Love can be cultivated
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A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced...
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Hmm...
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ok, gd for u
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even u create chemistry , u still have to access she's the one for u
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So you're saying that you get in a relationship with girl A, then cultivate feelings for girl B eh?Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. -
Haha...Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced...
I find it hard to agree.
If a girl likes you as a friend only, there's really nothing much you can do to make her love you, no matter how much chemistry you try to create. Don't get me wrong. There are rare cases though.
If a girl likes you, she makes it easy for you to touch her heart.
If you put in effort to try create chemistry even though inside you are hoping she will accept you, it's going to be a mistake. You are going to miss a lot of fun meeting other girls. Plus, if she did not like you to begin with, you are simply wasting your time. In time to come, you will find that it's better to put effort to someone who does respond to your efforts.
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Depends on what type of 'love' you're talking about, and also depends on individuals....Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced... -
Originally posted by NotFromVenus:
You include me oso?
You people are reading too shallow into those above.
maybe ,
Threadstarter is saying he's good at treating the [b]other girl "juz as friends" and making her feel good as well.
[lets not be too cynical shall we?] [/b]
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SimpleHeat,Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced...
I agree that love can be cultivated. if there's a seed of liking in the both of you, that seed can grow into love. that's true
but are you talking abt cultivating love with another gal that is not you gf?
if that's the case, whatever kinda love you are talking about, i advise you to thread carefully.
Assuming that your intentions behind your above mentioned activities are Purely Platonic;
1) this other gal may not think that your actions are platonic, and she may fall for you.
2) if you have kept this from your gf, if one day she learns about how you have been treating this other gal, she may get the wrong idea...
in other words... ultimately you'll hurt one of these gals. I'm not saying you can't treat this other gal nicely or even in a special way, but you have to make sure that this other gal know that you are only treating her as a platonic friend (close, but still platonic). And you must help your gf understand the why you are treating this other gal so specially. help her trust you.
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dude why are you trying to cultivate love with a girl other than your girlfriend?Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced... -
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depend on the galsOriginally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced...
if they hav feelin 4 u , u can do anything n they will b touch by the things u do
if they hav no feelin 4 u , u can gif her the wrold n she feel nothing -
So, what u are trying to say is that you going to 2-time right?Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced... -
orh.. ok.. continue pls.
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wat u r doing is rather despicableOriginally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced...
you already have a gf and you are making another girl fall head over heel for you...like dat good meh? -
Hello there, just curious to know if you are contemplating to double time. If there is no chemistry, guess you could go ahead to do whatever you said. But after a reasonable time the person still has no acceptance, then I think you better move on. YOu can't force love out of anyone.Originally posted by Simpleheat:A lot of people says love can only mutual and consider love at first sight!
But I believe love can be cultivated and created. In fact,if u managed to touch a gal's heart. Love can be build up between 2 of you. I have a ger. But that did not stop me from being good to another gal. A gal i find her lovable and wanted to make her cheer-up but not until to b/g r/s,cos i believe she belongs to the cheerful type! Somehow or rather some unhappy incident in the past and bad family background prevent subdue her inner happiness. She is also so good that it makes me automatically being good to her. Cos i believe good gal shall be treated nicely.
Then somehow or rather I start to treat her very nicely and do something extraordinary. Something I believe that really touch her. I believe love can be cultivated even from the a bad start of without chemistry or hopeless situation.
If u did not managed to create chemistry and woo her heart. It means u did not do enough to move her,not abt love and chemistry cannot be created and forced... -
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Can Love be cultivated by a tissue culturer
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Well sometimes its not a matter of responsivness. You have to consider your own fellings for that person. Are u willing to just forget about that person?Are u lying to ourself by saying u have no more feelings and have moved on?Sometimes its just not so easy.I know of someone who is literally clinging on. This i agree that he should just forget and move on,but if you look at it form a different prespective,its really not his fault,she has really made an impact on his life which he jus canot forget.This type of thing I don feel that there is such things as worth it or not.Just follow your heart and listen to your feelings and ask yourself "Is this what you want".Originally posted by dokono:Haha...
I find it hard to agree.
If a girl likes you as a friend only, there's really nothing much you can do to make her love you, no matter how much chemistry you try to create. Don't get me wrong. There are rare cases though.
If a girl likes you, she makes it easy for you to touch her heart.
If you put in effort to try create chemistry even though inside you are hoping she will accept you, it's going to be a mistake. You are going to miss a lot of fun meeting other girls. Plus, if she did not like you to begin with, you are simply wasting your time. In time to come, you will find that it's better to put effort to someone who does respond to your efforts.
doko