He doesn't love me anymore...
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How abt pregnant part? How is she gioing to hide the fact she cannot give birth or maybe make love. Where the guy may see thru the fake vagina or feel very fake after poking in.Originally posted by Otaku Traveler:Jen, can anyone tell that you're a guy from your appearance? If not, then it may not be necessary to reveal that you're a transsexual?? Just go for your sex change op before marrying and everything will be fine.
I believe it is quite impossible to hide the fact from him!
Being true is the correct option! -
Originally posted by Otaku Traveler:Jen, can anyone tell that you're a guy from your appearance? If not, then it may not be necessary to reveal that you're a transsexual?? Just go for your sex change op before marrying and everything will be fine.
Well, other than having a lower-than-normal-for-a-female voice, I'm very passable as female in almost every other aspect. I doubt I've ever been clocked* by anyone on the streets who happen to see me. Heck, there're even other transsexuals from America whom would've thought I was born a girl had I not told them.Originally posted by CannyOng:How abt pregnant part? How is she gioing to hide the fact she cannot give birth or maybe make love. Where the guy may see thru the fake vagina or feel very fake after poking in.
I believe it is quite impossible to hide the fact from him!
Being true is the correct option!
But well, no matter what I'd still tell my guy about my past if we were serious about each other. Somehow, I just don't think it'd be fair to him if I didn't tell him, and anyway, I figure my conscience won't allow me to keep such a big secret from the person whom I love the most.
I do have friends that don't tell though, and they just make an excuse up for not being able to give birth. Well, whatever works for them I guess, though I doubt I'd ever do that. Just imagine what'd happen if let's say, a decade of marriage and he finds out...
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trust in a relationship is very important . especially something like this isn't something most guys can accept. while most guys don't might having a TS for a friend, maybe even a close friend. taking it futher isn't exactly something easy.
i don't know about other guys, but in my view, i really really have to like her a lot to accept her.
even after i do, i have to explain to my family, i have to accept how my friends would look at me. what to do with friends who disrespect me and my other half.
kinda like marrying someone of another race/religion in a town with only one race/religion. -
May god bless yah with a better r/s
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JennTS
I applaud you for your honesty to your boyfriend and courage in telling him the truth. Stay strong and you'll be fine. -
good that u decide to tell him. It is only fair to him and besides such thing cannot be hidden 4ever. The decision will be left to him to make.
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I'm sorry to hear that it went pear-shaped, Jenn.
I'm sure there's someone out there who'll look beyond your past and love you for who you are.