what if....
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your gf got into a mess with the gangsters and you as a bf is also scared to settle with them. What will you do to help instead ?
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Hmmm lucky for me, if anyone messes with me or my loved ones, I could ask help from someone. Perhaps you could do the same thing as well? If you wan to settle it an unorthodox way that is.
If not, have a talk with police and see what they can do about it. They will certainly be able to help you.
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Don't u feel helpless when you cannot help your own gf when she's in trouble ? We got no so-called heroic friends to seek help from. Asking help from the police would be inviting more trouble. isn't it ?
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Hide.
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Yes. Depends on who the other party you called for help is. If its just some minor guy in a "gang" then more trouble will erupt. But if you can asked for help from an influential ones, problem is solved immediately.Originally posted by HeiHao:Don't u feel helpless when you cannot help your own gf when she's in trouble ? We got no so-called heroic friends to seek help from. Asking help from the police would be inviting more trouble. isn't it ?
Perhaps you may want to tell us what is it that is troubling your gf and them?? -
Originally posted by HeiHao:Don't u feel helpless when you cannot help your own gf when she's in trouble ? We got no so-called heroic friends to seek help from. Asking help from the police would be inviting more trouble. isn't it ? u think film gangsta movie is it?
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thanks for your replyOriginally posted by missqi:Hide. -
what will u do when it really happens to u ? will u still think its that funny ?Originally posted by Ito_^: u think film gangsta movie is it? -
No problem.Originally posted by HeiHao:thanks for your reply 
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early morning already you disturb people..Originally posted by missqi:No problem. -
Originally posted by mhcampboy:early morning already you disturb people..
Me bored ma.
1 am wake up. -
yup go hide is good reason
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take her hand n run or look for contacts to settle the issue... best is call mata...Originally posted by HeiHao:your gf got into a mess with the gangsters and you as a bf is also scared to settle with them. What will you do to help instead ? -
That girl which made it big said my gf tried to seduce her bf while they are still in the relationship. And yes they did break up after that, not because her bf likes my gf but rather the attitude of the girl which result into the break-up.Originally posted by mhcampboy:Yes. Depends on who the other party you called for help is. If its just some minor guy in a "gang" then more trouble will erupt. But if you can asked for help from an influential ones, problem is solved immediately.
Perhaps you may want to tell us what is it that is troubling your gf and them??
That girl thinks the reason for their break up is because my gf added wood to the fire by talking to her bf.
Now that girl went to find some ah bengs friends to help settle this things. Ah bengs as u know don't go solo but rather in a group. Going there alone sure kena bully.
Now i as a bf isn't sure how to help my gf.
She told me not to get involved but do u think i will let her settle by herself ? -
Originally posted by HeiHao:That girl which made it big said my gf tried to seduce her bf while they are still in the relationship. And yes they did break up after that, not because her bf likes my gf but rather the attitude of the girl which result into the break-up.
That girl thinks the reason for their break up is because my gf added wood to the fire by talking to her bf.
Now that girl went to find some ah bengs friends to help settle this things. Ah bengs as u know don't go solo but rather in a group. Going there alone sure kena bully.
Now i as a bf isn't sure how to help my gf.
She told me not to get involved but do u think i will let her settle by herself ?
Typical. Anyway can ask how old are you??
Hmmm, ah bengs huh?? They make me laugh. Not such a good gangster la they all. Im pretty sure the gal will just ask some small timer beng to help her. Just to scare your gf off.
Seriously, no "real" gangsters would want to get involve in a love situation. So yeah, go to the police. Ask for advise.
Btw, if this problem escalates, try to find out which "group" the bengs belong to. Then private message me the name. I try to help you out.
Help not to fight huh!! But something else. -
in my O'sOriginally posted by mhcampboy:
Typical. Anyway can ask how old are you??
Hmmm, ah bengs huh?? They make me laugh. Not such a good gangster la they all. Im pretty sure the gal will just ask some small timer beng to help her. Just to scare your gf off.
Seriously, no "real" gangsters would want to get involve in a love situation. So yeah, go to the police. Ask for advise.
Btw, if this problem escalates, try to find out which "group" the bengs belong to. Then private message me the name. I try to help you out.
Help not to fight huh!! But something else. -
Originally posted by HeiHao:in my O's
Just study hard and forget abt this incident. The ah bengs wont come. Trust me. -
If you are thinking of meeting them, settling in the unorthodox method, meet them somewhere neutra such as mcdonaldsl to talk things out. just hope that all they seek is an apology.
just in case, get someone to video tape the whole thing. it will serve as evidence in court should something unfortunately happen to you. make sure you tell you friends who are you going to meet so that police can track them.
but if ur gf really did it and they have evidence then I will think she wont be let off so easily.
best is ask ur gf to apologies thru phone or writing 1st. if it doesnt work out, hand it to the police. -
tell the teacher & principal of the girl who threatened your gf. say you were threatened by someone. Also can go police do the same, criminal intimidation they call it.
they will be hauled up and given severe warning, see if they still dare to do that again.
also, tell your gf to avoid contact with the girl. the last thing you want to do is to take matters into your own hand. does not solve matters like that. -
I think find Police is the best....
they got knifes/choppers but police got guns. -
I think you no need to bring police or some other gangsters. Just meet them somewhere more crowded will do.Originally posted by HeiHao:in my O's
Just find a group of friends or related of a much older age than you then enough already.
Do you know a friend or 2 who could be a cop or something? Or maybe you can just get a friend of yours to call 1 or 2 policeman down to mark attendence for them?
Who is that girl btw? Keep the authority informed of her threats. -
poh mata
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not asking mata help is even more worst right? tell u la, tis kind of thing has no end one... best is either disappear with her or get mata to help...Originally posted by HeiHao:Don't u feel helpless when you cannot help your own gf when she's in trouble ? We got no so-called heroic friends to seek help from. Asking help from the police would be inviting more trouble. isn't it ? -
ah beng what is that ar
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ah beng is small boys playing punks and gangsters