Originally posted by -[0]-:
Sorry, but ur advice won't work for me.
You are saying that guys should bed their gf as soon as they have one. But I believe that virginity is a very precious and sacred thing a girl has. And if she gives it away so easily, that shows how cheap she is.
No offence but I think that one should wait till after marriage before bringing sex into the picture. I'm a guy, and I don't need to bed my current gf to secure her love for me. I know I'm secured enough and we are still very much in love with each other.
Having sex will not secure a relationship. Love does! Sex is only part of the after-marriage relationship. If every guy thinks like you do (having only sex in the mind without considering commitment, love, faith, trust in a relationship etc) then sad to say, they will eventually be in for a very painful and angry breakup, either sooner or later.
Again, I have to stress, that people without maturity should NOT be in a relationship. Not trying to give a lecture here but, since so much had happened to me in the past and cos of my experiences, I'm totally against pre-marital sex.
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I got some things I would like to say from a girl's perspective, but I need to sort out the thoughts in my mind first