Already 36 and no girlfriend :(
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Take heart! Mebbe u r a late bloomer! The earlier u blossom, the sooner u wither. Life's a marathon, not a sprint....!
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erm.. for some things, its not e result that matters, but the processOriginally posted by :Take heart! Mebbe u r a late bloomer! The earlier u blossom, the sooner u wither. Life's a marathon, not a sprint....! -
There's nothing wrong with being without a girlfriend at age 36. You should not question your self-worth because of it.Originally posted by cirruslogic:I am already 36 and I do not have a girlfriend. The girl I still think about is not interested in me. I think it is because I am not good looking and I'm not rich like her previous boyfriend.
For that matter I notice that girls don't look at me. I don't know what is wrong with me. Maybe it's my eye browes being too thick, or my face is too big. I just don't know why.
How can I get over this and not be sad about not having a girlfriend.
I'm sure one day, you will meet a girl who finds you interesting, who adores you the way you are. I know this may sound cliche, but you know, it's true. Life's a long journey, don't write yourself off so early. And when you eventually find that girl, treasure her.
Being rich, often makes it easier. Many girls do get attracted to that.
You know, it's not our fault if we're not born rich. But hey, you can change that destiny! You can do something about it. Read Rich Dad Poor Dad for some inspirations if you need to.
I'm not saying that get rich, and that's the way to get girls notice you.
I'm saying that don't keep thinking about what you don't have, think of doing something about what you don't have.
You know i been through alot too and i know one thing for sure: Nobody is always a loser in Life. Everybody does get a chance to win. Your chance will come.
I wish you success in 2007. Happy New Year! -
can i post mine?Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Post me your birth details and I shall have a quick look at your birth chart.
Details includes:
Birthday
Time born (According to Birth Cert)
Place born (Singapore?)
Cheers
i'm single also
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are you happy single?Originally posted by dragg:frankly, are there happy singles?
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obviously not!!!Originally posted by blu_sky:are you happy single? -
i am sorry....Originally posted by dragg:obviously not!!! -
Originally posted by Yunhaier: Post me your birth details and I shall have a quick look at your birth chart.
Details includes:
Birthday
Time born (According to Birth Cert)
Place born (Singapore?)
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many of my single friends feel that way too.Originally posted by blu_sky:i am sorry....
they are either in their late 30s or early 40s. -
Me too!Originally posted by Bontakun:Can I post mine too?
No serious, can I post mine too? I wanna noe more. -
I won't quite agree with ya on that....?Originally posted by dragg:frankly, are there happy singles?
not if they are still young and always full of activities. -
I have been flooded with PMs.
People, please do not PM me with your birth details asking me to do readings for you guys. yunhaier is not a fortune teller, albeit yunhaier's does include astrology as part of my thesis of love and relationship.
I only study love; I am not an professional astrologer. Therefore I pick specific case study on whom I want to understand more about.
As again, if you guys are interested in, do PM Oceanos or Zacken - they are the ones who can give you proper readings.
P.S: For those who PM me and mentioned that they have issues, please post your problem in aunt agony (or if you are uncomfortable, you could PM me again with your crisis). I will try to get back asap.
Happy New Year!
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yo ren zhong zhi long.. y? u doing promotion for me ah ???Originally posted by Yunhaier:I have been flooded with PMs. People, please do not PM me with your birth details asking me to do readings for you guys. yunhaier is not a fortune teller, albeit yunhaier's does include astrology as part of my thesis of love and relationship.
I only study love; I am not an professional astrologer. Therefore I pick specific case study on whom I want to understand more about.
As again, if you guys are interested in, do PM Oceanos or Zacken - they are the ones who can give you proper readings.
P.S: For those who PM me and mentioned that they have issues, please post your problem in aunt agony (or if you are uncomfortable, you could PM me again with your crisis). I will try to get back asap.
Happy New Year!
Cheers
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I told my grandmother and relatives who kept on asking this : I am working and saving money to become a rich bi-tch with plenty of toyboys. Guaranteed 100% to prevent them from asking again.Originally posted by Meocon1307:If you are males, 36 or 41 is fine , but if you are female, it is hard...Like me, 31 no b/f. When I visit relatives or friends, they always ask me. Everytime they ask, I find it sensitve and personal. They said "what's wrong with you?" But you know, nothing wrong with me. I have good education, quite charming peronality and not much demanding... , good career, like cooking and family life. I just think I have not met Mr Right whom I can share my life with and have great companionship that I enjoy. So it is hard to hold hand walking together...
I find that most singles seem to be inactive in searching for someone they like or who could be their Mr Right but they expect him/her to appear out of no where. Unfortunately in life , you cannot expect that. You have to go out and meet people - get to know them and then hopefully someday it will click somehow . [/u] -
Yesterday, I called my uncle in US and wished him a Happy New Year...Talking for a while he asked again ...then said, "quickly otherwise you will expire!!! " Then compare me to my cousins .
Then I went out with my friend tonight and said to him I am going holidays in Singapore and Malaysia , he said I am going there to visit my past relationship because I cannot find a new one here...!! Last time, when I was sick, one of my friends said because I am not married!!!
All are just so sensitve!!! It is lucky I do not live in Aisa and also it is unlucky that is hard to find a nice Asian guy overseas... -
Yah lor... I will claim 10% charge for those referred by me.Originally posted by zacken99:yo ren zhong zhi long.. y? u doing promotion for me ah ??? 
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maybe once you have gf you will prefer to be single...
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As for girlfriend, I can advise you, but not sure if you agree to my philosophy.
No big deal not having a gf, but a bid deal not having enough money especially in Singapore.
Since you are a grad, you can join SDU, or other paid dating agencies for their services. SDU have a lot of activities for their members, and if you join their activities regularly, I am sure you will find your soulmate soon.
If you want to get married before 30, how about getting a wife from Vietnam, Myanmar if by then you are not able to find a soulmate.
Sad to say this, appearances does play a part. If you are handsome, no lack of gfs, but if you are ugly, thats it, thats the nature of the world isnt it. Money also apply to this logic. If you are ugly, but rich and drives a ferrari, I guess girls will stick to you like bees attracted to honey.
Heck why do you have to think you have to get married before or at 30 and start a family. There are people who are married at 30, 30 plus or even 40.
If you have this concept of marriage before 30, you are putting yourself under alot of undue pressure and stress.
Would you want to rushed into a marriage, then find that the girl is not your type, or vice versa, personality clashes, no common interests and so forth.
A divorce is both time consuming and expensive for man. Also marriage does not mean married happily after. There are a lot of divorces in Singapore.
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Will someone in the forum who is single and female, go out on a date with the TS to see if there is a chance to develop from there. A night out on a movie date won't kill
Those who are abt his age ie 30 plus can consider going out on a date with the TS, give a chance to yourself and himself. If cannot work it out, then can remain as friends isn't it.
TS, you can learn from the insurance line, by asking your friends, family and relatives for referrals I find this approach easier for you to know more girls if they have someone in mind.
If not, go sign up on paid dating agencies. If you are a grad, sign up SDU as a member, if you are not, then join SDS.
If really still cannot find a gf despite of your efforts, try marriage agency for Vietnam or Myanmese gals -
HI marcteng
Oh Dear! I am a female ... long hair not short hair!!!! Thanks for yr referals. ..heheehe! But that sounds a good idea. Be open-minded and hope to meet friends ... So let me try here...heheehe!!!!!!
Born in 1975
Chinese background
Study in Monash
Live in Melbourne
Work as professional
Religion:Buddhist
Current: single
Appearance: slim (1m60, 53kg), long black straight hair, round face
Personality: active, friendly, easy-going, indenpendent, confident, family-oriented, a bit conservative.
Hobbies: travelling, camping, beaches, sight-seeings, culture exchange, reading & writing, TV-news, movies, music, cooking, gardening
Like: thoughtful, caring, confident, independent, kind-hearted
Do not like: drinking, smoking, gamlbing, violent and rude manners, being selfish and careless to others -
Originally posted by tsh:HI marcteng
Oh Dear! I am a female ... long hair not short hair!!!! Thanks for yr referals. ..heheehe! But that sounds a good idea. Be open-minded and hope to meet friends ... So let me try here...heheehe!!!!!!
Born in 1975
Chinese background
Study in Monash
Live in Melbourne
Work as professional
Religion:Buddhist
Current: single
Appearance: slim (1m60, 53kg), long black straight hair, round face
Personality: active, friendly, easy-going, indenpendent, confident, family-oriented, a bit conservative.
Hobbies: travelling, camping, beaches, sight-seeings, culture exchange, reading & writing, TV-news, movies, music, cooking, gardening
Like: thoughtful, caring, confident, independent, kind-hearted
Do not like: drinking, smoking, gamlbing, violent and rude manners, being selfish and careless to others -
Originally posted by tsh:HI marcteng
Oh Dear! I am a female ... long hair not short hair!!!! Thanks for yr referals. ..heheehe! But that sounds a good idea. Be open-minded and hope to meet friends ... So let me try here...heheehe!!!!!!
Born in 1975
Chinese background
Study in Monash
Live in Melbourne
Work as professional
Religion:Buddhist
Current: single
Appearance: slim (1m60, 53kg), long black straight hair, round face
Personality: active, friendly, easy-going, indenpendent, confident, family-oriented, a bit conservative.
Hobbies: travelling, camping, beaches, sight-seeings, culture exchange, reading & writing, TV-news, movies, music, cooking, gardening
Like: thoughtful, caring, confident, independent, kind-hearted
Do not like: drinking, smoking, gamlbing, violent and rude manners, being selfish and careless to others -
why youOriginally posted by Devil1976: ? -
Where's the threadstarter?
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