Need Advice...scared
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I broke up with my BF several days ago... quite an ugly break up..we were both very angry with each other!
He has some 'intimate' videoclips of me in his HP. He refused to delete it.
I am quite afraid that he will post it on the net or show others....
I know many of you will say that I am very stupid to let him take such video of me.. but he was quite persistent and he really kept the videoclips vey private and personal.
Some of you may ask, how intimate? I won't go into details but.. the videoclips will not pass censorship board even for R21 rating...you get what i mean?
I am really scared but I dun want to go to the police. I dun know what to do, how to persuade him to delete the files.
If i go to the police, what will they do? Can I ask them not to prosecute, just ask for their help to warn him and make sure he delete the files?? I really scared and regretful..
So you girls out there, please protect yourself, even if you are in love, dun let your BF take such photos or videoclips of you!!!!! NO matter how he promise!!!! -
Call Police quick better be safe than sorry
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if he respect you, he should delete the videos.....
brain wash him.. -
jus report to police. he reap wat he sows. if u didnt, he can threaten u with more things, like money, sex.... do u want tat to happen. n to warn other ppl abt ur bf. do u want other ppl to be like u? do u want other gal to go thru wat u r going thru now? really these kind of bast@rd deserve to go to jail.
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by any chance is your cup size 38D???
It would be all our loss if the videos were not shared... -
BUt i dun want to go into such bad terms with him.
He did not threaten me with anything.
I dun want anything bad to happen to him...like kena jail etc...
In fact We had not spoken since th day we broke up. -
mm..ask him out and tell him abt ur prob. Breakup cannot be frens meh?? yeah..i know cannot to some emotional extent. But since u sooo afraid of the pics kena spread out, tell him tactfulli.
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Use unorthodox methods into getting his phone and pretend to be admiring some stuff or something. At THAT POINT!!! DELETE the videos IMMEDIATELY!!!
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So if he release the video we are gonna c a 38D?
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see la, all tammy wannabe, theres always a chance to say no... but since u do it liao bobian hv to pray he dun circulate which he high chance will... his best fren probably already saw it many times... but tis one u hv to walk down to police post n ask them how to deal with it... unless u can one day snatch his fone n do a restore factory settings...Originally posted by 38D:I broke up with my BF several days ago... quite an ugly break up..we were both very angry with each other!
He has some 'intimate' videoclips of me in his HP. He refused to delete it.
I am quite afraid that he will post it on the net or show others....
I know many of you will say that I am very stupid to let him take such video of me.. but he was quite persistent and he really kept the videoclips vey private and personal.
Some of you may ask, how intimate? I won't go into details but.. the videoclips will not pass censorship board even for R21 rating...you get what i mean?
I am really scared but I dun want to go to the police. I dun know what to do, how to persuade him to delete the files.
If i go to the police, what will they do? Can I ask them not to prosecute, just ask for their help to warn him and make sure he delete the files?? I really scared and regretful..
So you girls out there, please protect yourself, even if you are in love, dun let your BF take such photos or videoclips of you!!!!! NO matter how he promise!!!! -
good question... so is it reali 38d?Originally posted by mistyblue:by any chance is your cup size 38D???
It would be all our loss if the videos were not shared... -
Whats so Fun about making your own Porn video ?
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no he wont be charged much less go to jail. unless you insist that he took the vids totally against your will and resistance, videotaping yourselves for personal use is not illegal.
once the police warn him he will guai guai delete
maybe you try threaten him with that and somebody's backup lah.
yeh and girls if you let the guys take vids n pics of you i bet their guy friends will SURELY see it. so resist better. -
i doubt he will be charged unless you can convince the idiots that you were forced or unknowing about the videos when they were taken. thats as far as i know anyway.
of course if he spread them then its illegal. -
Why don't you just go down to any police station and ask them for more advice and help?Originally posted by 38D:I broke up with my BF several days ago... quite an ugly break up..we were both very angry with each other!
He has some 'intimate' videoclips of me in his HP. He refused to delete it.
I am quite afraid that he will post it on the net or show others....
I know many of you will say that I am very stupid to let him take such video of me.. but he was quite persistent and he really kept the videoclips vey private and personal.
Some of you may ask, how intimate? I won't go into details but.. the videoclips will not pass censorship board even for R21 rating...you get what i mean?
I am really scared but I dun want to go to the police. I dun know what to do, how to persuade him to delete the files.
If i go to the police, what will they do? Can I ask them not to prosecute, just ask for their help to warn him and make sure he delete the files?? I really scared and regretful..
So you girls out there, please protect yourself, even if you are in love, dun let your BF take such photos or videoclips of you!!!!! NO matter how he promise!!!! -
go steal his hp.... and delete the video urself....
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If it spreads, its illegal, you may want to inform the police if it does.
Though, if he has any (really really deep) feelings left for you he won't spread it even if he's payed to do so. -
Sorry, I dont think going to Police will achieve any results.
I dont think he breaks any law by refusing to delete a file in his HP, which he took with the parties' consent.
I really dont think going to Police will help at all.
Rather, you should just try to keep a friendly relations with him. Dont antagonize him, dont make him want to sabo you.
Sorry but I think that is the only way really.
There is another method of course, if you dont like to live with a sleeping time bomb and leave it up to your ex-BF kindness.
This method involves abit trick.
You should find a way to get a hold of his HP, and delete the file.
How you achieve this is up to you.
You should think carefully and devise a plan, and also find out whether he back up his files anywhere or not, because you need to delete all of them.
Ok good luck ok. -
I guess you have to wait and see. Try to sort out the problem between you two and compromise on the breakup.
If he respects you, he'll not post the photos or videos on the Internet. If he does, then report him to the police. -
I Believe he already back up the clips to his PC or something for easy viewing purpose. He may not have shared it with his buddy or friends unless he's really not into valuing the relationship the both of you had before.Originally posted by 38D:I broke up with my BF several days ago... quite an ugly break up..we were both very angry with each other!
He has some 'intimate' videoclips of me in his HP. He refused to delete it.
I am quite afraid that he will post it on the net or show others....
I know many of you will say that I am very stupid to let him take such video of me.. but he was quite persistent and he really kept the videoclips vey private and personal.
Some of you may ask, how intimate? I won't go into details but.. the videoclips will not pass censorship board even for R21 rating...you get what i mean?
I am really scared but I dun want to go to the police. I dun know what to do, how to persuade him to delete the files.
If i go to the police, what will they do? Can I ask them not to prosecute, just ask for their help to warn him and make sure he delete the files?? I really scared and regretful..
So you girls out there, please protect yourself, even if you are in love, dun let your BF take such photos or videoclips of you!!!!! NO matter how he promise!!!!
Sort things out with him if he's reasonable or else i believe it will be quite ugly for you. Good Luck -
cham sia. good luck .
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pretend to patch up.
take his hp.
throw into swimming pool.
then break up.
simple.
now just treat him v well; so he wont make copies of it.
or back it up into his comp. -
Silence him if not there will be dire consequences to bear.....Originally posted by 38D:I broke up with my BF several days ago... quite an ugly break up..we were both very angry with each other!
He has some 'intimate' videoclips of me in his HP. He refused to delete it.
I am quite afraid that he will post it on the net or show others....
I know many of you will say that I am very stupid to let him take such video of me.. but he was quite persistent and he really kept the videoclips vey private and personal.
Some of you may ask, how intimate? I won't go into details but.. the videoclips will not pass censorship board even for R21 rating...you get what i mean?
I am really scared but I dun want to go to the police. I dun know what to do, how to persuade him to delete the files.
If i go to the police, what will they do? Can I ask them not to prosecute, just ask for their help to warn him and make sure he delete the files?? I really scared and regretful..
So you girls out there, please protect yourself, even if you are in love, dun let your BF take such photos or videoclips of you!!!!! NO matter how he promise!!!!
FBI or CIA...can help good luck..... -
you should not have such a bf in the 1st place