Perhaps he is one of those kind of people who are very relaxed towards the relationship. Can you give examples of being cold to you?Originally posted by Amber20:many ppl said those NS guys with gf have nothing big to worry except worry of BING BIAN ( means GF change heart when her bf is in ns) .
Reasons due to it is:
(1) no time to acc HER
(2) cant share with HER saddness or happiness everyday
(3) NS guys BOTAK liao, SHE might find that he is not attractive anymore..
OTHER look nicer.
(4) cant stand loneliness
(5) don't understand e tireness in NS
and many more reasons ..
but my relationship is very different wor..
(1) he have no time to acc me.. i don mind.. two weeks meet once.. is ok de..
(2) he cant share with my saddness or happiness everyday but not even often..
(3) my bf is not BOTAK, i never find him not attractive anymore..
OTHER look nicer, So?
(4) i can stand loneliness coz i have to work almost everyday..
(5) i k understand e tireness in NS. i willing to go until that far to find him..
but do he appreicate? NO NO NO..
But i never BING BIAN le.. how would i wish i k..
but y does i just cant give up on him .. i am really very different from other gal who BING BIAN but why my bf still
like very cold towards me? take me 4 granted?
doesnt this sound absurd?
when he need you, he will go and find you. when does he need you? and wat do you guys do? how often does he find you?Originally posted by Amber20:(1) k two day reply or sms me once..
(2) never care for me..
(3) never say he wan to meet me..
(4)tell him this guy and tat guy wan to woo me,
he don care..
(5) tell him i worry for him, he still never reply..
(6) when he need me, he will come and find me.
when he don need me, he will just don care about me..
he need me when his frenz not free to meet him ba..Originally posted by blu_sky:when he need you, he will go and find you. when does he need you? and wat do you guys do? how often does he find you?
Originally posted by Amber20:What the hell do u expect him to do? I'm sure inside he must be pissed... maybe he even think u are going to do ur 'bing bian'.
(1) k two day reply or sms me once..
(2) never care for me..
(3) never say he wan to meet me..
(4)tell him this guy and tat guy wan to woo me,
he don care..
(5) tell him i worry for him, he still never reply..
(6) when he need me, he will come and find me.
when he don need me, he will just don care about me..
(1) two day sms not enough? At least he still msged you? He probably did not do it to other girls? But since you are the girlfriend he msg you. What do you want him to msg? It's not manly for a guy to get mushy you know.Originally posted by Amber20:(1) k two day reply or sms me once..
(2) never care for me..
(3) never say he wan to meet me..
(4)tell him this guy and tat guy wan to woo me,
he don care..
(5) tell him i worry for him, he still never reply..
(6) when he need me, he will come and find me.
when he don need me, he will just don care about me..
yeah exactly...he might have felt squeezed.Originally posted by mayday80:What the hell do u expect him to do? I'm sure inside he must be pissed... maybe he even think u are going to do ur 'bing bian'.
True and trueOriginally posted by dokono:(1) two day sms not enough? At least he still msged you? He probably did not do it to other girls? But since you are the girlfriend he msg you. What do you want him to msg? It's not manly for a guy to get mushy you know.
(2)never care for you? Please explain.
(3)Just wait for him to contact you to meet him. You are a bit on the sensitive? Or better still, why don't you ask him to meet you? Call him.
(4) At least, he never gets jealous. What do you expect him to do? Cage you?
(5) Worry for him? He is probably busy in NS. Has time to reply you? What do you have to worry over him here? Everyday worry over him? You are giving yourself unnecessary pressure here. Relax ok?
(6) Don't say until like he doesn't care for you. If that is true, perhaps you rushed into the relationship in this case. He needs to have a life outside you know.
In conclusion, I don't think this guy has done anything wrong. Maybe you think too much? He is still going out with you. Your life don't just revolve around this guy also.
doko
1) you mean he never sms you at all, or sms you just once?Originally posted by Amber20:(1) k two day reply or sms me once..
(2) never care for me..
(3) never say he wan to meet me..
(4)tell him this guy and tat guy wan to woo me,
he don care..
(5) tell him i worry for him, he still never reply..
(6) when he need me, he will come and find me.
when he don need me, he will just don care about me..
since u feeling tis then tell him lo...Originally posted by Amber20:many ppl said those NS guys with gf have nothing big to worry except worry of BING BIAN ( means GF change heart when her bf is in ns) .
Reasons due to it is:
(1) no time to acc HER
(2) cant share with HER saddness or happiness everyday
(3) NS guys BOTAK liao, SHE might find that he is not attractive anymore..
OTHER look nicer.
(4) cant stand loneliness
(5) don't understand e tireness in NS
and many more reasons ..
but my relationship is very different wor..
(1) he have no time to acc me.. i don mind.. two weeks meet once.. is ok de..
(2) he cant share with my saddness or happiness everyday but not even often..
(3) my bf is not BOTAK, i never find him not attractive anymore..
OTHER look nicer, So?
(4) i can stand loneliness coz i have to work almost everyday..
(5) i k understand e tireness in NS. i willing to go until that far to find him..
but do he appreicate? NO NO NO..
But i never BING BIAN le.. how would i wish i k..
but y does i just cant give up on him .. i am really very different from other gal who BING BIAN but why my bf still
like very cold towards me? take me 4 granted?
doesnt this sound absurd?