I Can't Get Over Her ???
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Originally posted by [email protected]:
Well i am a very easy goign person and for your information i dunno japanese so how to communicate with that friends of yours.....
gomen.. You should take step at a time, dont dwell too much, i know its very heart breaking. but there are many more girls in singapore also. let me say to you. think of what you do, whats things you have done. you havent tell us ur personality yet..
also, i'll try help you.. dont commit suicide or anything ok..
i can let u meet up 1 of my japanese friend (girl) living here. shes 20 tis yr.
P.S : do not think stupidily commiting suicide, its not worth it. besides there is a bright future above you. think positive. in ur working days, thats where you find ur [b]TRUE LOVE.
dont dwell on the past too much, move on... i hope you take care in everything you do..
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i can understand how u feel. It happen to me ytd. When i see her i knew she is the one. There is no other girl who can capture my heart so well. Speak of other fishes in the sea. To me she is the best fish there is. "there are better fishes out there", to me is juz a lousy form of consolation, at least to those who are suffering now.
I waited till she brokeup. And she said we are impossible. She has some1 she likes. we are impossible. If i were to continue we cant even be frens anymore. I've always been treating her like the apple of my eye. All i can say is we are all actors. If God gave us the script, we have to suck thumb act out our roles. Some ppl are juz lucky to have gotten the main male actor role. More often than not, it is not the love that holds us back. It is the memory. Wait a few more mths and ask her out. You will realise the feeling will be completely different. We are now trapped by happy memories. With me, lets clench our teeth and move on. Follow ur heart. If u think u wan to be by her side, by all means. As long as u do it without regrets. Im helpless as you are. When our roles as 'calefeh' have finished, we have to throw in the towels. -
I dunno right now my feelings are atarting to fade been trying to get to know this girl online but somehow i feel that I am not gonna get over my ex ever.....
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Yes maybe you're right.Originally posted by tankh80:I dunno right now my feelings are atarting to fade been trying to get to know this girl online but somehow i feel that I am not gonna get over my ex ever..... -
the real jap , not the fake one huhOriginally posted by tankh80:Well i am a very easy goign person and for your information i dunno japanese so how to communicate with that friends of yours.....
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I think she is real got my friend send me a few japanese words to test her she all reply correctly.....
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sianz i am thinking of her again but the feeling is still becoming stronger and stronger.....
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Than go for it?
, If not, just bo chap lor 
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You can't get over her because you dun want to! Thats simple logic!
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I want to but when I like turn to turn my liking into hatred it I cry I CRY.... I cannot do it.....
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Why turn the liking into hate? Just think of her lor... never mind, what. Is it affecting your work, your life and your other relationships in a major way? If not, just "enjoy" thinking of her...Originally posted by tankh80:I want to but when I like turn to turn my liking into hatred it I cry I CRY.... I cannot do it..... -
Why don't you describe her for us here? What she looks like, what was the best times you spent together, about her family and so on, anything and everything about her...
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Why don't you juz go see my early posts.....Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Why don't you describe her for us here? What she looks like, what was the best times you spent together, about her family and so on, anything and everything about her... -
I lazy to read 16 pages, why don't you do me a favour?Originally posted by tankh80:Why don't you juz go see my early posts..... -
he is already wallowing in pity, u r asking him to think more abt the memories he had wif her?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Why don't you describe her for us here? What she looks like, what was the best times you spent together, about her family and so on, anything and everything about her... -
People need to talk it out right? Let him get it out of his system is good, no?Originally posted by rainee:he is already wallowing in pity, u r asking him to think more abt the memories he had wif her? -
yea, but he has been talking abt this for far too long, u go check the date of his first post in this thread, it was 4 months ago for god's sake. Then u see this thread, it has been going on for 16 pages...but does it help him to feel better? If he feels better he wun be writing in here olediOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:People need to talk it out right? Let him get it out of his system is good, no? -
Exactly what I thought. After sixteen pages and he still has such strong feelings for her. So he must really have strong feelings for her still! So he must talk it out more! If he does not want to tell me, maybe he is getting better without his knowing it!Originally posted by rainee:yea, but he has been talking abt this for far too long, u go check the date of his first post in this thread, it was 4 months ago for god's sake. Then u see this thread, it has been going on for 16 pages...but does it help him to feel better? If he feels better he wun be writing in here oledi
I know that in cases like this, the guy/ger will talk non stop until everybody sianz. I still not sianz because I never hear about her. I am still curious! I still willing to listen. -
Like what i said go read my early posts.....
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no la, he still has so strong feelings of her bcos he hasnt given up on her or havent found anyone better yet...Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Exactly what I thought. After sixteen pages and he still has such strong feelings for her. So he must really have strong feelings for her still! So he must talk it out more! If he does not want to tell me, maybe he is getting better without his knowing it!
I know that in cases like this, the guy/ger will talk non stop until everybody sianz. I still not sianz because I never hear about her. I am still curious! I still willing to listen.
and it is cos we are giving him attention by encouraging him to talk more abt it -
I think he is getting better, he keeps telling me to read up his earlier posts. He is not so interested to talk about her anymore.Originally posted by rainee:no la, he still has so strong feelings of her bcos he hasnt given up on her or havent found anyone better yet...
and it is cos we are giving him attention by encouraging him to talk more abt it
Whether he gives up or refuse to give up, he does not have the choice right? -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:
true..
[b]I think he is getting better, he keeps telling me to read up his earlier posts. He is not so interested to talk about her anymore.
Whether he gives up or refuse to give up, he does not have the choice right?[/b]
but he is not making the choice. he whines abt difficulty of the choice, he say he made his choice. but he never truely did -
He did make a choice.
By whining about it and not rebuilding his life again. Getting stuck.
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he does have choices. like stop thinking abt her, getting to know more ppl, and trying to move on.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I think he is getting better, he keeps telling me to read up his earlier posts. He is not so interested to talk about her anymore.
Whether he gives up or refuse to give up, he does not have the choice right?
but i dun see him making that choice...yet. -
I meant, whether he wants to or not, the ger is gone forever right? He has no choice but to give her up in his mind sooner or later right?
There is no relationship right? He does not have a relationship with her, right? He has a relationship with himself, right?