slightly bored
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I need some advice. I have been married for about 5 years but recently I have stopped enjoying sex with my wife. I don't want to cheat and I love her as much as ever, but the sex seems to be more of a chore than a joy. Any suggestions on how to improve matters?
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Maybe you could talk to your wife frankly about this.
I would then suggest that both of you visit a proper marriage counsellor to help both of you find the intimacy that has been lost. -
try new positions, sex toys etc
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Try different outfits or characters. Example Doctor/Nurse, Prince/Princess, Teacher/Student
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watch jap av porn and try to re-enact the scenes
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how abt booking into a 5 star hotel?
or going for a 3 days star cruises?
or book a yacht and do it there, or do it in the open clear water -
change your mindset
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Having an open talk with each other is probably the best way forward.....
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i know how you are feeling now even though i'm only 19.
i might not face the same situation as you, but i can say that i once faced a similar situation.
just listening to advices alone would not help much. advices would only be a guideline as to what you can do to relieve your passion towards your wife.
try looking at your wife in a new light (treat her like a new date). buy her a new dress and take her out to dinner. shower her with passion like you once did during your courtship days. plan a little something special for her that night. try incorporating toys/role-play into your life. make that night an unforgettable one and soon you'll have a changed attitude towards her in and out of bed. -
How's your general relationship with her other than sex-wise?Originally posted by irishlaowai:I need some advice. I have been married for about 5 years but recently I have stopped enjoying sex with my wife. I don't want to cheat and I love her as much as ever, but the sex seems to be more of a chore than a joy. Any suggestions on how to improve matters?