Whenever you feel that something's not right for you about this relationship, you should always remind yourself that this is about LOVE... Not about the maintainence a relationship, not about taking... And not even only about giving....Originally posted by loti:I have being with my gf for abt 8mths plus.This is my first r/s.Suddenly,i feel so lost.I'm asking myself is she really the one for me.I'm getting more and more tired loving her.Sometime,i'm asking myself whether i'm expecting too much from her or myself.Am i doing the rite thing??My fren say i'm too naive in terms of i'm expecting the r/s to be plain sailing.I agree that maybe it's true but i guess the task of maintaining a r/s is much tougher than wat i thot.I really dun wish to give up this r/s becos we went thru one big round before we get together.Is this fate???Shld i adopt an easier approach like "as long both of us r happy,that's enough"???
hmm, i feel that the MOST important thing is that the guy must be able to give the ger security. security in protecting her from any harm, and also to let her know that he will always be there for her, will not just walk out of her life.Originally posted by CloneMe72:What is the job scope of a BF?![]()
LOVE is a lovely plant which grows by itself... The LOVE that it produces NURTURE and SUBSTAIN itself.... Just LOVE her, don't worry about whether you're giving enough to her... That just COMES NATURALLY, when you're TRULY IN LOVE with her.... And when you LOVE her that much... Her LOVE for you should just comes in proportional too, THOUGH not 'DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL'.... That's when LOVE would grow on its own and exist for the sake of its existence.... If that's not the case, worry not too...? It just means that the time is not ripe or it's not meant to be.... Why worry and see so far into the future, when in fact, there may not even be a future...?Originally posted by loti:I have being with my gf for abt 8mths plus.This is my first r/s.Suddenly,i feel so lost.I'm asking myself is she really the one for me.I'm getting more and more tired loving her.Sometime,i'm asking myself whether i'm expecting too much from her or myself.Am i doing the rite thing??My fren say i'm too naive in terms of i'm expecting the r/s to be plain sailing.I agree that maybe it's true but i guess the task of maintaining a r/s is much tougher than wat i thot.I really dun wish to give up this r/s becos we went thru one big round before we get together.Is this fate???Shld i adopt an easier approach like "as long both of us r happy,that's enough"???
maybe u dont hve 2 worry abt whether she is e ONE... take every r/s as a lesson.. where u learn abt trust n understandin.. where u learn how 2 give in.. where u learn 2b a beta person...Originally posted by loti:I have being with my gf for abt 8mths plus.This is my first r/s.Suddenly,i feel so lost.I'm asking myself is she really the one for me.I'm getting more and more tired loving her.Sometime,i'm asking myself whether i'm expecting too much from her or myself.Am i doing the rite thing??My fren say i'm too naive in terms of i'm expecting the r/s to be plain sailing.I agree that maybe it's true but i guess the task of maintaining a r/s is much tougher than wat i thot.I really dun wish to give up this r/s becos we went thru one big round before we get together.Is this fate???Shld i adopt an easier approach like "as long both of us r happy,that's enough"???