EhhhÂ…This fren likes mi..but IÂ’m not sure whether itÂ’s a mutual feeling. Tats y I tend to avoid him at timesOriginally posted by JacK84:You'll feel like you want to be by her side all the time.
You'll try to get her books everytime.
You'll probably do anything for her to please her.
You'll contact her every now and then?
You'll treat her good like never before.
You'll likely to be in her same interests.
Yeah, i agree that i'm not ready for the commitment. B4 I know he likes mi, i kinda like teasing him & asking him for help. Now, i feel very conscious & rather cold when we are wif a grp of frenz. Is tat normal? raingal...thx thx..ur reply is very "appropriate", u been thru similar situation b4?Originally posted by raingal:What Jack84 implies is vice versus.
If you don't know whether you like him or not, chances are you probably don't like him OR not ready for this relationship. It's just that you feel nice about the things he had done for you. If you like him, you'll also do the same things for the guy.
If it's NOT a 'Supressed Rejection' then it's NORMAL... If you think that the fact that he've admitted his LOVE for you is making you NERVOUS, try to loosen up a bit..? Perhaps you'll see a CLEARER picture from there...? In 'Supressed Rejection' I meant that you could be making a SUBCONSCIOUS REJECTION feeling for him because his LOVE or CARE for you is making you LOST or NERVOUS....Originally posted by strudelz:Yeah, i agree that i'm not ready for the commitment. B4 I know he likes mi, i kinda like teasing him & asking him for help. Now, i feel very conscious & rather cold when we are wif a grp of frenz. Is tat normal? raingal...thx thx..ur reply is very "appropriate", u been thru similar situation b4?

I think she's just not sure about her feelings for him, and not boosting her ego.Originally posted by userid:hey i think if u dont like the fella make it clear to him so tat he doesnt waste his time. if he carries on then let him be, else dont let the poor fella get the wrong idea.
i know some gals like the attention though they are not interested at all. i think tats rather mean. they keep guys who like themselves ard them and lead them on just to boost their own ego. guys out there who agree with me stand out too.
Most girls are like that. Often they will not ignore guys who are chasing after them. They like to be pampered, be treated sweetly, showered with gifts. But what the poor guy don't realise is, she is just simply clueless about it. She will continue to behave the same way, without telling him yes or no.If she likes you, then its obvious. Either that, she is not ready for a relationship/committment. There's a feeling that i can't really describe in words. It's like you know the guy/girl likes you. He's not disgusting, so you don't get turn off. You enjoy the attention and get excited. Somehow you think you will like him/her, because he/she likes you so.Originally posted by strudelz:i'm also very puzzled by my "reaction" I'm usually the pro-active one among my frens..who usually very onz abt outings etc. This time rd, very passive..even my close fren was shocked. As in..i will onli reply to his sms..n wont auto sms himtalk to him on phone onli when he called etc. Hmmm..maybe i dun like him afterall? coz i agree that if hes the ONE, i wouldn't be having such a huge headache ah ..hehe. BUT i still want him to continue asking mi out..contradicting again rt? He is not those dashing kind..but those who can make mi smile/laugh. He is those joker among his frens but din realli notice tat hes tat "gentleman" till i went out with him. Told our common fren tat he actualli is a very sweet guy..n she was abit taken aback...anyway, guess all guys are the same when it comes to chasing after girls rt? *wink wink* its a "tactic" ..hehe..yeah, will TRY not to avoid him..thx for ur advices, raingal
if you don't like someone, there would not be a difference if he is there or not. life would still be the same.Originally posted by strudelz:how do u know u like some1???
Originally posted by Solitude-:bingo..thats wat i'm feeling rt now. I dun dislike him..n i like going out with him coz he has lotsa "surprises" for mi. BUT..should i go ahead with this relationship hoping i would like him as much as he like mi 1 fine day..?? *ponder*
[b] Either that, she is not ready for a relationship/committment. There's a feeling that i can't really describe in words. It's like you know the guy/girl likes you. He's not disgusting, so you don't get turn off. You enjoy the attention and get excited. Somehow you think you will like him/her, because he/she likes you so.
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haha.. yeah.. i agree with that..Originally posted by OverTheParadise:
love is abt feelings lah, so much theory for wad.
just hear wad ur heart says ~