Can my friend be helped?
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Can my friend be helped? My friend, "so-and-so" turns insane last month. And i know some of my friends didn't do anything to him yet "so-and-so" ignores everyone (my friends, which is also "so-and-so" friends). It turns out to be a jerk like GREED. I didn't do or say anything bad about "so-and-so", yet he ignore me. Some of my friends complained about his behaviours. Now, "so-and-so" is trying to avoid all of us. It's childish afterall. HP off, dun dare to admit on msn, tries to avoid all of us.
So, for those who understand it, please give some solutions to me (on how to work it out for the best). Thnks. -
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Is he really insane or just being a jerk...Originally posted by bryanseb:Can my friend be helped? My friend, "so-and-so" turns insane last month. And i know some of my friends didn't do anything to him yet "so-and-so" ignores everyone (my friends, which is also "so-and-so" friends). It turns out to be a jerk like GREED. I didn't do or say anything bad about "so-and-so", yet he ignore me. Some of my friends complained about his behaviours. Now, "so-and-so" is trying to avoid all of us.
So, for those who understand it, please give some solutions to me. Thnks.
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So, how to find a chance to talk to him. So that all of our friends (my friends) and "so-and-so" can be friends again.Originally posted by PointBlue:So? -
I dunno. To me, he's a childish. Look into the msg again. It's a bit of childish.Originally posted by MohamedF:Is he really insane or just being a jerk... -
Need more details....Originally posted by bryanseb:I dunno. To me, he's a childish. Look into the msg again. It's a bit of childish. -
Another friend of mine, "JLRX" started the incident 1st. Both "JLRX" and "so-and-so" have some conflit between them since this year. I believe it's becos of "JLRX" said sumthing bad about "so-and-so". "so-and-so" heard it. "so-and-so" wanted to fight. End up both of them fight. As we tried to stop them from contiuning, suddenly "so-and-so" walk away and left without a trace. And the rest is history.Originally posted by MohamedF:Need more details.... -
So, can my friend, "so-and-so", be help?
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?? Wad makes u think so?Originally posted by PointBlue: -
I don't.Originally posted by bryanseb:?? Wad makes u think so? -
Than the pics?Originally posted by PointBlue:I don't. -
Don't know if can be helped... chances for us guys are can be 2 likely scenerio... (1) One day just forget it ever happened and get on with life... or (2) Forever become enemies...Originally posted by bryanseb:Another friend of mine, "JLRX" started the incident 1st. Both "JLRX" and "so-and-so" have some conflit between them since this year. I believe it's becos of "JLRX" said sumthing bad about "so-and-so". "so-and-so" heard it. "so-and-so" wanted to fight. End up both of them fight. As we tried to stop them from contiuning, suddenly "so-and-so" walk away and left without a trace. And the rest is history.
I chose no. 2 for my case... -
Don't know if can be helped... chances for us guys are can be 2 likely scenerio... (1) One day just forget it ever happened and get on with life... or (2) Forever become enemies...Originally posted by bryanseb:Another friend of mine, "JLRX" started the incident 1st. Both "JLRX" and "so-and-so" have some conflit between them since this year. I believe it's becos of "JLRX" said sumthing bad about "so-and-so". "so-and-so" heard it. "so-and-so" wanted to fight. End up both of them fight. As we tried to stop them from contiuning, suddenly "so-and-so" walk away and left without a trace. And the rest is history.
I chose no. 2 for my case... -
If u were to choose for me, wad would it be?Originally posted by MohamedF:Don't know if can be helped... chances for us guys are can be 2 likely scenerio... (1) One day just forget it ever happened and get on with life... or (2) Forever become enemies...
I chose no. 2 for my case... -
Give your so-so friend some time off. If you care, dun find him first. Let him make a move to find you. Or if he has no intention of finding you, wait for some months or more and observe if he is online or go to the places he frequent. Sms him some simple greetings after some time too.Originally posted by bryanseb:Can my friend be helped? My friend, "so-and-so" turns insane last month. And i know some of my friends didn't do anything to him yet "so-and-so" ignores everyone (my friends, which is also "so-and-so" friends). It turns out to be a jerk like GREED. I didn't do or say anything bad about "so-and-so", yet he ignore me. Some of my friends complained about his behaviours. Now, "so-and-so" is trying to avoid all of us. It's childish afterall. HP off, dun dare to admit on msn, tries to avoid all of us.
So, for those who understand it, please give some solutions to me (on how to work it out for the best). Thnks.
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He didn't switch on his handphone. It's quite hard to sms him. But i'll try to look out for him.Originally posted by Bontakun:Give your so-so friend some time off. If you care, dun find him first. Let him make a move to find you. Or if he has no intention of finding you, wait for some months or more and observe if he is online or go to the places he frequent. Sms him some simple greetings after some time too.
Patience is a key factor here. -
when you say "can he be helped" what kinda help are you refering to?Originally posted by bryanseb:He didn't switch on his handphone. It's quite hard to sms him. But i'll try to look out for him. -
see the rest of the post 1st. try to link the story around.Originally posted by smudgey:when you say "can he be helped" what kinda help are you refering to? -
Ok. Do remember: patience.Originally posted by bryanseb:He didn't switch on his handphone. It's quite hard to sms him. But i'll try to look out for him.