Will guys treasure if it is a girl make e first move?

• Amber20

  30 Nov 06, 09:57

  wat i mean is that a gal make a first move and slowly the relationship just start somehow.. Will the guy treasure e gal as his gf? Or maybe k just say will a guy treasure the gal who throw herself to him?
• Ito_^

  30 Nov 06, 10:02

  many guys wouldn't, especially the younger he is.
  
  im different.
• angrynor

  30 Nov 06, 10:05

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  many guys wouldn't, especially the younger he is.
  
  im different.

  eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
  
  to TS. It depends on the person. No right/wrong answer for this question of yours.
• dokono

  30 Nov 06, 10:31

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  wat i mean is that a gal make a first move and slowly the relationship just start somehow.. Will the guy treasure e gal as his gf? Or maybe k just say will a guy treasure the gal who throw herself to him?

  I sense you are feeling insecure in this relationship.
  
  Give your boyfriend a break la.
  
  doko
• T.Ryousuke

  30 Nov 06, 11:01

  If the gal is nice why not.
• deathscythe99

  30 Nov 06, 11:15

  Depends on both parties la
• fudgester

  30 Nov 06, 11:19

  A girl once confessed that she had a crush on me.
  
  But I didn't quite feel the same way about her, so I asked her to give me some time to get to know her better first.
  
  Eventually, my feelings for her grew.
  
  In the end, though, she told me that she was scared that I might end up like her ex - abusive, cheating, dishonest... you name it. This in spite of the fact that she told me that she knew I wouldn't descend to such depths.
  
  Oh well. The feeling was good while it lasted.
• FBI

  30 Nov 06, 11:22

  seriously no
  
  unless she is drop dead gorgeous
• blu_sky

  30 Nov 06, 11:31

  If a guy does not know how to or does not want to treasure you, even if he was the one who made the first move, he still will not treasure.
  
  That said, i'll still never go after a guy.
• TooFree

  30 Nov 06, 11:33

  Yes. As long as the love is mutual.
• Texcoco II

  30 Nov 06, 12:48

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  many guys wouldn't, especially the younger he is.
  
  im different.

  me too
• Fatum

  30 Nov 06, 13:01

  
  no.
• alexkusu

  30 Nov 06, 13:09

  Of course, Definately!
• Space1999

  30 Nov 06, 14:11

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  wat i mean is that a gal make a first move and slowly the relationship just start somehow.. Will the guy treasure e gal as his gf? Or maybe k just say will a guy treasure the gal who throw herself to him?

• Space1999

  30 Nov 06, 14:12

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  wat i mean is that a gal make a first move and slowly the relationship just start somehow.. Will the guy treasure e gal as his gf? Or maybe k just say will a guy treasure the gal who throw herself to him?

  sorry forgot to type first time around
  
  why not?
• browniebaobao

  30 Nov 06, 23:17

  i dun think so lor..
• Ito_^

  30 Nov 06, 23:18

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  me too

  are you despo like me too?
• the Bear

  30 Nov 06, 23:19

  it's emancipation... and i'm all for it
  
  
• NewAge

  30 Nov 06, 23:55

  why not?
• beavan

  30 Nov 06, 23:56

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  sorry forgot to type first time around
  
  why not?

  +1
• momodada

  1 Dec 06, 00:00

  it all depends on both party in the relationship i guess...u can take it slowly one step at a time...
  
  

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  wat i mean is that a gal make a first move and slowly the relationship just start somehow.. Will the guy treasure e gal as his gf? Or maybe k just say will a guy treasure the gal who throw herself to him?

• NotFromVenus

  1 Dec 06, 00:05

  Is the answer as important as the question?
• the_fallen

  1 Dec 06, 02:06

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  wat i mean is that a gal make a first move and slowly the relationship just start somehow.. Will the guy treasure e gal as his gf? Or maybe k just say will a guy treasure the gal who throw herself to him?

  it depends on both parties
  
  one party can start to give,
  
  but if the other party doesn't acknowledge it or follow the lead, than there's no point in always leading by making the first move on the gal's part.
  
  if a gal starts to make the first move, the guy still not ready to make other moves to follow suit, than i suggest that you have better stop making the first move, until he learns to go with you.
  
  if not it will be one-sided love already.
  
  they must follow, than you slowly throw in more.
  if they don't follow, no matter how much you throw in (first move) they also will not appreciate it.
  
  For those who don't appreciate ladies who make the first move, then they will have this "Ya-Ya Papaya" kind of attitude already, keep on self-tee up say got gals approach them, pasting gold to their own face.
  These is the type of guys that gals should be-aware of.
  
  Simmary:
  Gals make the first move
  Than wait for the other party to take action, if he don't take action, than there's no point in giving in more.
• buses_galore

  1 Dec 06, 02:06

  the girl must be good looking mah later look like shit like that how to stead?
• the_fallen

  1 Dec 06, 02:10

  Originally posted by buses_galore:

  the girl must be good looking mah later look like shit like that how to stead?

  short-sighted.
  
  when choosing a wife.
  you go for the inner beauty
  
  not external beauty.
  
  if outside very nice, inside the heart very evil, also no point.
  
  but of course, outside, just average will do already, don't need to go for too beautiful gals.
  
  like as if we guys have all 5Cs to be able to choose gals.
  wake-up, we don't have (majority) so we can't be picky.
  
  be realistic and practical