cool off period

• rayyeo

  5 Nov 06, 22:37

  She said she gonna think about it.
  Asked me if we should have cool off period and see how.
  I agreed and told her not to give ourselves too long.
  For the cooling down period, she asked to let her be alone.
  i think to me is gone case already.
  Sianx.
• hopy

  5 Nov 06, 22:39

  if its meant to be, it will be...
  
  so y force?
• missqi

  5 Nov 06, 22:39

  So?
  Move on.
• BrUtUs

  5 Nov 06, 22:42

  Originally posted by rayyeo:

  She said she gonna think about it.
  Asked me if we should have cool off period and see how.
  I agreed and told her not to give ourselves too long.
  For the cooling down period, she asked to let her be alone.
  i think to me is gone case already.
  Sianx.

  its 50-50 case... u better hope u did enuff last time...
• rayyeo

  5 Nov 06, 22:42

  of coz life still moves on.
  But still, i'm wondering if we can salvage this r/s.
  This is a 50 / 50 for me.
  
• rayyeo

  5 Nov 06, 22:58

  Have anyone been in my situation before...?
  
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  5 Nov 06, 23:00

  Originally posted by rayyeo:

  Have anyone been in my situation before...?
  

  last time she say want cool off then sayonara liao. it is sort of girl's way of saying i want to break with you
• dokono

  5 Nov 06, 23:04

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  last time she say want cool off then sayonara liao. it is sort of girl's way of saying i want to break with you

  100% correct.
  
  Hit the nail on the head.
  
  It's their secret code of language.
  
  TS, don't place too much hope and go hustle other babes. It's time.
  
  doko
• M©+square

  5 Nov 06, 23:08

  Originally posted by hopy:

  if its meant to be, it will be...
  
  so y force?

  Because no one is silly enough to let go of 'things' which supposely belong to them.
  
  It's natural for one to want to hold 'it' back.
  
  Unfortunately, the 'things' in a relationship are people. And people do change, they have choices.
  Which, makes it fortunate for some suffering in relationships.
  
  Cheers
• darknessfall

  5 Nov 06, 23:52

  she wants to cool off...
  you shld also take this time to think about the r/s, if she is worth it...
  
  if she is really who you wan to spend your life with, continue to be nice to her...and hope that she will also think likewise...
  
  sometimes, when you cool down and think, you will either realise how impt the person is, or how bad this person had been to you..
• alvin-ncs

  6 Nov 06, 00:11

  same sutiation...
• rayyeo

  6 Nov 06, 06:16

  Originally posted by darknessfall:

  she wants to cool off...
  you shld also take this time to think about the r/s, if she is worth it...
  
  if she is really who you wan to spend your life with, continue to be nice to her...and hope that she will also think likewise...
  
  sometimes, when you cool down and think, you will either realise how impt the person is, or how bad this person had been to you..

  Yeah, i'm taking this time to think properly. And i didn't msg her or call her.
  
  How to be nice to her when we are in cooling off period?
  
  
• blu_sky

  6 Nov 06, 11:10

  Originally posted by rayyeo:

  Yeah, i'm taking this time to think properly. And i didn't msg her or call her.
  
  How to be nice to her when we are in cooling off period?
  
  

  so what are the things that you have thought? any conclusions?
• Devil1976

  6 Nov 06, 12:41

  Originally posted by rayyeo:

  Have anyone been in my situation before...?
  

  Yes.