the good people here are trying to say,
YOU ARE THE ONE WHO CAN LET GO. Right now, you are just choosing not to.
Maybe after your trip, you wuold decide to. YOU. Not God.
And Please do. Stop torturing us. Stop torturing yourself.
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Ten pages.
Ten solid pages, with sound advices, and you're still asking the same thing?
I love your stubbornness. Please put that into good use. That doesn't include wallowing in self-pity, attempting to torture yourself with some stupid promise which probably is nothing but crap.
Stop procastinating. Make up your decision to forget her, right now. You wallowing in self-pity would not bring her back to you. Please understand that.
Stop thinking you cannot forget her. You CAN forget her, but you chose not to. You refused to accept reality. Stop thinking, "maybe I'll forget her after blah blah" and start gaining control of you, your life, and your mind.
What you really should do, is to do physical activities. Jogging, swimming, hiking, cycling, whatever. Just do some physical activities. -
hey bro for your information i already got enough of it in camp already no need for me to do something outside camp lor.....