hmmm... 1) why ur parents want to force her to break up.Originally posted by bladez87:my sis havent been staying with us for a few years. since primary school. recently O lvl finished so she came home to stay with us. before that she stayed at our grandma place with the aunties.
so after 2months, she decided to run back to our grandma place and not come home. why?
1) my parents force her to break up with a malay guy
2) says my parents v fake, only dote me and neglect her
3) even our relatives treat her better than our parents
sigh.
i feel like slapping her sia. scolding her. but will all this help...i doubt so...
my parents feel guilty for abandoning her for so many years liao. they will nv send her to girls home.Originally posted by TYING:file the what beyond parental control against her. den sent to girls home. should able to learn how to wisen up there.
they got bad impression of malay guysOriginally posted by SGpork:hmmm... 1) why ur parents want to force her to break up.
any other reason beside he is a malay guy?
2 n 3...maybe? since she stay with them for a few years liao..since p school..
have to find out more if not cant say its her fault totally?
she got mental problem... sometimes force cannot solve it...Originally posted by bladez87:my sis havent been staying with us for a few years. since primary school. recently O lvl finished so she came home to stay with us. before that she stayed at our grandma place with the aunties.
so after 2months, she decided to run back to our grandma place and not come home. why?
1) my parents force her to break up with a malay guy
2) says my parents v fake, only dote me and neglect her
3) even our relatives treat her better than our parents
sigh.
i feel like slapping her sia. scolding her. but will all this help...i doubt so...
All your sister needs now is love. Love from you and your parents. In many ways I don't blame her for behaving like that. Sadly, to her your family is like a stranger since she grows up at your grandparents' place. What makes you think that you can tell her what to do (to break up with her bf even though it's with good intention) etc when all these years none of you show any interest in her.Originally posted by bladez87:alright all this can be put aside. no point.
what i want know is what she needs or wants the most now. and if i can accomplish that...
ask her no point, she will not talk de.
Honestly, like what the rest have posted.Originally posted by bladez87:my sis havent been staying with us for a few years. since primary school. recently O lvl finished so she came home to stay with us. before that she stayed at our grandma place with the aunties.
so after 2months, she decided to run back to our grandma place and not come home. why?
1) my parents force her to break up with a malay guy
2) says my parents v fake, only dote me and neglect her
3) even our relatives treat her better than our parents
sigh.
i feel like slapping her sia. scolding her. but will all this help...i doubt so...
but since she does not want to listen to your parents, you all have to do something before all is too late.Originally posted by bladez87:my parents feel guilty for abandoning her for so many years liao. they will nv send her to girls home.
The highlighted is only by your assumed opinion or observation.Originally posted by bladez87:trying. thanks for the help.
just felt she v ungrateful when she said what our parents did for her is v fake.
now she home le. my parents talked to her. hopefully she understands. my parents visit her every weekend while my mom stays over some weekdays. so she is not entirely deprived of parental love.
i believe u shd try spending more time on her and talk with her as much as u can.Originally posted by bladez87:my sis havent been staying with us for a few years. since primary school. recently O lvl finished so she came home to stay with us. before that she stayed at our grandma place with the aunties.
so after 2months, she decided to run back to our grandma place and not come home. why?
1) my parents force her to break up with a malay guy
2) says my parents v fake, only dote me and neglect her
3) even our relatives treat her better than our parents
sigh.
i feel like slapping her sia. scolding her. but will all this help...i doubt so...
dude.. have a heart to heart conversation with her.. thats your sister you're talking about.. we dont know her.Originally posted by bladez87:alright all this can be put aside. no point.
what i want know is what she needs or wants the most now. and if i can accomplish that...
ask her no point, she will not talk de.