Help Me..
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Hi to all of u who r reading this post....i jus want to see anyone can help me. Well...how should i start... im a boy in depression, 17 yrs old. I hav lost all my friends n failed my 'o' levels, n i hav nowhere to go, i do not know what to do next, n i hav seldom step out of my house since i feburary. I hav not been to the movies, shopping, and all the things teens will normally do for three years..n i am the speckie type of boy...with 1000 for both eyesight.
Wjen i was in sec 1, everything was smoothy, i hav 3 best friends and life was good. But goin to sec 2, i hav a quarrel with 1 of my best friends n b4 i know it they drift away from me slowly n soon i was alone..But goin to a new class in sec 2, i began to make new friends n soon i got to know 4 of the guys in the class. We all got on very fast n soon within 2-3 months, the bond btw the five of us grew very stronge. We were very popular in that year. And of course everything soared 4 me as i topped the class for both semester, getting 5 A1s for each of the semester. That can be said to be the peak year of my life till now. But things started to collapse on me towards sec 3. The five of us went to sec 3 together in the same class. And at the start it was like normal..but as time goes, we got to know another friend in the class n he is quite friendly n funky. Soon i was declining to go out with them to the movies and all that, as i think im not good enough to be part of them. Slowly i drifted away from them...
And from sec3 till now i haven been to the movies n all that. And with no confidence at all, my results dropped. i was 30/40 ranking in the class. Goin to sec 4, things took a worst turn, my friends started talkin n gossiping bout me..n soon the whole class was doin it. I was a loner . And everytime during the recess or break, i will always be alone...sometimes i will hide in the toilet untill the bell goes...n the feeling is terrible. When the school ends, i will always be the first to leave the school. And no surprised, i failed both semester n was last in the class rankings. Failing my 'o' levels, i try again as a private candidate n failed again. Now, im left with nothing, i hav no confidence, im jus an empty person. But i will not be a foolish person as to commit suicide. So what can i do...im facing the computer everyday for at least 7 hours a day to kill time, n my eyesight is getting bad...but what can i do.. -
great job! stay home and pass time on computer like me!
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i can't imagine myself without friends..
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patients are sharing beds in hospitals of India, children are starving in Cambodia, majority of the people are jobless and have to feed on leftovers found in rubbish dumps in Argentina... ....*cry*
you have more than sufficient food and a com with internet connection *cry*... and you are still complaining... *cry* -
argh...life just sucksssss....
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Pick up a hobby? I would still encourage to study and clear your 'O' levels. How about a part-time job? .... it whiles away your time and get some income also?
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You need to know what ya wanna do next.... And cut your lousy or bad habits..... Soaking yourself in them until they become part of your spinal cord won't help matters not to mention giving you a HARD time to move on to the next step later....Originally posted by Boy-Next-Door:Hi to all of u who r reading this post....i jus want to see anyone can help me. Well...how should i start... im a boy in depression, 17 yrs old. I hav lost all my friends n failed my 'o' levels, n i hav nowhere to go, i do not know what to do next, n i hav seldom step out of my house since i feburary. I hav not been to the movies, shopping, and all the things teens will normally do for three years..n i am the speckie type of boy...with 1000 for both eyesight.
Wjen i was in sec 1, everything was smoothy, i hav 3 best friends and life was good. But goin to sec 2, i hav a quarrel with 1 of my best friends n b4 i know it they drift away from me slowly n soon i was alone..But goin to a new class in sec 2, i began to make new friends n soon i got to know 4 of the guys in the class. We all got on very fast n soon within 2-3 months, the bond btw the five of us grew very stronge. We were very popular in that year. And of course everything soared 4 me as i topped the class for both semester, getting 5 A1s for each of the semester. That can be said to be the peak year of my life till now. But things started to collapse on me towards sec 3. The five of us went to sec 3 together in the same class. And at the start it was like normal..but as time goes, we got to know another friend in the class n he is quite friendly n funky. Soon i was declining to go out with them to the movies and all that, as i think im not good enough to be part of them. Slowly i drifted away from them...
And from sec3 till now i haven been to the movies n all that. And with no confidence at all, my results dropped. i was 30/40 ranking in the class. Goin to sec 4, things took a worst turn, my friends started talkin n gossiping bout me..n soon the whole class was doin it. I was a loner . And everytime during the recess or break, i will always be alone...sometimes i will hide in the toilet untill the bell goes...n the feeling is terrible. When the school ends, i will always be the first to leave the school. And no surprised, i failed both semester n was last in the class rankings. Failing my 'o' levels, i try again as a private candidate n failed again. Now, im left with nothing, i hav no confidence, im jus an empty person. But i will not be a foolish person as to commit suicide. So what can i do...im facing the computer everyday for at least 7 hours a day to kill time, n my eyesight is getting bad...but what can i do..
Would like to know MORE about you personally... Don't mind writing to me at [email protected]...? Thanks....
PS. And no.... I won't ask you to sell me your soul.... Who want your pathetic soul for now anyway...?
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Take your depression normal. This will not hurt you if you take it normal.
you just need some appreciation and sincere help. I suggest to go to any psychiatrist. if you dont want to do so, just share it conitnuously to any peson who loves you. Who can console you. Dont share it with any one. This will make your feelings of depression more stronger.
You can also help yourself by making some other small and easy goals for you. Achieve them. This will give you confidence.
Also read the biographies of great men. How the got theirselves succeeded.
Have trust that there is no failure. This is just a feed back of your input. You did not worked as was required, so you did not get the result you desired. Give the required in put and get the desired result.
Never be afraid of failure.
You can also help yourself by making some other small and easy goals for you. Achieve them. This will give you confidence.
Now take a start positively!
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hmm i tin everyone will hv their own up & down time.. but i hope u dun giv up juz bcoz of all tis things... i hope u can reli stand up & face all the probs.
but nw i tin most importantly is to retake ur olevel & study hard 4 it & pass it to go to poly or wad.. since u hv say u used to top the class i guess u r not stupid juz dat nw u r v blur & hv no direction.. y not put study 1st as a direction?
as 4 frenxs i guess u can slowly know more frenxs... bcoz u not in sch & sumore u seldom go out i doubt u can make more frenxs if u enclosed urself in ur own world...
as 4 ur eyesights i dun tin i can help u in any ways but dun lose ur confidence.. i hv a frenx he oso hv the same eyesight as ur but he still wearing spect..but he a v outgoing & funny guy,he make a lots of frenxs..i guess mayb u shld hv more confidence in urself dun always tin u r not gd in everytin..
hope u can find ur own direction! gd luck.. anytin u can msg mi
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study and clear your 'O' levels is the most important thing now....
if you are bored, can take up a few activities in the CC.... can get to know new friends.
taking up a part time job.. is also not a bad idea...
don't stare at the PC for too long, it won't do you any good....
will only increase your short-sightedness...
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all i know is there are lots more people in deeper shit than u but they managed to crawl out. Can you do it ?
TELL YOUR YOURSELF YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!!
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wallowing in self-pity and depression is very pathetic...stop wasting time and snap out of it okie!! What you need to do now is to clear your "o" levels...if not, then you can go to some private schools and start with their certificate courses and then go on to take your diploma and such. You are still young, life is not a bed of roses. It will have its ups and downs. If you think you are feeling bad in life, there are people who are in more worse situations then you. I have a friend who has worser situation then you but, he managed to climb out of it. So if you think you can, you can!!
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U must be strong.. in order to put yr life back into pieces...
There will be times when u feeel like giving up n then going back to yr usual depressing pathetic lifeless souless facing computer-all-day kind of shitty state.... U mus be strong to reject that temptation...
BTW movies nowadays arent that great... u aint missing much... LOL~~*
For god's sake email devil.. n bomb his mailbox..
u will do fine... maybe u shldnt sit in front of comp so much.. u shld get yr body into shape... at least u will have a great bod to show off... =]~~ -
What can I say?
The good news is that you have nothing to lose now.... whatever things you do now is sure to gain or just wasting time, nothing to lose.
For friends to drift away from you, I think you seriously have to do some soul searching. Sometimes things are very simple but we tends to complicate it, sometimes things which are obvious are not obvious afterall. Step into the shoes of your friends and what do you think they thought of you? Don't bluff yourself, if you are no good, you are no good. Learn from experience and get new friends is more important
Don't choose who can be your friends and who cannot be...... they can choose not to be your friends too. Never judge a friend by their looks or background..... be sincere! -
pls look at the date before posting hahahhaahah
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oso not our fault mah... nv @@ at the date lar..duno who tk tis thread out den we juz post lor... wad so funny abt it?Originally posted by jeramy:pls look at the date before posting hahahhaahah 
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Hey, get a life... meaning what?
U lack the confidence, what's that?
U should know, go look at urself in the mirror, u feel sorry for urself?
1st thing, being confident in life is important(note: its being confident and not arrogant, its often a thin line between that). It will be hard but what comes easy??
Understand this, make ur frens treasure u and vice versa. Stun them, shock them whatever. Its hard to teach u like this. I hope we have a certain degree of understanding.
advice:
Learn to be independent, easier said then done.
Take stride in whatever u do.
Look at urself in the mirror, esp in the public.
smile it off if u ever engage in eye contact with a stranger be it gal/guy.
take a look at the surroundings, learn from those(be it nature or ppl).
And dun worry too much, whatever life u had been leading, its fated.
Know that all these are all but experiences that u will bring to ur grave.
Most importantly, believe in whatever u do is correct... of course that will depends on ur definition of everything. To a point of arrogance is unsought of.
Take care. And believe in causality.
argh i said too much crap, just....take....care...
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aiyah but then its doubtful that he will read the reply maaaaaaaa why must make such evil faces at me!!! hahahaOriginally posted by Si|verGer:oso not our fault mah... nv @@ at the date lar..duno who tk tis thread out den we juz post lor... wad so funny abt it?
jus trying to be corny
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....no lar i wer dare to make corny face wait kana beaten by u wor~Originally posted by jeramy:aiyah but then its doubtful that he will read the reply maaaaaaaa why must make such evil faces at me!!! hahaha
jus trying to be corny 
