Turning down a girl

• slide

  5 Dec 06, 03:41

  It's not easy but I just did it about two hours ago. Simply told her our backgrounds are too different.........
  
  Who has been in this situation before?
• skeujin

  5 Dec 06, 03:43

  r u in agony or r u boasting?
  
  if its the latter pls post in BAR.
• Herzog_Zwei

  5 Dec 06, 03:45

  If former, what would skeujin do?
  
• FireIce

  5 Dec 06, 03:46

  Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:

  If former, what would skeujin do?
  

  try to get the girl's contact and comfort her
• skeujin

  5 Dec 06, 03:47

  if hes in agony. thn i wld ask him what happened. wat wer the difficulties they faced and did they try to work things out b4 he came to this decision.
• skeujin

  5 Dec 06, 03:48

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  try to get the girl's contact and comfort her

  Ooi.. i havnt go slp yt hor...
• slide

  5 Dec 06, 03:55

  Not boasting but just that I don't feel good about it. So just gettin a breather here.
  
  Just getting some thoughts from people who have experiences like that in the past.
• SexyChin

  5 Dec 06, 03:57

  
• skeujin

  5 Dec 06, 03:59

  Originally posted by slide:

  Not boasting but just that I don't feel good about it. So just gettin a breather here.
  
  Just getting some thoughts from people who have experiences like that in the past.

  thers this mandarin saying tt goes somthing like, short term pain is better thn long term suffering.
  
  n yet again, the optimist mite say. luv is about the sacrifices made.
• M©+square

  5 Dec 06, 04:04

  you don't feel good
  because you're also interested in her
  
  or
  
  you felt that you've hurt a nice girl.
  
  
• nanren4ever

  5 Dec 06, 10:07

  Originally posted by slide:

  It's not easy but I just did it about two hours ago. Simply told her our backgrounds are too different.........
  
  Who has been in this situation before?

  If not interested at her at all, just tell her that u think u are not worthy of her.
  That u are not as nice as she thinks you are, that you know that should you two ever be together, she will be hurt.
• fudgester

  5 Dec 06, 10:10

  I know how it feels.
  
  A girl once confessed that she has a crush on me.
  
  I told her to give me some time to get to know her better first.
• dragg

  5 Dec 06, 10:13

  i did it to 2 ladies.
  
  both of them cried.
  
  
• molgax

  5 Dec 06, 11:49

  it happens
  
  and you haf to do it when you haf to do it
  
  on the other hand i will ask the girl what she sees in the guy and talk to her about her infatuation from there
• Ito_^

  5 Dec 06, 11:52

  Originally posted by dragg:

  i did it to 2 ladies.
  
  both of them cried.
  
  

  regret now?
• universe

  5 Dec 06, 11:57

  Usually the subtly way of turning down a girl..and it somehow works. hah..
  
  U shd not directly turned her down...that girl must be having an aweful time now.
• logic101

  5 Dec 06, 12:30

  how subtle, enlightenment plz
• xShevchenkox

  5 Dec 06, 17:13

  hmm MIA?
  
  Missing in action...secretly disappear away from her life lo..
  
  l noe is an unresponsible way...but other than that...l dun really noe what is the best way to turn her down
• dragg

  5 Dec 06, 17:25

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  regret now?

  no. i am not good enough for anyone.