Originally posted by opto:
Hi all,
I've been having a crush on a girl in my office for about 3 months. She's around my age and she's a gentle and pretty girl with no apparent boyfriend. I've been a bit shy and have kept to being her friend.
However, in these few weeks, I've been more pro-active and trying to get close to her by talking to her more often and taking every chance to hang out with her. When I try to ask her out recently, she says she's busy with something important for these few days. When I tell her I'll ask again next time, she just smiles. Recently, we are both busy at work and I'm having less and less chance to see her and talk to her.
I have her handphone number but I'm afraid to call her as I don't want her to think that I'm some weird fellow or something. I really like this girl and I think she could be the one for me.
So what should I do next? Do I ask her out again? Do I tell her what I feel? I'm afraid that she's not interested in me and she's just too nice to say it to me.
not really to discourage u, modern day gals nowaday seldom play 'hard to get'. when they like a guy, even they r unfree for date, they will make sure to call off their appointment or find way to make up for a date another day. some of the brave ones even make a 1st move to date 'good catch' out!
if a gal always find excuse dat she is not free, she is not interested in u or u r just not her cup of tea.