Originally posted by rtspkt:
most of these guys are prolly talking about THEIR qualities really..
you can't ask them?!?!?! it varies from person to person, and your (their) purpose. I assume your topic is about "knowing the qualities 'they' want and adjusting to fit them so that you can find someone"
If that's the case, then you're just gonna be someone you're not, you sure you can handle or not?
First: Purpose, what I mean?
You looking for a fling? (sex or not sex. i don't know)
or a companion?
or a boyfriend/husband?
I think you need to observe yourself what kinda guys turn you on, what's so common in them, looks, personality, habits, etc? AND, what kinda guys you click well with.
Most important, don't stress and let it flow.
Thank you very much for this reply...
Hahas, you're right. According to these qualities, most of them are not me. I guess I'm just feeling the pressure from my peers. Most of them have their somebody, just curious. Because I don't even have a close guy friend... Hahas.