Anyone here whose character is this?
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Tends to be quiet in big groups,but is a good conversationalist in one on one situations.
Got someone said she thought I am a quiet and boring guy coz I hardly speak up in a big group.However that perception of me changed after she talked to me individually...She said I am definitely not as quiet as she thought. -
Yeah... I don't like big groups outings so I'll usually get bored real quick and of course I'll become quiet when I bored.
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I used to be quiet either in big groups AND individually but learnt to open up later in my life.
But still,I can't change to be more prominent in groups. -
im shy.
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Strangely.. I never feel the need to be prominent in a group setting so I'm fine with it. Seems like the group usually think that I'm 'cool' because I'm quiet... but I rather let them think this way than to let them know I bored.
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Yeh, Im like that.
Just observe and see the group dynamics 1st.
Everyone say they respect me cos very quiet like that...an very unforgettable
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When I am in a big group, I would take the back seat and observe everyone. Thus, I would appear to be more quiet then usual. This happens when I am with a new group. Once I am comfortable with the group, I might choose to open up more. I would also use this time to determine if I would be on the same wavelength with that certain group. If yes, good. If no, maybe I wont agree to hang out with them again.
When with my own circle of friends, I am sure I talk too much. -
me too. I dun like to fight for airtime, and i dun like too much attention when in a big group...
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i think it's easier for me to open up to ple when it's one to one lor..
in groups, usually i'll listen more and talk less. -
*me me !!
Big group i always listen, dun talk much de.
But if one to one, your kinda more forced to talk.. u cant expect the other party to talk all the time right..
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lol...I don't have a way with girls
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seems like everyone here shares the same character. coz me too is like this with a bigger group. ple classified me as anti-social.
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i also like that...but also depend on topics also
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yea i'm like that, but i also quiet on one to one unless someone talk to me first
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i seldom talk in group situations unless its a group project discussion. i prefer to listen and see how different people interact.
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i'm like that!
haha... In groups i keep quiet.. cos actually in groups, people tend to form sub-groups. and sometimes when they get on a topic and get really heated up about it, I can't get a word in edgewise, so i just keep quiet.
Its easier to communicate on a one-to-one basis, cos I feel more... close to the person and so i can talk more. -
same lor i think most people are like this. it is only the minority that are extroverts enough to go mix with a new crowd and be loud.
i also can talk a lot online, or 1to 1. but in a group, i can be v quiet. -
I'm suprised that i didn't post in here earlier, considering how I have this same character as you.
But then again, think about it. When you are one-to-one, of course the chances of you speaking up increases significantly. Because its either u start talking or the other person start talking.
When in a big group, somehow, people tend to be more cautious, because u do not want to be seen as the one who make decisions, or speak up. Because when things go wrong, and people start to finger-point, u will be deemed the culprit.
I think only the ultra-going and hyper ones will tend to be the ones to speak up in a big group, and be the "life of the party" -
i am usually v quiet in big groups becos i dun like orgies.
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me me.. dont like to talk when in big groups..
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It depends on da company you are with lah. Some groups I oso can hardly talk... Coz da frequency is different. But in groups or one on one I can talk... alot.
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I dun talk to anyone at all.
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Remind me of someone...
Aston Martin -
Me ish your group.
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seems like so many ppl share the same character as mi, i always thought i am anti-social