I Can't Get Over Her ???
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The question's almost the same as asking why you insist on deceiving yourself and keep yourself stuck in this mud hole....Originally posted by tankh80:whay is she doing this only to caused herself hurt and me getting hurt in the process..... -
You are too disillusioned to realise you are actually disillusioned.Originally posted by tankh80:Maybe i was too down to earth or i was too high on cloud nine for me to think already that caused all this lor..... -
Maybe I am maybe i am not ar ya dun care liao lah if she was mean to be mine she is if she is not then i will wait.....
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Congrats Tan!Originally posted by tankh80:Maybe I am maybe i am not ar ya dun care liao lah if she was mean to be mine she is if she is not then i will wait.....
You are nearly there.
There is just one minor thing to correct. That is, DO NOT WAIT for her!
Let her go and go chase other girls.
Gong xi Faat cai -
Sibeh boliao~
TS only wants to get the girl back and tts the sole aim~
Tok so much and make yourself seem so weida for wat~
If u hv the guts to die u r dead liao~
CRAP! -
4get bout her... get a life...
i noe its near impossble....
but....
JIAYOU
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Then you wait lor.... So long as you happy can liao....?Originally posted by tankh80:Maybe I am maybe i am not ar ya dun care liao lah if she was mean to be mine she is if she is not then i will wait..... -
yeah, waiting is good. wait lorOriginally posted by Devil1976:Then you wait lor.... So long as you happy can liao....? -
Sometimes waiting is no so good lor anyway going for overseas attachment hope that i will forget abt her.....
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No good also like that... It's your own choice what..?Originally posted by tankh80:Sometimes waiting is no so good lor anyway going for overseas attachment hope that i will forget abt her.....
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You tried to commit suicide and failed?Originally posted by tankh80:Hi all I am a 21 years old NSF here recently my girlfriend just broke up with me she told me to face the harsh reality of she two-timing me. Really dunno how to get ovet this harsh times sometimes i really wanna get over with my life i try to take as much as 20 panandol with alcohol and still i am here talking to u guys, i try to commit suicide by standing in the middle of the road but the driver just manage to brake in time tell me guys am i seriously so stupid u must be thinking that i actually am right in actually fact i think i myself am very stupid why should i end my life just coz of a girl right but i really cannot get her out of my head i find that while i m driving outside i kind of like think of her suddenly and lost concentration on driving almost got into accident outside haiz sianz she is now with her new stead already and i also made a promise to her that i will wait for her to come back to me she knew about this and told me that she won't even come back to me anymore what to do man this is life anyway guys advice me on this really appreciate your help on this...
Try again la.
If not get along with life.
She just happens to be one of your partner that betrayed you in ur life.
You still have like 40more years to go which you will meet more people.
With more people betraying you and you slowly understanding that somethings in life cant be helped.
So if you try to end your life just because of this single fail in relationship. You are stupid.
Think logically next time you act.
All the best. -
I can understand why you do not have friends or audience.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:You tried to commit suicide and failed?
Try again la.
If not get along with life.
She just happens to be one of your partner that betrayed you in ur life.
You still have like 40more years to go which you will meet more people.
With more people betraying you and you slowly understanding that somethings in life cant be helped.
So if you try to end your life just because of this single fail in relationship. You are stupid.
Think logically next time you act.
All the best. -
I understand long time ago.Originally posted by M©+square:I can understand why you do not have friends or audience.
But i think what i say was true enough. -
I dunno haiz sianz next month goign taiwan liao.....
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Originally posted by M©+square:I can understand why you do not have friends or audience.
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Going to taiwan for Exercise sea thunder.....
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You shld set up a blog... really.
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lol..... really i already have a blog go see it www.francis85.blogspot.com
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sianz nothing to do now.....
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hmm...after reading 20 pages of stubborn tots and sound advice...i realise something..
I jus feel like tis tankho is playing a fool out of u advisers and empathisers..
but i oso truly believe tis theory as like wat another forumnite said..
Although he said he have tried committing suicide, but if hes so keen on the idea...i think its not hard to die and seriously there are lotsa ways to die too...y choose eating 20 panadols, or trying to kill yourselves by standing in the road? And since he said he tot of driving his car into a tree...den why din he do it so? He can also choose to jump down the building...its also another best way of dying...Spore is a very suitable place for doing that...can experience short thrill of skydiving too...
If TS is not happy with what i said...I m always ready for a flaming or quarrelling session...just come
TS...for ur info...I been out of a r/s with my ex too of 2-3mths...I know her for 10yrs and i tot i noe her long and well enough...I do have ur self sacrificial thought of asking my ex to quit her smoking...and she did when we were tgt...after we broke she get back to it again....no matter how much i try to be nice to her or explain my love for her and cried and I never cried for any girl...she jus wun turn back...TELL YOU SOMETHING...WHEN GALS CHANGE THEIR HEART...NO MATTER HOW MUCH U DO...THEY WUN CHANGE...trust me on that...u can clarify with the ladies in here too...
And then after my ex, i got to noe tis ger whom i told her all my probs and she appreciates all the nice stuff i did to my ex...and I tend to like her in the end...but she also rejected me....and becoz she had someone in her heart...and that guy is not even promising her anything...just leading her along for almos a year...but shes jus stubborn for him when i try to treat her nice n sweet for a few months...that guy just told her not to be too involved with me and she told me to stop doing all the nice things to her jus to assure that guy....and she tells me no matter how the world says tht guy is selfish to her...she will still love him and will close her heart for him...Can u imagine that?
And seriously...love or a successful r/s needs two hands to clap....tink bout it..u will understand...
I got 2 blows consecutively...I feel so tired n hopeless with love...but I never ever tot of suicide...There are seriously lotsa nice gals outside...trust me...and I m not nice looking too...guys dun need to be nice looking..
What guys need to offer gals are confidence, dependable and humorous...I noe tis coz thats how i got tgt with my ex-es...
Theres a thin line between love and obsession...
Haha I dun tink you love ur ex...you jus cant get over the fact that she leaves u so fast when ur love for her is there...and also a sense of inferiority complexity wandering in ur mind...
You dun need to force urself to forget her.....u still can miss her and think of her...slowly you will get through...its the same for all people...The more u try to forget her...the more u will tink of her...
Be happy TS, you are oni 21!!! I am in my late 20s but I m still single!! And I am just 2mths after breaking with my ex...and days after the 2nd gal rejected me...but I m still here giving you advice...I am feeling lonely and tired everyday...and I still need to see tis gal everyday in office...I dun tink i feel any better than you...and still have to put on a smiling face...
Please be a man
dare to love, forgive and forget! -
1) if you want to die please do not stand in the middle of the road. Is becos of people like you who make others suffer. if you die imagine the driver of the car had to go to jail just for the selfish person like you. who is going to take care of his wife and kids.Originally posted by tankh80:Hi all I am a 21 years old NSF here recently my girlfriend just broke up with me she told me to face the harsh reality of she two-timing me. Really dunno how to get ovet this harsh times sometimes i really wanna get over with my life i try to take as much as 20 panandol with alcohol and still i am here talking to u guys, i try to commit suicide by standing in the middle of the road but the driver just manage to brake in time tell me guys am i seriously so stupid u must be thinking that i actually am right in actually fact i think i myself am very stupid why should i end my life just coz of a girl right but i really cannot get her out of my head i find that while i m driving outside i kind of like think of her suddenly and lost concentration on driving almost got into accident outside haiz sianz she is now with her new stead already and i also made a promise to her that i will wait for her to come back to me she knew about this and told me that she won't even come back to me anymore what to do man this is life anyway guys advice me on this really appreciate your help on this...
TO ANYONE OUT THERE! IF YOU WANT TO DIE PLEASE DO NOT CAUSE OTHERS TO SUFFER FOR YOUR MISTAKE!!! DO NOT FOLLOW THE ABOVE EXAMPLE!
2) you suck lar. kena dump by one girl already want to die. Siao ever think of your parents who took so many years to bring you up. Die for a girl who dump you crazy. She must be laughing her head of when she saw the dump things you have done.
3) Ever wonder why she dump you? Learn from your mistake and improve. Do not be like a sissy still need others to advice or wake you up. 21 years old liao leh haiz no wonder so many girls feel that guys like u is still so immature. -
warao dude, at 1st i thought i saw myself in u but after thinking twice, we're of different genre... seriously man, get a life, maybe 2, got a spare one after u suicided...
1. dun stand on the road, coz the driver go jail for euthanasia
2. dun jump off building, wait the poor uncle must scrub the blood off the floor
3. dun cut your wrist in the sink coz your mama would have to clean it
seriously man, no matter how stupid i was or my fren was, u really set a new record... thanx im not feeling so bad now... really dun wanna post one...
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lol well can said that i am getting over her liao and FYI i am 22 this month not 21 liao.....
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wah piang... i just started reading AA and this tread is really bo liao. Cant imagine a counsellor trying to kill himself for his 'client'. makes me wonder if those helplines actually helps.
knowing that you're still in NS and doing things like that to yourself makes me wonder how chio your ex-gf is... or rather how mature you are. if you're really thinking of killing yourself, go get an insurance policy and commit suicide a yr later (if i'm not wrong, beneficiary will only get the payout 1 yr after policy is taken up in the event policy holder commit suicide).
at least your parents will get some returns for their 'investment'.
get a life bro~ there're so many trees out there. why kill yourself over 1 rotten tree?? -
Haiz... Don't you know it's.....