How to get to know more about a gal
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Salve all,
I have been working just now at a event when I met this gal. She came towards me and ask me helping her to find her missing spectacle. I agreed but somehow throughout the event I couldn't find it. I then walk over and ask her if she had found, in which she have not.
Anyway I chatted with her for quite some time and found out she is actually a scholarship student waiting to enter a local JC, and somehow I manage to get her hp number, with the lame reason tat if I found it after the event I will contact her again to return her spect. Immediately after we exchange goodbyes as she left the event I return to my work area, and there was, her spectacle right under my eyes!
I picked it up and since she have left, I kept it for her. After the event ended, I called her to explain that her spectacle have been found, we agreed to meet each other on thursday since Friday she is going back to Indonesia (Indonesia Chinese). Now the problem, or challenge is how do I get to know more about her, or find myself an excuse so that we can continue to keep contact with each other before she came back to Singapore, people please suggest bah, I'm pretty blur right now!
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ask for her msn or skype
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If both of you have the fate to be together you will have the chance, but after going through so much shit in life, I feel that just be yourself. The more hopes that you put on her the more disappointment you will get.Originally posted by Texcoco II:Salve all,
I have been working just now at a event when I met this gal. She came towards me and ask me helping her to find her missing spectacle. I agreed but somehow throughout the event I couldn't find it. I then walk over and ask her if she had found, in which she have not.
Anyway I chatted with her for quite some time and found out she is actually a scholarship student waiting to enter a local JC, and somehow I manage to get her hp number, with the lame reason tat if I found it after the event I will contact her again to return her spect. Immediately after we exchange goodbyes as she left the event I return to my work area, and there was, her spectacle right under my eyes!
I picked it up and since she have left, I kept it for her. After the event ended, I called her to explain that her spectacle have been found, we agreed to meet each other on thursday since Friday she is going back to Indonesia (Indonesia Chinese). Now the problem, or challenge is how do I get to know more about her, or find myself an excuse so that we can continue to keep contact with each other before she came back to Singapore, people please suggest bah, I'm pretty blur right now!
Standard SOP
keep in contact but do not restrict yourself to her. -
Her E-Mail adress is the key to frienster,msn space and lots more blogspot maybe?
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maybe meet her for drink to return her spect and try to chit chat with her lor, then get her email or if u can write letter maybe her add if she is comfortable with u....
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Engage a PI.
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Be a penpal.
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U got her number rite? Juz CALL
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Refer to FI's post.Originally posted by sunny6110:U got her number rite? Juz CALL
Use Skype... make free calls online. -
SMS Flirting
If u haven start, Begin Now -
Now is the time to gather your courage liao... quick call her. First, use the spectacles returning day as an excuse to ask her to have a meal or smth. If you too scared to ask on phone. On that day, ask her when returning if she wanna drink some coffee or something. After that, like all the other forumers said, ask for msn/friendster/skype/email. At the very least, you'll be able to keep in contact with herOriginally posted by Texcoco II:Salve all,
I have been working just now at a event when I met this gal. She came towards me and ask me helping her to find her missing spectacle. I agreed but somehow throughout the event I couldn't find it. I then walk over and ask her if she had found, in which she have not.
Anyway I chatted with her for quite some time and found out she is actually a scholarship student waiting to enter a local JC, and somehow I manage to get her hp number, with the lame reason tat if I found it after the event I will contact her again to return her spect. Immediately after we exchange goodbyes as she left the event I return to my work area, and there was, her spectacle right under my eyes!
I picked it up and since she have left, I kept it for her. After the event ended, I called her to explain that her spectacle have been found, we agreed to meet each other on thursday since Friday she is going back to Indonesia (Indonesia Chinese). Now the problem, or challenge is how do I get to know more about her, or find myself an excuse so that we can continue to keep contact with each other before she came back to Singapore, people please suggest bah, I'm pretty blur right now! -
Originally posted by sunny6110:U got her number rite? Juz CALL
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Stalk her.
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ok thanks everyone for ur suggestions, how bout, on the day I meet her, any more suggestion on what should I do?
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hmmm... depending on how u get it going...
if u manage to get her free to hang out with u for a bit... get a drink/snack so u can sit down and chat with her (conversation skills depend on urself)... more or less conversation will break down barriers and make chance for future contact.
if u are real unlucky and she's going somewhere later... u can ask her where's she's heading and make use of the time to hang out a little bit or offer to accompany her there since u got nothing to do (find some excuses)
if she's so ready to run away... i think u can go home and cry a little bit... no go. But at least get contact for future. -
Hi. This is a favourable situation for you, as you have her specs and you can meet her to return it as an excuse. Maybe you can meet her during the early afternoon and suggested going for lunch together. Just find an excuse to have a conversation with her, be it a meal or a drink. It's up to your crapping skills to let you leave an impression on her. Unless you look like Brad pitt (which helps a bit), if not you have to keep her entertained using your humour. The main purpose is to create attraction. Ha. Of course ask her all the info you need about her during the conversation (like when will she be back, her online contacts etc).Originally posted by Texcoco II:Salve all,
I have been working just now at a event when I met this gal. She came towards me and ask me helping her to find her missing spectacle. I agreed but somehow throughout the event I couldn't find it. I then walk over and ask her if she had found, in which she have not.
Anyway I chatted with her for quite some time and found out she is actually a scholarship student waiting to enter a local JC, and somehow I manage to get her hp number, with the lame reason tat if I found it after the event I will contact her again to return her spect. Immediately after we exchange goodbyes as she left the event I return to my work area, and there was, her spectacle right under my eyes!
I picked it up and since she have left, I kept it for her. After the event ended, I called her to explain that her spectacle have been found, we agreed to meet each other on thursday since Friday she is going back to Indonesia (Indonesia Chinese). Now the problem, or challenge is how do I get to know more about her, or find myself an excuse so that we can continue to keep contact with each other before she came back to Singapore, people please suggest bah, I'm pretty blur right now!
Initiate a move first after the talk. Say you going somewhere or what. That's it for the moment. Ha. A step at a time. Anyway, this is just my advice. I can't promise it will work or what, but this is what i feel you should do at this stage. All girls are different yeah. All the best. No matter what, learn from the experience, be it good or bad. Cheers. -
break her spec and offer to buy a new one yada. more chance to see her now.
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Sponsor her to go for lasik surgery...Then she will tell u more about her...And sure can get her to be your gf cos she don mind going under the knife for your sake...Thats is she agree to the Lasik...so try asking...
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Originally posted by NewAge:break her spec and offer to buy a new one yada. more chance to see her now.
yeah man wateverOriginally posted by hobochua:Sponsor her to go for lasik surgery...Then she will tell u more about her...And sure can get her to be your gf cos she don mind going under the knife for your sake...Thats is she agree to the Lasik...so try asking... 
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Indonesian Chinese ah..Me also like 1 gal that is Indo-Chinese too...Originally posted by Texcoco II:Salve all,
I have been working just now at a event when I met this gal. She came towards me and ask me helping her to find her missing spectacle. I agreed but somehow throughout the event I couldn't find it. I then walk over and ask her if she had found, in which she have not.
Anyway I chatted with her for quite some time and found out she is actually a scholarship student waiting to enter a local JC, and somehow I manage to get her hp number, with the lame reason tat if I found it after the event I will contact her again to return her spect. Immediately after we exchange goodbyes as she left the event I return to my work area, and there was, her spectacle right under my eyes!
I picked it up and since she have left, I kept it for her. After the event ended, I called her to explain that her spectacle have been found, we agreed to meet each other on thursday since Friday she is going back to Indonesia (Indonesia Chinese). Now the problem, or challenge is how do I get to know more about her, or find myself an excuse so that we can continue to keep contact with each other before she came back to Singapore, people please suggest bah, I'm pretty blur right now!
Anyway, on the day u meet, don't just pass her the spects and then say goodbye. Suggest grabbing a bite. Don't ask her go watch movies because u don't even know her. So suggest eating something will be good.
After that, ask her where she from lah(which part of Indo), when she come to spore, blah blah blah..Ask her when she coming back to spore, then suggest keeping in touch lor.
Wait until she comes back from spore, then sms her ask her how's her trip back home. Ask for MSN. After that, u are on your own buddy.
Gd luck -
later she replies that she alrdy bought a new pair of specs when u call her...
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Ask directly lah. Ask her if u can call her for a date or not loh. If she reject, u can delete her HP No.
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Yeah precisely, no point wasting your time thinking what to do.Originally posted by redpicanto:Ask directly lah. Ask her if u can call her for a date or not loh. If she reject, u can delete her HP No.
Just do it. Just ask her out.
She is flying off tonight. What are you still waiting for ?
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god gave u a brain to think, not to juz add it in as bod parts nia..
after hearin sooo many advices, u still canot come to a conlusion, thn u realli shld not go after her... Not pouring u cold water, but come to think abt it,
wht if u used one of our methods, if it turns out well, u come back thankin ther person, if u fail badly, u gonna come back to fcuk us or thn think tat the other method of approach is better n u shd hav used tat n not this etc...
bruddEr... u r 1 n only... so, use yr own way, own method, at least whteve outcome, u will still b satifisied.....
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Yeah, we been meeting each other at the airport later..thanks everyone for the suggestion
