what should i do...
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erm... recently my parents had been quarreling because of some fiancial problem... then sometimes i will get scolded for no reason... beacuse of that i told my mum that i wanted to go work... but she disagree... she said i shld concentrate on my studies 1st... but i dunno what to do... getting real stressed cause of that.. now my parents was like... sometime quarrel then will say want to divorce... what shld i do? shld i juz go find a job and continue on my studies? morning go school... after school then go work... or i shld juz concentrate on my studies? and i didnt pay my school fees... haix... what shld i do? i am juz sec 3...
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yes.. u can work... when I was sec 3, I provide my own textbooks and I dun take pocket $$ from my mum...
O levels still can get 5 distinctions...
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you are too young to interfere.
just concentrate on your studies. work part-time only if you are sure it wont affect your studies. -
u can try to work a month or so, see if your studies are affected. if u feel u cannot take it, drop the work. priority is always school and books.
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but where can i find a job? its not easy to find a job now lor...Originally posted by Ito_^:u can try to work a month or so, see if your studies are affected. if u feel u cannot take it, drop the work. priority is always school and books. -
easiest work as banquet waiter lo... hard work thou...Originally posted by DarkDestiny:but where can i find a job? its not easy to find a job now lor...
I can guarantee u surely get affected... But O levels' chicken feet... u can start catching up 2nd half of sec 4... But wif FULL concentration
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It is common for husband and wife to quarrel... just dun interfere and concentrate on your study.Originally posted by DarkDestiny:erm... recently my parents had been quarreling because of some fiancial problem... then sometimes i will get scolded for no reason... beacuse of that i told my mum that i wanted to go work... but she disagree... she said i shld concentrate on my studies 1st... but i dunno what to do... getting real stressed cause of that.. now my parents was like... sometime quarrel then will say want to divorce... what shld i do? shld i juz go find a job and continue on my studies? morning go school... after school then go work... or i shld juz concentrate on my studies? and i didnt pay my school fees... haix... what shld i do? i am juz sec 3... -
DarkDestiny, you don't have to do anything.
Just stay calm and find your own inner peace.
If you get scolded, take it that some of your parents' frustrations are just leaking out on you.
Just be tolerant and let it pass.
Your parents are probably concerned about your future.
Perhaps they are worried about how a divorce may affect you.
Hopefully you can see that different people have different personalities and marriage is sometimes about compromise.
I'm sure you love your parents, and you want the best for them. So allow them to make their own decisions.
Stay impartial and be tolerant; understand that your parents are going through a period of change. And even though it may not be what you want, it's really their choice.
One day, you will still meet the right person for you, and there you will have your own happiness. And I'm sure you'll be much more aware of the importance of choosing a compatible partner.
Cheers,
Lance
P.S. If you can afford it, choose to focus on your studies. I found O'levels quite demanding in terms of study effort. And the marks you get greatly affect the courses you have access to. I know because I didn't do well for O's... and I wasn't working.