Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:
I need to ask you guys advise for one of my friends....he got a hell lot of problems!
his wife whom he married 6 months back is finally going for her sex change operation. His marriage cert is in thai and not recognised in singapore. He needs cash bad so his wife can take the operation. His mother who has been working all her life at desker rd to raise her kids is not earning too much lately. His elder sister has been retrenched from her job since being diagnosed with aids 2 years back.
His mildly retarded younger sister who is a massage girl at geylang is currently on sick leave and has been for the past 2 months since diagnosed with congenital herpes.
He is feeling very depressed and he is unable to raise enough money for her operation. speaking to him recently he confessed to me that working as a 'duck' was not very profitable these days. Although he is HIV positive, his condition has not worsen to having AIDs. His younger brother who died 4 years back from Hap B left them with tons of loan shark debts that cannot be repaid.
readers pls advise!!
hmmm..... but its seems like the one and only problem he should be concerned about is lack of funds for sex change for wife... assuming tt wife is healthy, convince her to work hard for her future, join the family business, she shd excel with proper guidance and family support
so i guess mother has some weight (mental) lifted off her for the moment.
I thought there r some support groups for aids victims, elder sis might like to find out more...is she in Singapore?
does younger sis mind the sick leave or herpes? whats the problem? shd be no problem convincing her tt going blind or mad is better than staying retarded if uncomfortable with herpes...yes i guess it doesnt have to make much sense
since debt cannot be repaid than its not problem anymore... they just have to think positive... like maybe wife will be new queen/king or such
ur friend's condition seems stable, so theres no cause for worry, many troubled pple racked their brains to come up with excuses to commit suicide... come full blown aids, he doesnt even have to make excuse to die...
Good Luck
