it sucks... but life is such and i accept it

• Ristar

  5 Dec 06, 17:26

  for those who wants some skirt chasing action, u've gotta
  
  1) dress nicely
  
  no punky crap, man. as a guy, i frigging hate act punky kinda guys with so many ear holes u'd wonder if its swiss cheese while wearing oversized jeans so low u'd wonder how it managed to stay up there in the first place.
  
  2) get a nice hairdo
  
  i know lil girls dig Paul Twohill, but if YOU have his hairstyle...
  
  3) do all the stuff gers does (get facials and stuff)
  
  hey, if it increases your chances, why not?
  
  4) select the target
  
  hello, if u dun select a target, how to approach?
  
  4 a) do your homework
  
  try to use your bloody creativity to find out more about her passively so she wouldnt be alerted.
  
  5) approach the target slickly
  
  if u dun approach how u get to know her?
  
  6) be aloof after your approach
  
  act cool.
  
  7) STAY aloof.
  
  many a man cannot do point number 7, leading to the girl either freaking out, thinking that the man wants to have sex only, or is of low value.
  
  too many approaches after the initial approach day lowers the guy's value and increases the girl's value, because the guy is interested, therefore the girl can play hard to get and toy with this low value entity and then throw the piece of trash out of the window (or into the trash, since we dun really litter).
  
  therefore, i believe that point 7 is the most critical part of any hooking up strangers for gfs.
  
  for the record, girls, not every guy is after u for sex. those that manage to do number 7 is actually after u for sex, not that u care anyway coz u will be so attracted to them.
  
  guys, the good ones die first, alone. unnoticed.
• binarynwitz

  5 Dec 06, 17:56

  I appreciate your advice, but what is this doing in AA?
• xShevchenkox

  5 Dec 06, 19:52

  nah...is okie mah...he is juz giving us sum of his own opinions..
  
  l tink in aa...not only can say abt ur problems..ur own opinion and tinkings..is oso greatly welcomed =)
• Ristar

  6 Dec 06, 00:01

  and just to add one more point.
  
  if the guy fails point 7, it is not because the guy is clingy or watever, but is actually insecure about his bad position with his target, and has no rational thinking to stop himself from 'harassing' her.
  
  reason being, the target is so pretty (to the male subject in question), and the guy thinks that there are thousands of competitors, and he is just afraid that somebody lucky would get her...
  
  that, or her blind frens suddenly open their eyes and realise wat a beauty she is, and since they already know her, it would speed up the process.
  
  yes, to some, this may not belong in AA.
  
  so, sue me. please.
• Ito_^

  6 Dec 06, 00:06

  
• SGpork

  6 Dec 06, 00:19

  
• Ristar

  6 Dec 06, 00:22

  ah, here comes the very friendly people who give very good replies.
• DriftingGuy

  6 Dec 06, 00:26

  The first part was good advice... then... theres alot of anger
• Ristar

  6 Dec 06, 00:29

  Originally posted by DriftingGuy:

  The first part was good advice... then... theres alot of anger

  hmmm??? i know that i radiate anger, but it is evident even in my post?
  
  please point out which part of it so that i may edit it (maybe).
• missqi

  6 Dec 06, 00:30

  
• ifish

  6 Dec 06, 07:45

  care to explain more on 4a ?
• Ristar

  6 Dec 06, 08:15

  Originally posted by ifish:

  care to explain more on 4a ?

  passive info gathering, cant understand?
  
  if i have to hold anyone's hand and do a walkthrough with them from A to Z, then perhaps the gal isnt attracted to them... but to the person they model. ME!
  
  besides, if i told u everything, it wouldnt be valuable already.
• molgax

  6 Dec 06, 08:34

  
  
  true
  
  
• Bontakun

  6 Dec 06, 13:15

  Its more useful in Dating Tips... In here if you post "How to recover from broken relationships (BGR, family, frens, etc)", You will be more or less idolised... Not da Paul Twohill kind of idolise.
  
  
• Ristar

  6 Dec 06, 14:40

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Its more useful in Dating Tips... In here if you post "How to recover from broken relationships (BGR, family, frens, etc)", You will be more or less idolised... Not da Paul Twohill kind of idolise.
  
  

  heehee... hmmm... i did not realise that there is this forum called dating tips. does it even exist? o.O
• mistyblue

  6 Dec 06, 14:45

  Mc als got a dating forum...
• buses_galore

  6 Dec 06, 23:42

  Are you in agony?
• mamamamama

  6 Dec 06, 23:48

  Originally posted by buses_galore:

  Are you in agony?

  he's in agony to type that all out..
  
  so now, he's not
• RETARDED_MORON

  9 Dec 06, 00:59

  1/10.
  
  The most crucial step (5) was so briefly elaborated on. The obvious question is "how," which you conveniently neglect to explain.
• bboy18

  9 Dec 06, 03:58

  lame
• Ristar

  9 Dec 06, 10:32

  RETARDED_MORON, it will help if u actually use your brains for a while.
  
  if i have to hold anyone's hand and do a walkthrough with them from A to Z, then perhaps the gal isnt attracted to them... but to the person they model. ME!
  
  in addition, everything is scenario based. there is no one method to rule them all, despite wat u imply.
  
  say wat u will. the point of this thread is simply: many gals like to be treated like sh!t, no matter how adamantly they will contradict this statement. give them more attention than they deserve, and they simply turn tail and run.
• Gackt247

  9 Dec 06, 10:43

  Woohoo..
• dokono

  9 Dec 06, 12:14

  This is what you do.
  
  Do not, EVER, place women as the first priority in your life.
  
  Think about it, guys. If your whole life revolves just around a woman/women, don't it seem that you have no life? Life is more than just women. You come into this world alone. You go out alone.
  
  There are more interesting things in life than just chasing skirts...unless of course, you enjoy in being a player and getting laid. But that doesn't mean the girl likes you. The girl enjoys getting laid, too. The girl has to like you for your style. Otherwise, you can continue to be an actor your whole life thinking of lame lines to entertain them or acting cool your whole life.
  
  Enjoy life. Enjoy music, philosophy, photography, art, soccer, business, dancing, music, wrestling, etc whatever that interests you.
  
  Getting women don't make your life better. Sometimes, they can piss you off. Sometimes they can frustrate you. Sometimes, you can be so attached to this girl that you want your freedom so badly...the freedom to meet your guy friends.
  
  Don't get me wrong. Im not saying don't get any girls at all. What Im saying is many people place too much pressure on themselves to get a result...which is to get attached. Have a no-result focused mentality. Learn not to depend on them. Sometimes people get too focused on results that they focus on the wrong things in life, instead of the process.
  
  The irony in life is that when you lose focus on girls, they come to you.
  
  doko
• ifish

  9 Dec 06, 15:31

  Originally posted by dokono:

  This is what you do.
  
  Do not, EVER, place women as the first priority in your life.
  
  Think about it, guys. If your whole life revolves just around a woman/women, don't it seem that you have no life? Life is more than just women. You come into this world alone. You go out alone.
  
  There are more interesting things in life than just chasing skirts...unless of course, you enjoy in being a player and getting laid. But that doesn't mean the girl likes you. The girl enjoys getting laid, too. The girl has to like you for your style. Otherwise, you can continue to be an actor your whole life thinking of lame lines to entertain them or acting cool your whole life.
  
  Enjoy life. Enjoy music, philosophy, photography, art, soccer, business, dancing, music, wrestling, etc whatever that interests you.
  
  Getting women don't make your life better. Sometimes, they can piss you off. Sometimes they can frustrate you. Sometimes, you can be so attached to this girl that you want your freedom so badly...the freedom to meet your guy friends.
  
  Don't get me wrong. Im not saying don't get any girls at all. What Im saying is many people place too much pressure on themselves to get a result...which is to get attached. Have a no-result focused mentality. Learn not to depend on them. Sometimes people get too focused on results that they focus on the wrong things in life, instead of the process.
  
  The irony in life is that when you lose focus on girls, they come to you.
  
  doko

  pretty good advice... at least for me...
  
  Thanks Doko
• dakkon_blackblade

  9 Dec 06, 16:49

  Originally posted by dokono:

  This is what you do.
  
  Do not, EVER, place women as the first priority in your life.
  
  Think about it, guys. If your whole life revolves just around a woman/women, don't it seem that you have no life? Life is more than just women. You come into this world alone. You go out alone.
  
  There are more interesting things in life than just chasing skirts...unless of course, you enjoy in being a player and getting laid. But that doesn't mean the girl likes you. The girl enjoys getting laid, too. The girl has to like you for your style. Otherwise, you can continue to be an actor your whole life thinking of lame lines to entertain them or acting cool your whole life.
  
  Enjoy life. Enjoy music, philosophy, photography, art, soccer, business, dancing, music, wrestling, etc whatever that interests you.
  
  Getting women don't make your life better. Sometimes, they can piss you off. Sometimes they can frustrate you. Sometimes, you can be so attached to this girl that you want your freedom so badly...the freedom to meet your guy friends.
  
  Don't get me wrong. Im not saying don't get any girls at all. What Im saying is many people place too much pressure on themselves to get a result...which is to get attached. Have a no-result focused mentality. Learn not to depend on them. Sometimes people get too focused on results that they focus on the wrong things in life, instead of the process.
  
  The irony in life is that when you lose focus on girls, they come to you.
  
  doko

  So in short it's good for guys to play hard to get?