life.. i need a life!!
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career-wise...Originally posted by (human):I believe interest will make one's drive. -
You need to discover your interests first.Originally posted by sunny6110:career-wise... -
My passion dies rather fast...
Poly time -> Programming
Army-> Riding
Working -> Money
Now my passion for Money is lessening... how? -
Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself.Originally posted by sunny6110:My passion dies rather fast...
Poly time -> Programming
Army-> Riding
Working -> Money
Now my passion for Money is lessening... how? -
Yah... wat worries me is I dunno how long this will last...Originally posted by (human):Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself.
if that happens again... I guessed I'll disappear frm sgforums once again.. haha...
coz when I do things... I've 100% concentration~
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den i guess its better for you to quickly disappear lor.Originally posted by sunny6110:Yah... wat worries me is I dunno how long this will last...
if that happens again... I guessed I'll disappear frm sgforums once again.. haha...
coz when I do things... I've 100% concentration~ 
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or wait till u hav another robbery case again...then come report in sgforums tell us bahOriginally posted by sunny6110:Yah... wat worries me is I dunno how long this will last...
if that happens again... I guessed I'll disappear frm sgforums once again.. haha...
coz when I do things... I've 100% concentration~ 
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advices r always easier said then done man.
haa actually come to think bout it its not a life i need its an objective. hmm.. tho i do need more friends (not hi-bye dat type) -
join outing and make frenz lor.Originally posted by gno2:advices r always easier said then done man.
haa actually come to think bout it its not a life i need its an objective. hmm.. tho i do need more friends (not hi-bye dat type)
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sumtime if u wan life..u must make the effort to make it come true..not at there grumble and idle ard without doing anything de lo...Originally posted by gno2:advices r always easier said then done man.
haa actually come to think bout it its not a life i need its an objective. hmm.. tho i do need more friends (not hi-bye dat type)
Is like..u wan $...u hav to go and wrk...$ wont fall from the sky for u
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make new friends....
can try starting here.... i got so many great friends here!!!!
it's one of the reasons i still stick around....
that plus the fact that i also not much life!!! -
most friendships start from the hi-bye... it's up to both of u to put in effort to make the friendship growOriginally posted by gno2:advices r always easier said then done man.
haa actually come to think bout it its not a life i need its an objective. hmm.. tho i do need more friends (not hi-bye dat type) -
Don't like that say ley.. You like that say then I also machiam like no life liao..??Originally posted by smudgey:make new friends....
can try starting here.... i got so many great friends here!!!!
it's one of the reasons i still stick around....
that plus the fact that i also not much life!!! -
half - life anyone? ip add
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I can show you how to get Drive.Originally posted by sunny6110:Drive... I need Drive!!
You want the feeling of zest comes when you're awakened to the possibilities in your life -- a feeling of being truly ALIVE.
According to Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, that kind of satisfaction comes when you are achieving self-actualization -- you are becoming who you want to be.
So the first hurdle is knowing who you want to be.
Most people don't have a clue.They're so caught up with chasing the 5Cs, they don't stop to consider what is their purpose and mission in life.
So if you're not clear on where you want to go, or who you want to be, then there is nothing to self-actualize towards; there is nothing to Be.
Thus you first need to create a clear image in your mind of all the things you want to Be, Do, and Have in this lifetime.
Lancism's Drive Creation Method
1. Sit or lie down in a quiet place. Put on your favourite music if you want.
2. Practice creating pictures in your mind of the lifestyle you'd want to lead; the person you want to be, the work you want to do, the people you want to be with. Experience it fully with your five senses (see, hear, feel, taste, smell).
3. When you have an image that really gives you a sense of, "Wow, I'd really like to have this!" Then float out of your body and look at yourself in that experience from a second-person perspective. It's like looking at a photograph of yourself having a good time.
Do you understand what I mean? I mean you must see yourself; an image of yourself performing the activity you desire in those pictures.
This creates an image for the unconscious mind to aspire to BE and Experience. And this is the kind of dreaming that produces drive.
Best wishes,
Lance -
try to know more people la.. expand your social circle.. join CC programs.. just do something.. life don't come to find people who are not doing anything.
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Originally posted by Lancism:
To aspire to BE and Experience....... hmmm.... but I'm still here...
[b]I can show you how to get Drive.
You want the feeling of zest comes when you're awakened to the possibilities in your life -- a feeling of being truly ALIVE.
According to Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, that kind of satisfaction comes when you are achieving self-actualization -- you are becoming who you want to be.
So the first hurdle is knowing who you want to be.
Most people don't have a clue.They're so caught up with chasing the 5Cs, they don't stop to consider what is their purpose and mission in life.
So if you're not clear on where you want to go, or who you want to be, then there is nothing to self-actualize towards; there is nothing to Be.
Thus you first need to create a clear image in your mind of all the things you want to Be, Do, and Have in this lifetime.
Lancism's Drive Creation Method
1. Sit or lie down in a quiet place. Put on your favourite music if you want.
2. Practice creating pictures in your mind of the lifestyle you'd want to lead; the person you want to be, the work you want to do, the people you want to be with. Experience it fully with your five senses (see, hear, feel, taste, smell).
3. When you have an image that really gives you a sense of, "Wow, I'd really like to have this!" Then float out of your body and look at yourself in that experience from a second-person perspective. It's like looking at a photograph of yourself having a good time.
Do you understand what I mean? I mean you must see yourself; an image of yourself performing the activity you desire in those pictures.
This creates an image for the unconscious mind to aspire to BE and Experience. And this is the kind of dreaming that produces drive.
Best wishes,
Lance[/b]
btw... u charge for ur advice anot huh?? -
i tink next time ur turn to report...Originally posted by xShevchenkox:or wait till u hav another robbery case again...then come report in sgforums tell us bah -
Advice is free. We're all here to help each other.Originally posted by sunny6110:To aspire to BE and Experience....... hmmm.... but I'm still here...
btw... u charge for ur advice anot huh??
Try the technique. It's proven effective in a therapy setting.
Let me know if you experience an increase in Drive.
If you'd like to achieve a deeper level of change, can PM me about personal breakthrough sessions.
Cheers,
Lance -
How bout joining the gym or take up a course or something at your local CC?
I'm sure you'll be able to find likeminded frens soon.
Added bonus if you made new frens at your local CC - got kopi kakis to have supper with. =p -
feel a little bit motivated... but not enough for me to get moving ... not to mention FLY~!!Originally posted by Lancism:Advice is free. We're all here to help each other.
Try the technique. It's proven effective in a therapy setting.
Let me know if you experience an increase in Drive.
If you'd like to achieve a deeper level of change, can PM me about personal breakthrough sessions.
Cheers,
Lance
If i've found that Drive... forgive me for not replying u HERE... the reason I'm here states I'm not ready yet...
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Devil no life ma..... but got a lot of SOULS!!!Originally posted by Devil1976:Don't like that say ley.. You like that say then I also machiam like no life liao..??
hehehe I scared!!!
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You've got to have SOULS and GROOVE in LIFE BABE!Originally posted by smudgey:Devil no life ma..... but got a lot of SOULS!!!
hehehe I scared!!!
*runs far away from devil* 
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i have not been anywhere but i dont have a life too.