Need some advise on R/S
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I got to know this female friend from my best friend during a BBQ and got very close with her after we started SMSing a week later. We've been going out almost every alternate day of the week and wait for her while she have her music classes. I'm unsure if I'm having a crush on her or what, but just enjoyed the moments spent with her.
And recently I'm having some dreams about my ex and stuffs.
Maybe a little advises might help? Thanks !
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Advice on what?
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congradz.
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Shldnt u try to noe more abt her before making any decision?
l tink is too fast le bah...must noe her character and everything before deciding mah -
Take it slow.
Don't rush.
If there is an attraction between the two of you, let it develop at its own pace. -
Well.. if u like her then tell her... see what she says
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wat advise..? dream is dream.... sometimes funny ppl u know might drop into it... jz carry on ur dating...Originally posted by photo_seeker:I got to know this female friend from my best friend during a BBQ and got very close with her after we started SMSing a week later. We've been going out almost every alternate day of the week and wait for her while she have her music classes. I'm unsure if I'm having a crush on her or what, but just enjoyed the moments spent with her.
And recently I'm having some dreams about my ex and stuffs.
Maybe a little advises might help? Thanks ! -
dreams are totally random one lah. Just get to know this new gal better lor..before deciding
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Cause dreams are due to what our sub-conscious mind is thinking. So I'm wondering if I'm just still not letting go of my past RS ?
We're actually getting closer now but I think I'm just afraid to date her even if I really like her, due to past experiences with failed dates. -
is she attached?
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Dreams r just dreams, not necessarily sub-concious and stuff.Originally posted by photo_seeker:Cause dreams are due to what our sub-conscious mind is thinking. So I'm wondering if I'm just still not letting go of my past RS ?
For this girl, I won't ask her till some times later I think.
As for asking her, just go with the flow. If u ask, it might scare her, just try holding her hand if u hv the chance, do stuff like that. If she doesn't let go or shrug u off, then just hold it longer and longer and longer till, u know, u dun hv to ask anymore -
She's not.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:is she attached? -
Hold her hand? Not so soon I guess.Originally posted by Othello_Red:Dreams r just dreams, not necessarily sub-concious and stuff.
As for asking her, just go with the flow. If u ask, it might scare her, just try holding her hand if u hv the chance, do stuff like that. If she doesn't let go or shrug u off, then just hold it longer and longer and longer till, u know, u dun hv to ask anymore -
Why not?Originally posted by photo_seeker:Hold her hand? Not so soon I guess. -
I'm shy and she's shy too.Originally posted by Othello_Red:Why not?
And at the moment, I'm unsure if she likes me. Don't want to scare her off. I'm just alright with carrying her stuffs for her and walking her home each day -
so if you are shy and she is shy, will anything happen?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I'm shy and she's shy too.
And at the moment, I'm unsure if she likes me. Don't want to scare her off. I'm just alright with carrying her stuffs for her and walking her home each day
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yeah true.Originally posted by dokono:so if you are shy and she is shy, will anything happen?
doko
my gf and i, when we started, basically i asked her out, went for movie, held her hand, for longer and longer and longer, until dun even hv to ask.
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this is your style mah...Originally posted by Othello_Red:yeah true.
my gf and i, when we started, basically i asked her out, went for movie, held her hand, for longer and longer and longer, until dun even hv to ask.
for me... I rather take it slow... go out on a number of dates first. At least have a hint or drop hints first... then test water. If all is right, then slowly hold her hands and stuff like that. I think TS is along my track.
Too fast hold hands might be an act of impulse. Which is not good for a long term relationship. Maybe for a fling its fine. But then again, its not like i agree with flings. lol.
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Can it be your dreams is your subconsious telling you that you want to love and be loved in return? reminding you of the happiness you felt when you were with a gf?
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How old are you ?Originally posted by photo_seeker:I got to know this female friend from my best friend during a BBQ and got very close with her after we started SMSing a week later. We've been going out almost every alternate day of the week and wait for her while she have her music classes. I'm unsure if I'm having a crush on her or what, but just enjoyed the moments spent with her.
And recently I'm having some dreams about my ex and stuffs.
Maybe a little advises might help? Thanks !
You sound...
Like a very excited kid whose fascinated about relationship and sex. -
how old r u? just curious to know if these sort of "guy meet gal" thing still happen around the age of 25 or is it restricted to teens and early 20s.
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so good I want also dun have...
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sex? what makes you think that way.Originally posted by Sekundes:How old are you ?
You sound...
Like a very excited kid whose fascinated about relationship and sex.
yes, he might be feeling a little nervous and excited about it
but definitely dosen't sound like lust