Strange but true.....
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i am still bewildered by many gals choice of bf.....it seem that they prefer someone who that treat them like shit rather than one who is totally devoted to them. Been a victim and also victimsed others once i grasp this strange facts.
Is there any rationale behind these?
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nan ren bu huai, nü ren bu ai
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nu ren fan jian.
nan ren xia jian. -
ya lo
l oso feel quite strange
the more u heck care that gal..scold her or wad...she mite like it more than u love her and being devoted to her
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Maybe they are macohist?
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We only want those we cant get.
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i was wondering whether they often habour secretly a desire that the bf will change for the better....my experiences is never with a capital N. Using what they perceived as real love don't really have the power to change us, instead it usually endorsed our nasty behaviour......
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stay single. =) unlimited dating partners unlimited possibilities
-priceless-
but yeah girls are *shakes head*. and sadly to say we men are too nice. -
You can't rationalize love.
And love is blind. -
Girls will take guys for granted wif he is too nice too her. Same as the other way round.
Human is strange... -
oh isit?Originally posted by perrification:stay single. =) unlimited dating partners unlimited possibilities
-priceless-
but yeah girls are *shakes head*. and sadly to say we men are too nice. -
As usual arh.
Any flaming trend or sexist comments. I'll close the topic without warning hor.
Have a healthy discussion.
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wah... wrong side of the bed..
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dont get tied down by gurls!!
otherwise = hole in ur pocket
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X2Originally posted by kenn3th:dont get tied down by gurls!!
otherwise = hole in ur pocket 
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hey u back already har?Originally posted by M©+square:As usual arh.
Any flaming trend or sexist comments. I'll close the topic without warning hor.
Have a healthy discussion.
everything ok? -
Did anything go wrong?Originally posted by browniebaobao:hey u back already har?
everything ok?
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Nice ??
What happened to the Nice and easily pushed over ?
Its more a pleasure to be riding on top of the baddy guy who is more unpredictable and excitable.
Life is too short for normalities.
Why do people go on Roller coasters? Andrenaline Rush , Hormone Rush.
If you bring too much science in and there's no more rush. It is Logic , and Logic is Boring. -
If that is the case, the gal whom u love is immature..Originally posted by evvertton:i am still bewildered by many gals choice of bf.....it seem that they prefer someone who that treat them like shit rather than one who is totally devoted to them. Been a victim and also victimsed others once i grasp this strange facts.
Is there any rationale behind these?
From what i observed,the so call good guy who treat the gal they like and end up rejected, is not that good and devoted after all.
The bad guy who also on loggerhead and the so called treat them like sh*t, is not that shitty and the so call mistreatment is not that bad after all.
I feel that a lot of guy cannot really differential what is good and what is the so call bad..
What u mention as bad and as good is only from yr perspective... Or maybe u can give better description of the mention scenario.
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TS: u forget one thing. The guys all got $$$$$
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People can't help who they end up liking. This is true. I've come across 6 guys in my life and 4 out of 6 turned out to be not what I would call "good boyfriend material." Till this day I think about it and wonder how I ever liked them. Not good looking, not too rich, and didnt posess a nice guy personality. Biggest regrets of my life if you ask me. But I realised they all had something in common. They smoked, maybe taken drugs, treated potential girl friends like trophys more than anything else, sweet talked a lot and were pretty fickle minded.
So I've come up with this theory. Because this is what I think made me end up liking those "guys".
Girls like going out with bad boys. Even if bad boys smoke, drink, take drugs, or treat their girlfriends like crap. Girls like to think that they have the power to make him fall in love with them and somehow "change for the better." That if no one else could do it, they could manage it. Changing a bad boy into a good one is somewhat of an accomplishment, something to boast about, something to feel good about. Dramas potray the typical story line. Ordinary girl meets bad boy. She feels inclined to "change" him. He snubs her off again and again. Bad boy is actually a "nice" guy inside. They get together. The end. Happy Happy. I'm sorry to say life is not a movie. Be realistic, a guy will not change who he is, what he does, his habits, his personality for anyone. Even if he does so, it is only "temporary." After the break up, he will go back to who he was before. Because that is who he truly is.
A smoker will remain a smoker. A drinker will remain a drinker. A druggie will remain a druggie. A guy who treats his girlfriend like crap will continue to do so. -
Ho sei boh? Wah... da 21K run really got me good this time... taking a long time to nurse the ankle injury...Originally posted by M©+square:As usual arh.
Any flaming trend or sexist comments. I'll close the topic without warning hor.
Have a healthy discussion.
And I smell generalisation here in this thread... -Oo- -oO- -
den hope u gals will learn to appreciate when ur guy treat u nice lo...if not later all good guys turn into bad guys liao..then u all noeOriginally posted by estaaa:People can't help who they end up liking. This is true. I've come across 6 guys in my life and 4 out of 6 turned out to be not what I would call "good boyfriend material." Till this day I think about it and wonder how I ever liked them. Not good looking, not too rich, and didnt posess a nice guy personality. Biggest regrets of my life if you ask me. But I realised they all had something in common. They smoked, maybe taken drugs, treated potential girl friends like trophys more than anything else, sweet talked a lot and were pretty fickle minded.
So I've come up with this theory. Because this is what I think made me end up liking those "guys".
Girls like going out with bad boys. Even if bad boys smoke, drink, take drugs, or treat their girlfriends like crap. Girls like to think that they have the power to make him fall in love with them and somehow "change for the better." That if no one else could do it, they could manage it. Changing a bad boy into a good one is somewhat of an accomplishment, something to boast about, something to feel good about. Dramas potray the typical story line. Ordinary girl meets bad boy. She feels inclined to "change" him. He snubs her off again and again. Bad boy is actually a "nice" guy inside. They get together. The end. Happy Happy. I'm sorry to say life is not a movie. Be realistic, a guy will not change who he is, what he does, his habits, his personality for anyone. Even if he does so, it is only "temporary." After the break up, he will go back to who he was before. Because that is who he truly is.
A smoker will remain a smoker. A drinker will remain a drinker. A druggie will remain a druggie. A guy who treats his girlfriend like crap will continue to do so. -
Immature indeed, been a ragdoll to her...
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It's actually a paradox. The thing is you are attracted to these guys because of their personalities. Once they change, you will find that these guys are no longer attractive.Originally posted by estaaa:People can't help who they end up liking. This is true. I've come across 6 guys in my life and 4 out of 6 turned out to be not what I would call "good boyfriend material." Till this day I think about it and wonder how I ever liked them. Not good looking, not too rich, and didnt posess a nice guy personality. Biggest regrets of my life if you ask me. But I realised they all had something in common. They smoked, maybe taken drugs, treated potential girl friends like trophys more than anything else, sweet talked a lot and were pretty fickle minded.
So I've come up with this theory. Because this is what I think made me end up liking those "guys".
Girls like going out with bad boys. Even if bad boys smoke, drink, take drugs, or treat their girlfriends like crap. Girls like to think that they have the power to make him fall in love with them and somehow "change for the better." That if no one else could do it, they could manage it. Changing a bad boy into a good one is somewhat of an accomplishment, something to boast about, something to feel good about. Dramas potray the typical story line. Ordinary girl meets bad boy. She feels inclined to "change" him. He snubs her off again and again. Bad boy is actually a "nice" guy inside. They get together. The end. Happy Happy. I'm sorry to say life is not a movie. Be realistic, a guy will not change who he is, what he does, his habits, his personality for anyone. Even if he does so, it is only "temporary." After the break up, he will go back to who he was before. Because that is who he truly is.
A smoker will remain a smoker. A drinker will remain a drinker. A druggie will remain a druggie. A guy who treats his girlfriend like crap will continue to do so.
I think that's why some girls keep getting hurt if they do not realise that part of the problem to the equation is with the type of guys they "thought" they like. This is another reason why most guys don't get it.