feeling low
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i feeling low now as i have come across a girl in my work which i find to be quite click with me.i have met her for the first time and we are already pouring out all our unhappiness,happiness and sarrow,she told me how she got deducted off her pay becoz of a silly mistake made by our boss,i was so sad after hearing her story,she is a malaysian,she told me that that period of time was the darkest of her life and she nearly commited sucide,she felt so hopless that time as half of her pay was gone,no money send back to home,eat 2 dollar everyday for whole month and one meal only during that time cry alone in the park at night.when i related her story to my male colleuge,both of us was teary.
but she go fiance liao,and i seldom see her.how i was i could chase her,but i dunt want to break up thier r/s
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Be there for her as a friend, and nothing more.
You do not want to create more distress for her by becoming a third party in her existing relationship. -
Treat her as a good friend, that's the right thing to do.
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Remain as good friends for now. If you're meant to be together, you will =)
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yap maybe u are right,her fiance treat her very well.i miss her
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ya la, control yrself...
you dunwan more trouble rite?
there are more fishes to find u kno?
gd luck!
for me, i'll rather nt find any dis yr... -
she say maybe her marriage patner is me in the future,hope she is joking ,after hearing her story,i really respect her courage,she is the first one i come across who is a strong and good girl.unlike most of the singapore girls here who is so hot temper and pamper.want this want that,i bet if i put half of the sg girls in her shoe none can surive
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I think it's better you don't generalise the Singaporean girls, just because you are smitten by some foreign girl.Originally posted by celong27:she say maybe her marriage patner is me in the future,hope she is joking ,after hearing her story,i really respect her courage,she is the first one i come across who is a strong and good girl.unlike most of the singapore girls here who is so hot temper and pamper.want this want that,i bet if i put half of the sg girls in her shoe none can surive
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ya lorOriginally posted by dokono:I think it's better you don't generalise the Singaporean girls, just because you are smitten by some foreign girl.
doko
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sorry ya i dunt mean it but i have seen 2 many and are tired of sg girls,i
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i think after she got your sympathy, the following things will happen:
1) Ask you out for coffee or dinner
2) Pretend to be sad again
3) You will ask her why
4) she will tell you she got problems paying her some relative's medical fees becos of that deduction by the boss
5) You will offer to borrow money
6) she "reluctantly" accepts
7) You never see money and her again. -
It's ok.Originally posted by celong27:sorry ya i dunt mean it but i have seen 2 many and are tired of sg girls,i
Tell me about how the Singaporean girls you know treat you or other guys.
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she wunt do that,i am sure,coz she is just another girl who miss home,imagine u away from sg in another country,how would u feel,the feeling of not going back for chinese new year reunion because of the deduction,crying to her moher on the home saying u cant go back,telling her u want to commit sucide.alone in sg,helpless noboby to turn to.bet u never try that before.and btw she is not some freaking prc.
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cannot go home for CNY then want to commit suicide? and that is strongOriginally posted by celong27:she wunt do that,i am sure,coz she is just another girl who miss home,imagine u away from sg in another country,how would u feel,the feeling of not going back for chinese new year reunion because of the deduction,crying to her moher on the home saying u cant go back,telling her u want to commit sucide.alone in sg,helpless noboby to turn to.bet u never try that before.and btw she is not some freaking prc.
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there is some other reasons i cant disclose but she will always be the special girl in my heart and she will be the few i really respect
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You can always opt to be her friend instead if you can handle it?Originally posted by celong27:she wunt do that,i am sure,coz she is just another girl who miss home,imagine u away from sg in another country,how would u feel,the feeling of not going back for chinese new year reunion because of the deduction,crying to her moher on the home saying u cant go back,telling her u want to commit sucide.alone in sg,helpless noboby to turn to.bet u never try that before.and btw she is not some freaking prc. -
I have heard of a number of Malaysian girls pulling the PRC stunt too
Don't get me wrong, alot are really nice people though.
But I find it funny really
SG guys always bitch and complain how terrible SG girls are and then my Malaysian guy friends will bitch and complain how terrible the Malaysian girls are and say that SG girls really lose to Malaysian girls hands down in terms of bitchiness and being materialistic.
Go figure...grass always greener on the other side -
i had only one thing to advice.
Move on, and never ever try to hope for something by sticking as friend.
Please for her and your sake, do not make her relationship complicated.
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Hey! Dun overgeneralized the sg gals. Some are pretty tough cookie.
Perhaps you've gotta meet more people or shd i say gals to judge.