Wad Should i do? Advice needed.
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There is this gal i like alot but she seems to be turning cold towards me... She has blocked me on msn n even stopped replying my smses from the day she found out i liked her. By gossip... I'm not sure if it is really love but i'm really confused... She's a year older dan me and she's like. veri good looking while i'm nowhere near. Problem is i am too in love with her and i find it hard to let go... I worry about her over every little thing. I think about her more than anything else... She's probably the first person i ever fell so deeply in love with but she seems so far away. Everytime we watch movies/go out in groups. she will juz not go if she noes i am going. I first met her on a school outing and then i fell for her soon after i got to know her better.. I find this happyness when i'm around her and i swear i'm not after her looks.
Wad should i do?
Is this really love?
Does she really hate me?
Is age a barrier...?
Help me... Pls. I'm really confused... -
No more advice for you already. From your post, obviously the girl is not interested in you.
Move on kiddo..
Just do yourself good and upgrade yourself. Be it with looks, persona, education etc etc
Maybe one day she may like you...
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obviously she don't like you. so what say you cut her some slack and let go? I know its hard, been through such situation myself (rejection).
remember, she's isn't the one for you and its just that you have not met the right one. occupy yourself with things, exercise, activities so that you are not wandering off and start thinking.
avoid places that she hangs out, and avoid contact where possible. what she is doing is clearly, finding you instrusive and sending you a clear message that she do not like you.
a relationship is happy with two consenting parties, its not when one party is not consenting or unhappy. so if you love her, let her go. its hard, its tough, its easier said than done. But you are man, chins up, time will heal. -
You fell for her when you looked at her. Love at first sight.Originally posted by johanneslim:There is this gal i like alot but she seems to be turning cold towards me... She has blocked me on msn n even stopped replying my smses from the day she found out i liked her. By gossip... I'm not sure if it is really love but i'm really confused... She's a year older dan me and she's like. veri good looking while i'm nowhere near. Problem is i am too in love with her and i find it hard to let go... I worry about her over every little thing. I think about her more than anything else... She's probably the first person i ever fell so deeply in love with but she seems so far away. Everytime we watch movies/go out in groups. she will juz not go if she noes i am going. I first met her on a school outing and then i fell for her soon after i got to know her better.. I find this happyness when i'm around her and i swear i'm not after her looks.
Wad should i do?
Is this really love?
Does she really hate me?
Is age a barrier...?
Help me... Pls. I'm really confused...
You are just attracted to her looks. What if she is fugly? You think you will care? You loved her because she looks like Lin Zhiling. But she did not like you, even as a friend. She was scared by you. She was repelled by you.
Let me point out all the things she did that you as a guy should just forget her: She blocked your msn. She stopped replying your messages. She will always want to avoid going out with you. Every time you go watch movies, she will just avoid you like the plague.
Get another Lin Zhiling who will like you back.
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Many people here act as if Lin Zhi Ling is their gf...Originally posted by dokono:You fell for her when you looked at her. Love at first sight.
You are just attracted to her looks. What if she is fugly? You think you will care? You loved her because she looks like Lin Zhiling. But she did not like you, even as a friend. She was scared by you. She was repelled by you.
Let me point out all the things she did that you as a guy should just forget her: She blocked your msn. She stopped replying your messages. She will always want to avoid going out with you. Every time you go watch movies, she will just avoid you like the plague.
Get another Lin Zhiling who will like you back.
doko
Originally posted by Marco_Simone:
Wad's with Lin Zhi Ling?
very often,you see comments on a certain babe like"average only" or "so normal looks"...
Well,most of the babes in this thread are of at least slightly above average looks...
Those who posted such comments,so your gf looks like Lin Zhi Ling right??? So lucky sia Lim peh sibei envious!!!
So popular here ah?
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Infatuation.
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no u dun love her... this is call crush...Originally posted by johanneslim:There is this gal i like alot but she seems to be turning cold towards me... She has blocked me on msn n even stopped replying my smses from the day she found out i liked her. By gossip... I'm not sure if it is really love but i'm really confused... She's a year older dan me and she's like. veri good looking while i'm nowhere near. Problem is i am too in love with her and i find it hard to let go... I worry about her over every little thing. I think about her more than anything else... She's probably the first person i ever fell so deeply in love with but she seems so far away. Everytime we watch movies/go out in groups. she will juz not go if she noes i am going. I first met her on a school outing and then i fell for her soon after i got to know her better.. I find this happyness when i'm around her and i swear i'm not after her looks.
Wad should i do?
Is this really love?
Does she really hate me?
Is age a barrier...?
Help me... Pls. I'm really confused...
age could be a barrier cos some gal prefer older guys but not younger than them...
u are a condemn liao... well done... better stay away from her... b4 ur entire sch know abt u...
there nothing u can do except clean up ur acts n be more presentable n less despo... concentrate on study... -
Just trying to make a point la. Can't think of anyone better looking than her.Originally posted by -[0]-:Wad's with Lin Zhi Ling?
So popular here ah?
doko -
Originally posted by dokono:Just trying to make a point la. Can't think of anyone better looking than her.
doko -
go find another LZL
this one already hide from you
don't waste both your time n hers by playing hide n seek althou its always you seeking nad her hiding -
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Since you mentioned that it's not looks of hers which you're attracted to.. Pls do tell me what in her did you see which makes you so interested in her...?Originally posted by johanneslim:There is this gal i like alot but she seems to be turning cold towards me... She has blocked me on msn n even stopped replying my smses from the day she found out i liked her. By gossip... I'm not sure if it is really love but i'm really confused... She's a year older dan me and she's like. veri good looking while i'm nowhere near. Problem is i am too in love with her and i find it hard to let go... I worry about her over every little thing. I think about her more than anything else... She's probably the first person i ever fell so deeply in love with but she seems so far away. Everytime we watch movies/go out in groups. she will juz not go if she noes i am going. I first met her on a school outing and then i fell for her soon after i got to know her better.. I find this happyness when i'm around her and i swear i'm not after her looks.
Wad should i do?
Is this really love?
Does she really hate me?
Is age a barrier...?
Help me... Pls. I'm really confused... -
move on