My Old Frn
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Hi Guys... I am new to this forum and this is my first post.
I am currently courting a girl whom I tried to court a few years ago...In between, both of us got attached to another partner but now we're single again...
I tried to catch up with her by msging her online or via sms... The results seems mixed.. Some days she would just totally ignore me while on others we talked like old friends. I asked her out recently for dinner and she said ok though we didnt fix a date. I would like to hang out with her yet I am afraid it may be quite awkward as we havn't met for ages and also I have no idea if she's interested in a r/s as of now.
If you guys hav any ideas or advice to share, I'll be more than happy.
Thnks.
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date her out and see see lor. if not u'll always be her online "fren".
Kira -
x2Originally posted by Ito_^:date her out and see see lor. if not u'll always be her online "fren".
Kira
L -
i think that's what I would do. But before I do that I would like to have more assurances from her as well. Just in case she decides to ignore me like she does online or when i smses.
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maybe she oso feeling the same way, thus ignoring u intentionally.Originally posted by larryk:i think that's what I would do. But before I do that I would like to have more assurances from her as well. Just in case she decides to ignore me like she does online or when i smses.
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Kira, thanks for all your prompt reply. Actually I have already asked her out cos' she stays quite near me. She agreed but we havn't fix on a date yet. Hopefully it'll turn out well.
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good luck. may it be soon, or maybe can set it near valentine's day.Originally posted by larryk:Kira, thanks for all your prompt reply. Actually I have already asked her out cos' she stays quite near me. She agreed but we havn't fix on a date yet. Hopefully it'll turn out well.
ps: im ito, not kira.
Kira -
Good luck
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Must try and also be patient.
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Alright I'll be patient. Thanguys. But sometimes I'm pretty discourage when she ignores me. Yet other times she's quite friendly. Anyone knows why? Ito, sorry but whats Kira?
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enemy of L
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Why haven't you all fixed a date yet? What sort of excuses she gave you?Originally posted by larryk:Kira, thanks for all your prompt reply. Actually I have already asked her out cos' she stays quite near me. She agreed but we havn't fix on a date yet. Hopefully it'll turn out well.
doko -
its hacker from gsd lahOriginally posted by asdfzhao:enemy of L -
why does i see Kira trying to help L. Aren't they enemy who are supposed to die in the end?
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Alright... I have no idea what you guys are talking about.. Lol.. Thanks for your help and if you hav anythin to share I would appreciate it v much...
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Hi Doko....
She didnt really gave me any excuses la.. We just agreed to go out but havnt decide on a date yet... But the prob is i'm trying to talk to her more via sms or online to catch up with her and know more bout her so dat if we really go out I will know what to say... But sometimes she jus seems very cold to me and 99% I am the one initiating a conversation and it discourages me sometimes... -
To me this is bad.Originally posted by larryk:Hi Doko....
She didnt really gave me any excuses la.. We just agreed to go out but havnt decide on a date yet... But the prob is i'm trying to talk to her more via sms or online to catch up with her and know more bout her so dat if we really go out I will know what to say... But sometimes she jus seems very cold to me and 99% I am the one initiating a conversation and it discourages me sometimes...
How is she cold to you? Never reply sms? Any examples?
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no no. dats movie. L and Kira are friends in real life.Originally posted by NewAge:why does i see Kira trying to help L. Aren't they enemy who are supposed to die in the end?
anyways.. back to topic.
now dat u mention dat i think she dun take u seriously at all. juz dat since u wanted to tok with her so she play along lor. try setting up some dates and maybe she might push em away with some excuse.. like.. sorry, i busy another time can? but never say when.
but at least u'll noe wus going on in her mind, roughly, i think.
Kira -
Maybe, she just wants to be friends?
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hmm.. she will reply only once or twice when i sms her and she'll stop after dat.. Online it's abit better la.. On some days she talk nicely but on others she'll take a long time to reply and after that stop
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You know, this actually happened to me before.Originally posted by larryk:hmm.. she will reply only once or twice when i sms her and she'll stop after dat.. Online it's abit better la.. On some days she talk nicely but on others she'll take a long time to reply and after that stop
I never talked to her again because I know she has no liking for me. You don't even have to ask them out. Sometimes they purposely do this to make you back off.
Actually, you can start dating other girls because I think she is out already. You may want to try one last time to arrange a date with her. If she says busy, you can bye-bye forever. Don't keep asking and waste your time trying to strike a conversation.
doko