I just want to have a realionship, is it that difficult?
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Hi everyone,
I have been out of luv fo a long time and wish to have a gf again. But yet even how hard i tried it still wun works. Now at the moment dun even dare to think of know a ger new. Is loving someone or getting into a r/s so difficult? can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand. Do anyone here have have the same concept as what i think? Please do give me your advise.
rgds, -
Yes it IS difficult. Because you have the intentions of getting into one. The more you chase after it, the faster it evade your grasp.
Do something else. Study, work, play! Anything! -
You want a gf for the sake of having one; not because of someone.
It won't work out; get a life. -
Wah... You grown more liao leh.Originally posted by missqi:You want a gf for the sake of having one; not because of someone.
It won't work out; get a life.
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Originally posted by Bontakun:Wah... You grown more liao leh.
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actually single also nt bad la
u got freedom -
Wat? Wat?Originally posted by missqi: 
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why force yourself into one?
if it has to come, it will come. -
erm, first u need a better reason about having a gf.Originally posted by darkguy:Hi everyone,
I have been out of luv fo a long time and wish to have a gf again. But yet even how hard i tried it still wun works. Now at the moment dun even dare to think of know a ger new. Is loving someone or getting into a r/s so difficult? can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand. Do anyone here have have the same concept as what i think? Please do give me your advise.
rgds,
You can only have a gf when you find someone you really love. Don't get one just for the sake of having one -
Darkie, I believe you are still studying right? Else how can you be thinking of getting a GF? The raging hormones in you and seeing other guys hold hands with their GFs, cuddling and laughter, makes you want to have one right?
I can tell you one thing, more than 90% of those couples you see have never thought of committing beyond marriage. They are basically like you, wanting to get a GF/BF just for the sake of it. Nothing else.
It is not easy to suppress the emotions and feelings in you right now. I've been there. Its a long road and a rough one at that. But I can tell you this: If you decide to get one and you REALLY got one, most likely you two will not be together till the end.
Take your time, know more people. Enjoy your youth and time. Have fun and at the same time, understand the friends around you more. Soon you will get more friends than you imagined. By then your circle of friends will be big enough to seek for a special someone for you.
BUT as long as you want a GF only, you will have more pain and sorrow awaiting you compared to what you feel now. -
Loneliness at work......sighz....we have a lot of lonely souls in the world.Originally posted by darkguy:Hi everyone,
I have been out of luv fo a long time and wish to have a gf again. But yet even how hard i tried it still wun works. Now at the moment dun even dare to think of know a ger new. Is loving someone or getting into a r/s so difficult? can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand. Do anyone here have have the same concept as what i think? Please do give me your advise.
rgds,
Cheer up brudder, u can't get a gf this way. -
Find love not a gf u'll find it much more valuable and meaningful
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I face a similar problem
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How about love with your family and real close friends?Originally posted by darkguy:Hi everyone,
I have been out of luv fo a long time and wish to have a gf again. But yet even how hard i tried it still wun works. Now at the moment dun even dare to think of know a ger new. Is loving someone or getting into a r/s so difficult? can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand. Do anyone here have have the same concept as what i think? Please do give me your advise.
rgds,
Lovers come and go.
Cash may be important as we live in a expensive country.
Find someone who cares about you, not about how much Ferraris you own or want to make you as standby.
doko -
getting into a r/s is not difficult, maintaining is.
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Originally posted by darkguy:Hi everyone,
I have been out of luv fo a long time and wish to have a gf again. But yet even how hard i tried it still wun works. Now at the moment dun even dare to think of know a ger new. Is loving someone or getting into a r/s so difficult? can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand. Do anyone here have have the same concept as what i think? Please do give me your advise.
rgds,
And think not you can, direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course
Develop your self identity and expand social circle - you can't expect yourself to hook up with a girl if you are not evolving those two aspects. If you are desperate, woman will sense them immediately and caution against you.
Cheers -
He didn't say which part what...?? <Originally posted by missqi: 
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Don't blame on other people lah, maybe it's YOUOriginally posted by darkguy:can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand.
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Why not you start with friends 1st?Originally posted by darkguy:Hi everyone,
I have been out of luv fo a long time and wish to have a gf again. But yet even how hard i tried it still wun works. Now at the moment dun even dare to think of know a ger new. Is loving someone or getting into a r/s so difficult? can we say that nowadays people are very materialized as we go for looks, cash and cars. I really wonder and really dun understand. Do anyone here have have the same concept as what i think? Please do give me your advise.
rgds, -
Ya loh!Originally posted by Devil1976:He didn't say which part what...?? <>
I meant maturity wise, Fish dun seem to see it dat wae from her reply. -
yea...i feel i don't meet enough friends also...Originally posted by Bontakun:Darkie, I believe you are still studying right? Else how can you be thinking of getting a GF? The raging hormones in you and seeing other guys hold hands with their GFs, cuddling and laughter, makes you want to have one right?
I can tell you one thing, more than 90% of those couples you see have never thought of committing beyond marriage. They are basically like you, wanting to get a GF/BF just for the sake of it. Nothing else.
It is not easy to suppress the emotions and feelings in you right now. I've been there. Its a long road and a rough one at that. But I can tell you this: If you decide to get one and you REALLY got one, most likely you two will not be together till the end.
Take your time, know more people. Enjoy your youth and time. Have fun and at the same time, understand the friends around you more. Soon you will get more friends than you imagined. By then your circle of friends will be big enough to seek for a special someone for you.
BUT as long as you want a GF only, you will have more pain and sorrow awaiting you compared to what you feel now.
Aiye...have also like that...don't have also like that... -
yap i agreeOriginally posted by Bontakun:Wah... You grown more liao leh.