Am I trying to forget her or trying to remember her?
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u have to admit. that's good therapy.Originally posted by Agenda:die pls -
to occupy urself with other stuff.
dun talk or msg her for afew wks.
go out with frenz, make new frenz.
read bible.
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ya lo...l agree with cool gal say...juz keep urself occupy...Originally posted by Cool-gal:to occupy urself with other stuff.
dun talk or msg her for afew wks.
go out with frenz, make new frenz.
read bible.
tats my self-healing therapy.
Do sumtinz..dun keep idling or nver do anything...cuz it will juz make u anyhow tink again...
Actually time is all u nid...as time passes..slowly slowly things in ur heart will disappear =D -
Thanks for your concern square I am feeling better liao I am starting to have the thinking that if she doesn't want to be together with me I can still look for other girls there maybe even better than her am i right to said that I am feeling better now..... Thanks again.....Originally posted by M©+square:Erm, no one is going thru these ordeal like you do. You're a special case.
No doubt. Everyone will have a hard time accepting the facts of life.
It's only how much of sanity each individual case takes to overcome it.
You? You lose your senses.... -
Yep I understand the feeling. Forgetting is the logical way, but also the hardest way...Originally posted by Agenda:Everytime I see her online, I feel the urge to give a nudge then strike up a conversation. Whenever I flip through my phonebook, I feel a need to send a little message.
But what for? She's never gonna like me anyway, She's already got someone better and I'm not even fit to being a third party let alone fit enough to be with her
I wanna erase her from my memories but I can't bear to do it, And everytime I tell myself someone else will eventually come into my life then I think of her which makes me wanna call her up and all.
I know my efforts are probably all futile but I just can't forget her so easily. 
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Like what they always said, keep yourself busy before you know it you will be forgetting abt her already.....
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Originally posted by Agenda:
I think that's the problem for most people who post in AA(me included). We will post a question here wondering if that someone likes us, or talk about our failed relationships etc. One common trend is that we like so-and-so, or we think of so-and-so, but we think that it may not be worth our while to go and approach that person or something, because of various reasons.
Everytime I see her online, I feel the urge to give a nudge then strike up a conversation. Whenever I flip through my phonebook, I feel a need to send a little message.
But what for? She's never gonna like me anyway, She's already got someone better and I'm not even fit to being a third party let alone fit enough to be with her
I wanna erase her from my memories but I can't bear to do it, And everytime I tell myself someone else will eventually come into my life then I think of her which makes me wanna call her up and all.
I know my efforts are probably all futile but I just can't forget her so easily.
THAT, actually is our problem, and not whether the person like us or not. When we do something, we have to think of million and one things first, before we dare even take that first step. But, think about it: If we had taken that first step, such as talking to her/him, SMS/MSN or whatever, won't it have solve a lot of problems? Do not neglect the power of 1 small step. It usually is the step to big things and accomplishments. Just ask those who are brave enough to approach people they like, and now is soaked in bliss of love.
For the TS, since the girl already has a bf, just let it be. The chance of chasing her was long gone..May u find another better one. -
Originally posted by Agenda:Everytime I see her online, I feel the urge to give a nudge then strike up a conversation. Whenever I flip through my phonebook, I feel a need to send a little message.
But what for? She's never gonna like me anyway, She's already got someone better and I'm not even fit to being a third party let alone fit enough to be with her
I wanna erase her from my memories but I can't bear to do it, And everytime I tell myself someone else will eventually come into my life then I think of her which makes me wanna call her up and all.
I know my efforts are probably all futile but I just can't forget her so easily. 
why you so po po ma ma - wanna contact her go ahead, don't think too much. Whether she likes you or not you still can treat her as friend right? -
seriously i was talking to a friend a while back whom i used to like. I still treat her as a normal friend and chat... then she said 'if you want to be my friend, then wait for me to get a bf first... to test ur sincerity as a friend'Originally posted by rane: why you so po po ma ma - wanna contact her go ahead, don't think too much. Whether she likes you or not you still can treat her as friend right? 
immediate block and delete from msn, hp, skype... everything.
what kinda a crazed person is that? -
why revive this thread?
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wait!Originally posted by mayday80:seriously i was talking to a friend a while back whom i used to like. I still treat her as a normal friend and chat... then she said 'if you want to be my friend, then wait for me to get a bf first... to test ur sincerity as a friend'
immediate block and delete from msn, hp, skype... everything.
what kinda a crazed person is that?
What kind of crap is that?!
Can you also delete her number and other contacts ? You know, there are some girls you must avoid. Not every girl is good girlfriend material.
doko -
haiz...
same thing here
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You want us to close it for you?Originally posted by Agenda:why revive this thread? -
Yes thank youOriginally posted by Devil1976:You want us to close it for you?
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Thread Close upon approval of TS