finally we broke off
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today is such a sad day.. my gf of 4 yrs and me finally broke off for the second time. we just cant seem to communicate. now i face the trauma of meeting the world without her.. and also bumping into frenzz who will ask"where's ur gf' and i be like "no more" coz they see us together and assumed that we'll get married soon.
anyway right now.. feeling damn low. just wish that i can pick myself up and move on. in a way i am also happy that this relationship has ended because we both are so different. we just cant see eye to eye in many things. so suprising that we lasted so long. also i do not seem to be in love with her anymore. i just haf likings for any other gal on the street rather than her. i dunno y but its true. -
i don't know why you need to pick yourself up when you are already feeling that.Originally posted by sickandtired:today is such a sad day.. my gf of 4 yrs and me finally broke off for the second time. we just cant seem to communicate. now i face the trauma of meeting the world without her.. and also bumping into frenzz who will ask"where's ur gf' and i be like "no more" coz they see us together and assumed that we'll get married soon.
anyway right now.. feeling damn low. just wish that i can pick myself up and move on. in a way i am also happy that this relationship has ended because we both are so different. we just cant see eye to eye in many things. so suprising that we lasted so long. also i do not seem to be in love with her anymore. i just haf likings for any other gal on the street rather than her. i dunno y but its true.
perhaps you are sad just because the long attachment is gone. -
perhaps u are just not used to the feeling of being without her.
go indulge in other activities.
hang around with your friends more often.
soon, you'll get over it. -
brudder, lifes juz like tat... u will get over it soon. no worries .....
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You already say that you dun feel much for her. Than why are u still so lost?
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Since you are not in love wif her anymore, breaking off now is better than dragging it on? This is fairer to both parties as well.
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dont be so melodramatic break off second time sure got third time again, now its good time to sing karaOriginally posted by sickandtired:today is such a sad day.. my gf of 4 yrs and me finally broke off for the second time. we just cant seem to communicate. now i face the trauma of meeting the world without her.. and also bumping into frenzz who will ask"where's ur gf' and i be like "no more" coz they see us together and assumed that we'll get married soon.
anyway right now.. feeling damn low. just wish that i can pick myself up and move on. in a way i am also happy that this relationship has ended because we both are so different. we just cant see eye to eye in many things. so suprising that we lasted so long. also i do not seem to be in love with her anymore. i just haf likings for any other gal on the street rather than her. i dunno y but its true. -
haha i had a ex-gf of 4 years too. i was sad after the breakup. but now i hate her guts.
dun worry, my man. u are not alone. -
*help you add oil*
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I also broke with my ex of 4 yrs 2 yrs back...seems like its hard to get beond 4 yrs in a r/s these days
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Sure got some feeling but don dare to admit it...Typical of man..Me too like that haiz....Originally posted by zheshi:You already say that you dun feel much for her. Than why are u still so lost?
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you are a very confused man.
on one hand you claimed to be feeling down, on the other you claimed to only half love her.
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Feel sorry for you...
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if you really love someone, you can turn to hate the person as much as well.
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You're just sick of her, that's all.
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u r not alone. be strong n hold on!!
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so sad
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you are not alone brother I too juz broke up with my girlfriend I am still waiting for her still...
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NEVER LOOK BACK!!!
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Guys who are still waiting... don't. Girls are heartless... once they decided, there's no turning back. And don't keep running the 'but she's such an angel when we were happy together' in your heads too. When they changed heart, they can do the most hurtful things ever to you... things even your worst enemy also won't do to you.
I've seen girls forgiving the guy if the guy is a b@stard who double-timed her but I have yet to see a girl who agree patch once they've (the girl) decided to run. If there's a patch, there is a good chance the girl will run off with the next suitor to her.
The only exception is when the reason for the break is that the girl wants to get married. -
there is no longer something called love
love cannot earn your rice bowl, be practical and move on.
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guys can always turn gay.
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What's wrong with telling people the truth? Especially when that's the way ya like things to be?Originally posted by sickandtired:today is such a sad day.. my gf of 4 yrs and me finally broke off for the second time. we just cant seem to communicate. now i face the trauma of meeting the world without her.. and also bumping into frenzz who will ask"where's ur gf' and i be like "no more" coz they see us together and assumed that we'll get married soon.
anyway right now.. feeling damn low. just wish that i can pick myself up and move on. in a way i am also happy that this relationship has ended because we both are so different. we just cant see eye to eye in many things. so suprising that we lasted so long. also i do not seem to be in love with her anymore. i just haf likings for any other gal on the street rather than her. i dunno y but its true. -
broke up den broke up lor .. ur world doesnt just revolves for a single girl bah .. theres stil alot more pebbles on the beach .. no point holdin on to the same old 1 .. look for others !
wish u gl bah =] -
The fact is that you are also having the same situation as me once there is no more feelings in a relationship what for do u still hold on for I learn it the hard way.....