My mind in a total mess now!!!
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i really dunno how to put it....i find myself falling in luv with a gal in my company....however i just recieve news that she is actually dating 1 of my close fren in the company...i went checking around...seems like no 1 in the company knows that they are a item....i now feeling so low, so loss.....really feel like crying....
wat should i do??....i have few broken relationships before n i have kinda loss faith in luv....but she is the 1 who rekindle this fire...yet she is with some1...n that some1 is 1 of my close fren....wat should i do???....
and if u might be thinking how i know this, i got this news from a fren...she try n question my this close fren...after alot of questioning...my close fren finally admit their relationship....
wat should i do??.....i dun think i can face this gal or my close fren anymore.....
wat should i do???...btw thanks for reading.... -
what should you do? what can you do??Originally posted by pang_79:i really dunno how to put it....i find myself falling in luv with a gal in my company....however i just recieve news that she is actually dating 1 of my close fren in the company...i went checking around...seems like no 1 in the company knows that they are a item....i now feeling so low, so loss.....really feel like crying....
wat should i do??....i have few broken relationships before n i have kinda loss faith in luv....but she is the 1 who rekindle this fire...yet she is with some1...n that some1 is 1 of my close fren....wat should i do???....
and if u might be thinking how i know this, i got this news from a fren...she try n question my this close fren...after alot of questioning...my close fren finally admit their relationship....
wat should i do??.....i dun think i can face this gal or my close fren anymore.....
wat should i do???...btw thanks for reading....
to take the easy way out, avoid her.
if you can't see what she's doing, it will be easier to forget about all these, after all, she's nobody to you right?
feel like crying because the girl you are interested in is already attached? come on.. -
Err...actually u can try confess to the gal lor. Than it will be her choice whether to choose u or your friend. In the meantime just pretend u dunno that they are both an item, since it was harsh harsh in the first place.
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ya...maybe is abit stupid to cry over her....to avod her???....ya...that can be done....since she currently locate in another factory under our company...hope time will wash away the hurt n pain....Originally posted by jeramy:what should you do? what can you do??
to take the easy way out, avoid her.
if you can't see what she's doing, it will be easier to forget about all these, after all, she's nobody to you right?
feel like crying because the girl you are interested in is already attached? come on.. -
Hurt and pain?
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my guess that she has already know my feeling to her....she even try to match mate mi with her fren....Originally posted by sheri:Err...actually u can try confess to the gal lor. Than it will be her choice whether to choose u or your friend. In the meantime just pretend u dunno that they are both an item, since it was harsh harsh in the first place. -
after my last relationship, i have never dare to fall in luv again....i dunno how come...i just find myself wanting to be close with her, just want to know everything abt her...so long have never take the courage to luv some1...n when this news came...really like earthquake....everything just crash...Originally posted by M©+square:Hurt and pain? -
resign!!!
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I ASSUME you know her and vice versa.Originally posted by pang_79:after my last relationship, i have never dare to fall in luv again....i dunno how come...i just find myself wanting to be close with her, just want to know everything abt her...so long have never take the courage to luv some1...n when this news came...really like earthquake....everything just crash...
How far have you come in contact with her? Is she your friend already?
Have you tried dating her?
What is the frequency of conversation you estimate you had initiated?
How long have you known her?
How many relationships have you gotten yourself into?
How long did your last relationship last? When did it end? -
take some time off....Originally posted by pang_79:i really dunno how to put it....i find myself falling in luv with a gal in my company....however i just recieve news that she is actually dating 1 of my close fren in the company...i went checking around...seems like no 1 in the company knows that they are a item....i now feeling so low, so loss.....really feel like crying....
wat should i do??....i have few broken relationships before n i have kinda loss faith in luv....but she is the 1 who rekindle this fire...yet she is with some1...n that some1 is 1 of my close fren....wat should i do???....
and if u might be thinking how i know this, i got this news from a fren...she try n question my this close fren...after alot of questioning...my close fren finally admit their relationship....
wat should i do??.....i dun think i can face this gal or my close fren anymore.....
wat should i do???...btw thanks for reading....
go somewhere where you can relax and collect your thoughts....
try to avoid them (if possible) for the time being.
but you have to work on getting over the shock and accepting it.
remember, you have felt this way before (after you breakups) but you'll get over it eventually. -
Chance should be what you give to yourself and not what only so happens that someone can give to you...Originally posted by pang_79:i really dunno how to put it....i find myself falling in luv with a gal in my company....however i just recieve news that she is actually dating 1 of my close fren in the company...i went checking around...seems like no 1 in the company knows that they are a item....i now feeling so low, so loss.....really feel like crying....
wat should i do??....i have few broken relationships before n i have kinda loss faith in luv....but she is the 1 who rekindle this fire...yet she is with some1...n that some1 is 1 of my close fren....wat should i do???....
and if u might be thinking how i know this, i got this news from a fren...she try n question my this close fren...after alot of questioning...my close fren finally admit their relationship....
wat should i do??.....i dun think i can face this gal or my close fren anymore.....
wat should i do???...btw thanks for reading....
Try to recollect your thoughts and manage your own feelings 1st..
What makes you think that even if this girl is not attached then you're likely to stand quite a chance with her...?
If you're so weak emotionally, why even venture into a relationship which you don't even seems to have much chance and confidence over...? -
thanks for all ur replies....have already taken leave from the company...hide somewhere in this world n sort out my feeling...once again thanks for all the advices....
initially still thinking of sending her roses on valentine day.....looks like there is no such need anymore -
Life goes on... Save your roses for your another girl...? Why the hurry...? There's always Valentine's Day every year...?Originally posted by pang_79:thanks for all ur replies....have already taken leave from the company...hide somewhere in this world n sort out my feeling...once again thanks for all the advices....
initially still thinking of sending her roses on valentine day.....looks like there is no such need anymore
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He who dares win.
When you quietly wait for the world to conform to your mind's expectations, that is just what happens, you wait, that's all.
Your story played out accordingly, no mistake there. -
What should you do?Originally posted by pang_79:i really dunno how to put it....i find myself falling in luv with a gal in my company....however i just recieve news that she is actually dating 1 of my close fren in the company...i went checking around...seems like no 1 in the company knows that they are a item....i now feeling so low, so loss.....really feel like crying....
wat should i do??....i have few broken relationships before n i have kinda loss faith in luv....but she is the 1 who rekindle this fire...yet she is with some1...n that some1 is 1 of my close fren....wat should i do???....
and if u might be thinking how i know this, i got this news from a fren...she try n question my this close fren...after alot of questioning...my close fren finally admit their relationship....
wat should i do??.....i dun think i can face this gal or my close fren anymore.....
wat should i do???...btw thanks for reading....
Forget her. She doesn't like you. She can never like you again. You can't force her to like you. Concentrate on your work and your career. Then start getting to know other girls.
I know you can do it.
doko -
still dating only still got chance
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ya....guess u are rite...i should have made my first step when i still have the chance...but there is no point crying over spilled milk now...just wish them all the best...Originally posted by mancha:He who dares win.
When you quietly wait for the world to conform to your mind's expectations, that is just what happens, you wait, that's all.
Your story played out accordingly, no mistake there. -
First, get to know her better...
Second , know the 'truth'...
Third, plan Ur strategy...
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Interesting, you're ignoring my questions
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yes i do know her n she is my fren....n we have gone a quite a few times, in groups...as for whether i tried dating her...the answer is no....i haven't confess to her that i like her...i actually intend to do on this coming valentine day..think no need for that already...since she is already my fren's gf...known her like 3 yrs..she come into the company just abt the same time as i do....as for the rest of your question...i really dun wish to answer them...since they are the past...hope u dun mind...Originally posted by M©+square:I ASSUME you know her and vice versa.
How far have you come in contact with her? Is she your friend already?
Have you tried dating her?
What is the frequency of conversation you estimate you had initiated?
How long have you known her?
How many relationships have you gotten yourself into?
How long did your last relationship last? When did it end? -
to know the truth...well that can be abit hard to do... as i say not many ppl know their relationship...as for planing my strategy...u got any good plans??Originally posted by Simple_Bear:First, get to know her better...
Second , know the 'truth'...
Third, plan Ur strategy... -
Did you mention she tried to matchmake you with another girl?Originally posted by pang_79:to know the truth...well that can be abit hard to do... as i say not many ppl know their relationship...as for planing my strategy...u got any good plans??
doko -
Originally posted by pang_79:
In a girl's point of view, if even mustering up the courage to profess to her you have not, how do u even have the courage to protect her when needed??!
yes i do know her n she is my fren....n we have gone a quite a few times, in groups...as for whether i tried dating her...the answer is no....i haven't confess to her that i like her...i actually intend to do on this coming valentine day..think no need for that already...since she is already my fren's gf...known her like 3 yrs..she come into the company just abt the same time as i do....as for the rest of your question...i really dun wish to answer them...since they are the past...hope u dun mind... -
Good point about the courage part.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:In a girl's point of view, if even mustering up the courage to profess to her you have not, how do u even have the courage to protect her when needed??!
But then when the guy says he loves her, she immediately withdraws when she realised she is not attracted to him and then forgets that she wants the guy to profess his love.
doko -
ya...her fren...we even went to taipei & hongkong trip on a big group...thinking back those days....how i wish times could just stop at that moment...Originally posted by dokono:Did you mention she tried to matchmake you with another girl?
doko